If you call a girl to ask her out and end up leaving a messazge, then she doesn't call back, do you give up?
2005-12-09 08:42:41 UTC
If you call a girl to ask her out and end up leaving a messazge, then she doesn't call back, do you give up?
Six answers:
kamolahy
2005-12-09 08:50:46 UTC
Don't ask a girl out in a message. No good. Talk to her. In fact... if at all possible, do it in person. Come of confident but not cocky. Make sure you see her face to face.
The thing about a message is that you can assume that she got it and just didn't call back, when maybe she never did. That's an unsure variable.
I currently am dating a girl that never called me back. Come to find out that she liked me the whole time and was shy to call back. Plus I found out she just doesn't call people back very much anyway. She's got bad phone ettiquite. But, she's an awesome girl and I'm glad I made the effort beyond the phone call.
martyz
2005-12-09 16:52:32 UTC
Give up. Do not call again. Wait for her to call.
If she doesn't... no biggie. Move on. TPOFITS - There's plenty of fish in the sea.
The most important thing about dating is to NOT come across as needy. Women can immediately pick up on that. The instant a girl/woman senses you really REALLY want to go out on a date, she'll immediately think you have problems and avoid you.
Be like the Fonz. Play it cool.
patrickdenney2
2005-12-09 16:52:06 UTC
Yes and no, maybe she didn't get the message? Try one more time but if you don't get a call back than she is just a bi*** and you wouldn't want to date a bi*** now would you?
beno409
2005-12-09 16:45:28 UTC
Depend's how hot she is. Very hot yes call back, not so hot then no theres too many women out there to worry about one that wont call you back.
flösen
2005-12-09 16:50:04 UTC
YES! if you keep trying, she'll see you as a stalker and that's not where you wanna go with this.
ask more girls til one calls you back ;)
nammy
2005-12-09 16:49:25 UTC
yes. give up. move on. i'm sure you'll find someone more worth talking to anyway! :)
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