Question:
My heart hurts! PLEASE HELP?
Lisa
2009-09-05 20:17:11 UTC
A year ago I met this guy. We started to go out and since then we talked 3 times a week, we kissed and he always asked for sex, which I never gave him. He seemed a very serious and hardworker guy. This is why I tried to build a relationship based in support and communication. I always dreamed to build something serious with him. After a year he called me on the phone and "ended" the relationship. He said that he wanted to leave the past behind, the friends with benefits. That I had been a friend with benefits to him among many others and he wanted to end this to start looking for a stable partner, a serious relationship.
I am so sad, I love him and I always waited for the moment he wanted to get serious with the relationship, I never thought that just in that moment he will discard me
I am a person who doesn´t give up, I strive for things. But what do you think? should I keep up looking for him or forget him?
Six answers:
Roxy16
2009-09-05 20:22:31 UTC
NOOO u will seem desprate an get ur heart broken again. plus u seem independent so jus move on
Stefano85
2009-09-05 20:23:37 UTC
"One among many others"????

Forget about that!

Look for someone that really cares about you, someone who puts you __before__ all the others!

There's no way he's going to love you if he says that!
frankie
2009-09-05 20:21:11 UTC
you dont know what you have till its gone. maybe you took advantage of that. try to talk to him. if he doesnt want anything. its time to move on.
misspreggers
2009-09-05 20:25:02 UTC
I think you should just tell him how you feel. If not, move on. Good luck!
2009-09-05 20:19:53 UTC
Call the doctor.
cyrstal
2009-09-05 20:21:23 UTC
find someone better, girl! :))


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