should i apologize to her?

Question

So I was dating this girl...well kind of dating. There were no titles but we were "active" and we pretty much acted like we were in a relationship. Anyway after getting to know her we got into alot of senseless arguements. I couldnt stand her personality. lol. I ended up telling her that its best we see other people. She agreed.

After that I started feeling weird "down below" this might be tmi. But I thought she gave me something an "std". I told her this. I told her I would be going to the dr but she is the only one Ive been with and she should go get tested as well. I also told her If i have anything im sure its her who gave it too me.

Anyway Friday im on my way to the dr I get a text from her. It says "I dont have anything" You might want to check your ****(girls)"

I told her "Did you see a Dr or is this something u just think"

She replies "I dont have MD behind my name" Im thru with u ive been thru so why would i lie" btw loose my number

Me "um i didnt plan on calling u back anyway so dont flatter yourself"

So i go to the dr. The whole while texting her. Were going back in forth.

At the end I end up telling her (at different times through the conversation)
"it looks like somone slapped you with bubble wrap all those pimples on your face" "You were very easy you should value your vagina better" "You were just another easy chick I smashed. Dont flatter youself" among some other things.

Today my test results came back. I tested negative for everything and im feeling really bad. I want to apologize Im thinking I should but she said some pretty crazy things to me as well that I didnt mention. Anyways Do you think I should send her an apology?

Heres something I typed up let me know if i should click "send"

Hey **** sorry if this a bugging message. I just thought it needed to be addressed. I'm not trying to be a friend just more so a man. so...here goes. Some of the things I said. Well most were uncalled for. I said them to be hurtful and out of anger. I let a side of me out that I try to refrain from. I'm getting older and I should of acted more maturely and no woman should be talked to in the manner that i spoke or text you in. I'm not asking for a reply or any type of ongoing friendship. Just want to let u know that I apologize.

Answer 1

I like the you should value your vjj better comment, it made me LMAO. But yah, you definately should apologize to her because girls are really sensitive and you don't want her to hate you and tell all her friends that you gave her an STD or anything like that right? So send that text! Good luck!

Answer 2

That is a perfect apology. Send it right now, and have no regrets. As long as it came from your heart and you meant it, it's the best you can do and I hope for your sake she is reasonable and accepts the apology. :)

Answer 3

Yo mamma