please answer thiss!!!?

Question

Well.. I think it's kind of confusing.

See about 6-8 months ago this girl liked me from my now old school (I transferred to a different High School).. Anyways I recently made a Facebook because I was lonely during the summer (I hate Facebook to be honest.) So I added her a couple days ago and we started talking... So I discovered a lot about her, and that I had misjudged her, I thought she would be just like any other girl, but we have similar taste in music, and she's REALLY trust worthy.. We essentially talked all night last night.

We have the same views on relationships, we have the same views on a lot of things. She said she'd really miss me because I was really funny and I always made her laugh.
Now I was stupid. This girl had a huge crush on me and, for **** sakes and she asked me "Why did you run away, did I scare you at all?". I told her the truth, the biggest one being I was in a LDR with a chick for about a year and a half. It was embarrassing to say... But no one here has actually liked me for my personality.

So this girl and I have essentially been opening up, and I really REALLY feel bad.. Because now I'm realizing that she's awesome. She's sexy, smart, beautiful, is artistic, etc.

I feel even worse because she even came to a fencing tournament once.. (I help coach her bestfriends little brother).. and she was super into me and was like cheering me on and ****..

Wow.. now that I seriously think of it, I was an asshole. I'm actually crying of guilt.
Story is now that I like her so much.. I had asked her if she was free this weekend and she said she had a party and she was going to stay at a friends house. But she said "But I'll make some time for you next weekend :D"

I told her I couldn't hold it in anymore; and that I was going to wait for the weekend, but I ended up telling her I liked her on Facebook. I told her I really wanted to just tell her

She said "You're a really special guy who doesn't have much; but one day you'll be happy, I promise. There are honestly thousands of girls that would kill for a guy for you. I know life hasn't been fair to you, but you'll be happy."

...Anyways, she told me she used to cut herself and only a few know. I told her I used to be like that myself. I made her promise me that she has me, and that all she needs to do is call me and I'll call a cab and I'll be there in a heartbeat to hold her for hours if I have to. But I said she can trust me (Which she does)..


I'm not sure if you guys know much about NB.. But our province is full of pricks. And I thought she was just like all the other girls...

I told her I'm unbelievably sorry for the way I treated her this year.. She kept on saying it's ok and that she's the most chill person ever... Which just makes me want her more...

Wow I realize I just ****** up alot... And I feel incredibly bad.

So is there any hope for her liking me again? (She's single, but she likes another guy).

Answer 1

tell her what you told me- um us. tell her you realize that you weren't thinking before, and know you really wish you could make up for it know, and you wanna know if there's any chance at all if she still likes you or ever will becuase you can't stand not being with her and it kills you more and more eveyday when you think of how badly you treated her, and you wanna make up for. so what you wanna know is , will she give you a(nother) chance, because you want her so bad. you want to be hers, and her be yours. tell her you'll do anything for her, and you will treat her better than anyone else could ever dream of treatin' her. tell her you love everything about her, and it kills you when your not with cuz you are constantly thinking about her, always.



see what she says when your romantic like that? if im the best answer(Hopefully am, i tried my hardest)give me feedback i wanna know how it turns out i truly hope i helped you out. :)

Answer 2

Ok i didn't really understand what you did wrong there..except from not telling her how you feel whilst you were in the same school. All i can say is that you just have to take her out for lunch and talk to her in person, let your heart out to this girl and see how she responds, and if she says she isn't interested anymore, tell her to think about by saying that your the best guy for this girl, that you two are a 100% match for each other. don't be forceful or scary in the way you say it however. But make sure she doesn't think that you are just having a petty crush, tell her how serious you are about it and work your way out of the friends zone.

I wish you the best of luck and i hope you have this girl in a beautiful relationship.



-Ryan

Answer 3

Sure, there's hope. Just be patient. If you just started talking to her again a few days ago, then give it some time. If you were a complete asshole to her before, she probably hasn't forgotten and even though she says she trusts you and forgives you for being a jerk in the past, she likely still has some negative feelings and distrust for you. Give her some time to see that you are a good guy (if you really are).

Answer 4

I think the only thing you can do right now is just be there for her.