Question:
Why Couldn't My Crush Tell Me Happy Birthday ? 10 Points !!?
2015-02-09 16:13:45 UTC
Okay so my birthday was last Saturday. And my crushes "best friend" (lets call her R) that I don't talk to anymore, was trying to convince my crush to get him to say happy birthday to me. R said to my crush "just tell her happy birthday and make her day!" At first he told her, "tell her happy birthday for me ;)" And R said no because she said that I would of thought that she was making fun of me because she was mentioning my crush, kinda like teasing me about it you know ? Then my crush said "how am I suppose to tell her I cant" then R told him to do it on Twitter or Facebook, and he didn't want to. R then said to my crush to follow me on Twitter, and he said "I don't think so" with a laughing emoji. Then in the end, he told R he would eventually find me on Twitter to say happy birthday to me, and he never did. And today I barely found out that one of my friends told him to also tell me happy birthday, and he just said to her "alright I will." And my friend thought that he did, but he never did. My friend called him fake, and I kinda agree with her tbh. Me and my crush haven't talked in like 2 1/2 months, and he makes no effort, and I always do, so I stopped talking to him. He could tell R a happy birthday but not me?

Why wouldn't he be able to tell me happy birthday ? I mean it's not hard to say 2 simple words. Is it because he doesn't like me or he knows I like him? maybe he's shy?
Four answers:
whatdoiknow?
2015-02-09 16:27:33 UTC
I'm not sure what his reasons were. He doesn't seem to be shy. If you're making all the moves and your friends are practically begging him to say happy birthday to you, then he's not worth your time. Maybe he's crushing On you and he's shy. Maybe he knows you like him and doesn't want to give you the wrong idea. I just know if my crush wanted me to say happy birthday and I KNEW they liked me, I would write on their wall "happy birthday" it's not that hard. He's just not feeling it.
?
2015-02-09 16:21:00 UTC
Honestly, I feel like if he's not going to make the effort than why bother? He legit could of just wrote it on your wall if he was shy or something like that. I would say move on especially since you haven't talked to him in awhile.
?
2015-02-09 16:20:30 UTC
he doesn't like you, sorry, just move on by trying to look for someone else.
Holly
2015-02-09 16:19:24 UTC
Could be shy or have a crush on you


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