OMG is this the wrong way to do it?

Question

so like me. some of my bffs, guy friends, and my bf were hanging out at the neighborhood club house and we were playing truth or dare. (we r suck freaks:D) and so i got a dare and i had to go skinney dipping in the oht tub with the watever guy the bottle stopped at (so it was kinda liek truth or dare and spin the bottle). well it turns out it was my bf. and i was glad but a little nervious. we had talked about sex but had never done ot before. so heres how it went... (oh yah the others werent aloud to watch)
so he got in the tub then took of his bathing suit. and i took it off in the dressing room so i walked out and his mouth dropped. idk if that was a good thing!? and we felt eachother and made out under water. i enjoyed it and we did sex underwater so it was pretty fun. it had been like 30 mins and my friend came out and was like ok u can come out now. but the truth was i dint want to! so like idk if we should so it in bed or wat!? please help! was this wrong to do?

Answer 1

Minimum age should be 18. That's when a person is legally responsible for the consequences of their actions. Prior to that, your folks are primary responsible...and they shouldn't have to pay one cent toward medical bills for pregnancy or STD treatment for their kid.



If a person wants to have sex, they need to be able to handle ANYthing that might occur...physically, financially, and emotionally.



If ya can't pay, don't play. Otherwise, it's just irresponsible and should be illegal.



Sex not occur before:

1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur

2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur

3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur)

4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them

5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom (female) or insist that you wear one (male)

6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly (female) or ensure that she is (male)

7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person



Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex.

Answer 2

Totally fine if you were protected. If not make sure to do that next time.



You can have sex anywhere (legal). Id be careful though because sometimes sex in a hottub can force water up there and cause an infection.

Answer 3

Well I dont really see that it was wrong to do, if you were ready to do it. But just the fact that your asking if it was wrong kinda makes me feel like you weren't 100% ready to do it? But idk. I wouldnt do it again if your not comfortable. Just be careful and use protection.

Answer 4

Did he wear a condom! =O

Be carefull!!!

Its only wrong if you think it is.

If you felt it was the right thing to do then, dont worry.

But be very careful.

He might be carrying a disease, you never know.

Answer 5

you can do what you want just be careful

Answer 6

i would go right on ahead

Answer 7

i don't think it's wrong....it's so much fun underwater!!