Why do girls nowadays only demand perfection from who they date?

Question

Girls (college girls especially) nowadays are only interested in these supermodel looking guys. I believe I am an average looking dude maybe a wee bit above average but I doubt it. I am just your average joe in the looks department. Because of this I am for lack of a better word... ******. I spelled out f'd but it is probably going to censor me. Anyway girls at my college only talk to the big muscular, great looking guy. I am not gay but I will admit there are some very attractive men at my college. Which sucks for me because they totally destroy the hopes of guys like me.

I walk into class and I am invisible, and then the one guy who just has to be in my class (and there is at least one in every single one of my classes) who is muscular, toned, great hair, square jaw, million dollar "I'm a douche bag" smile and all the girls turn and nearly fall over their seats. I swear it's like something out of a crappy teen movie. Girls start talking to him instantly, they all want to sit next to him or them (sometimes there is more than one of those guys :\) they all want to work with them on projects. I thought girls asking guys out was really rare even now in modern society. Nope!! Not if you are one of those guys it isn't. These girls will literally fall over their seats to ask these guys for their contact info. These guys are so dumb (for the most part) but any dumb remark they make is comedy hour, they laugh until they nearly pee themselves and then they take that as an excuse to rub up on the guy. Meanwhile I will crack so many hilarious comments in class, the whole class is cracking up at my smart alec remark. And then... nothing happens, I remain invisible even when I talk to the girls in my class I will get them laughing and having fun and as soon as these guys walk in they can't take their eyes off of them it's pretty insulting really. The attractive ones are the worst but even "average" looking girls would rather keep fantasizing about these guys then getting to know me. I am baffled at how shallow girls are. It has been like this since high school but not as bad they'd at least talk to me.

I know I am not an annoying or unlikable person because many of the girls I meet are happy to be friends but that is it. I never want to be their friend because I know if one of those "hot" dudes had done the same things with her, had the same conversations with her, etc. She would be madly in love with him they would be together and she would probably be fantasizing about him 24/7. But it is me so I get to be "an awesome dude, who's super fun, and is the best friend she could have ever asked for."

Have girls really grown to be this shallow??

Please don't give me the whole "oh just wait, you'll see the right girl will come along and you will be happy you waited for her" routine. I have waited 20 years for this dream girl to show up. I honestly don't know what I can do differently I don't give her the indication at any point that all I want is to be friends but I don't give girls the impression that I am a creeper trying to get into their pants either. I just act normal, I am myself they seem to dig it but it is me and not the "hottie" sitting 3 rows to the left so it is always "bye bye I don't care how much of a cool dude you are if that guy over there is even remotely ok I'd rather date him cuz he's hot."

Answer 1

They're stupid. Actually, most girls are nowadays. But there are still some girls out there (like me lol) that look for the personalities first, no matter how attractive he is. And truth be told, after you fall in love with someone they become more and more attractive to you. I've seen it happen many times, and it's happened to me as well haha. I'm sorry all those snobby girls make you feel like you're not good enough. I really hope you'll find someone. :)



Also, if you want to attract attention, try changing your style a bit. Be a little more unique and people will probably notice you more. Girls tend to like that. (Well, at least, the ones I know.)



Hope I helped! :)

Answer 2

Honestly...You seem a tad bit whiney, no offense.



But dude, I am going to give you the ''oh just wait'' routine, because its the only real answer...College girls are only thinking about one thing, and that's getting laid...They have a choice of you...whiney average joe...Or Douche Bag Dave with his muscles and million doller smile. Which would you pick if you were a girl just looking for sex.



My advice...stop complaining about it, you're not the only one who has issues with girls. If you REALLY wanna make a physical difference hit the gym! You can get muscles to!...The only people who say they can't get a good body are those who are to lazy to actually work out.

Answer 3

oh man that just sucks wat college u going to @.@? anyways if u really want someone special then find a girl and be friends with her for a long time seriously the right person wont just come out of nowhere. your pretty much saying oh it 20 years now i should get a girl of my dream to come out >.> yeah in ur dreams. just wait besides shouldnt u be looking for a girl u actually wanna be with instead of girls that u see are hot or average and say to ur self that girl should be my gf right away. if u want something serious then go be best friend with a few girls im sure one of them will bound to go out with u. but if ur not going for serious then just freaking start flirting and just be honest and say what u want to them @.@ or just get a hooker >.>