Boys, is this really an unwritten guy rule?

Question

My boyfriend and I broke up a while ago. He has a friend that he's not super close to. They used to be good friends a couple years ago but now they are more like good acquaintances. After the break up, the friend and i started talking and after about two months, he asked if I wanted to go see a movie with him one afternoon. I went and we kissed. My ex is mad because he claims that his friend should have asked his permission to kiss me. I' m not dating the friend. Just kissed. So, did the friend really break a guy rule?

Answer 1

no. if they were best friends or brothers maybe, but just a friend not super close to. no



who cares if you ex is mad anyway

Answer 2

Well it all depends. I'm a guy so take my advice on this. You might not like the way this sounds but u asked for it. If your ex really liked you and cared for u then the other guy broke the guy rule. Because thats not cool for your suppose to be friend to just go hop on the girl u had feelings for. Now heres the other thing. Sometimes us guys have ex girlfriends who we don't give a s**t about and we are so fed up with them that we don't give a F**K who talks to them next. Thats how that part of the game works.

Answer 3

That "Guy rule" is such BS seriously, i mean i could see if they were close friends but they aren't so therefore he didn't do anything wrong, plus it was just a kiss. I guess this whole "Guy Rule" really does just depend on who you ask because there is no true fact of it, its all just and opinion and very one has different opinions. But good luck anyway :]

Answer 4

um ya. You shouldnt even be hanging out with his guy friend in the first place, kissing him! I understand its his ex but you should cut ties with him. Bros before "hos". His friend shouldve rejected you! That was his fault bc your his ex. You don't kiss your friends ex girlfriend, it goes the other way as well. Yup! The friend broke the rule. He developed feelings for his ex, didn't care about your ex's feelings at all. He's selfish.

Answer 5

The real rule is more like this kinda



- you are not allowed to date your bestfriends girlfriend without him bieng ok with it.



- if your are only a normal friend not really good friends with him you should give about a month b4 going out with the girl ( a time for the guy to get back if he wanted to)

Answer 6

Um... I don't think so. Although I'm only 15, I've seen no cultural evidence that points to such a "rule". I'm not sure exactly what's going on here... But since your new date is friends with you ex, I'm not sure exactly what's going on here.

Personally, I think that your ex is jealous of guy number 2.

Answer 7

broke a rule. Thats just as important as the rule stating, you dont kick another guy in the balls....



its right on par with that



dating ur boys ex is like kickin him in the balls--bros before hoes



broke guy code

Answer 8

I think you to define "a while ago". A week, a month, a year? Time makes a huge difference when talking about unwritten guy/girl rules.

Best of luck!

Answer 9

His permission. When did he start owning you? Is he your father? I don't think this is a guy rule, and enough time went by that you shouldn't even be telling him what you did with his friend.

Answer 10

yes he did break a rule, and if your ex let me i would kick his friend *** for him thats a no no every guy knows this. lol.. .in all honest he should be upset with you .old friends what ever just ask your self if it would bother you if the shoe was on the other foot

Answer 11

Depends on what the friend knew the other guy still felt for you......the time frame, etc. But nah probably not, you probably just broke the exs heart. Be nice to both of them haha :). They are probably both confused as hell atm.

Answer 12

well thats also kindof a girl rule too. how would you feel if you were dating a guy and then yall broke up. and then he dated someone you were kindof friends with? just to put it into perspective..

Answer 13

Your ex boyfriend and you aren't together so that gives you the freedom to see who you want to see even if it is his friend. Sure, us guys have "You don't date the ex" rule, but if your ex really cared, he would want you happy.







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Answer 14

Depends on who broke up with who. If a guy broke up with the girl she is fine to ask out. If you broke up with him he should have asked.

Answer 15

OOUUCCCHHHH. Yeah that's a big no-no. That's an unwritten guy rule. I'm sorry to hear that. :[



Gene

Answer 16

NO, you didn't break a rule.



You broke your Ex BF's heart - he still has strong feelings for you.

Answer 17

Oh ya! my friend has sex with my ex gf a month later after i broke up with her. I shanked him and we got into a knife fight. He appoligized and we shook hands (gross cause we got blood on each other). now we ok.

Answer 18

yeah

its called man rule

and you don't do that w/ ur best friends ex girlfrien

however in your guys defense, the guys have kinda grown apart



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Answer 19

well, apparently this guy friend who you kissed broke the bros b4 hoes(no offense) rule.

Answer 20

Well, that's kinda weird.

Your boyfriend isn't dating you anymore. it's none of his business about what goes on with your relations/dating life.

Answer 21

He sure did break a rule! What a jackass =\

Answer 22

well that depends, maybe he's still not over you, but you shouldn't date your friend's ex, thats just messed up

Answer 23

You broke the man rule!!!!!!

Answer 24

No, it's not like you & yer ex are still together.

Answer 25

he should atleast assked if it was cool it you two got close ... i would do that ... unless he is not really my friend.. and i dont want to lose his friendship

Answer 26

pretty much yea,,,we dont want 2 hurt our friends

Answer 27

No, after he's gone, he's gone. You're a free individual.

Answer 28

Kick the fag in the nuts. He's a homo.

Answer 29

not really its just irritating

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