Question:
Girls and Guys: What are the sexual bases for both a guy and girl?
2012-03-17 16:30:40 UTC
Me and my friend were having an argument on what they were so I was just wondering what you would consider the bases.

Here's what I said:

For a guy:
1 = kiss
2 = handjob
3 = blow_ job
4 = sex

For a girl:
1 = kiss
2 = finger
3 = eaten out
4 = sex

My mate said this:

1 = kiss
2 = feeling boobs
3 = blow_ job
4 = sex

My mate might be right, but if he is then what the hell is 2nd for a girl? feeling a guys nipples??

Just to settle this can all of you please list the sexual bases for BOTH a guy and a girl.

Cheers
Seventeen answers:
odizus
2012-03-18 13:43:37 UTC
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"So ever since middle school, you likely started to hear others talk about guys and girls going to “first base.” There are a few variations on the bases when referring to sexual activity. I will be discussing the most common one.



First Base – Simply put, first base is kissing. Some people define it only as French kissing, while others include all kissing.



Second Base – This is going up a girl’s shirt and fondling her breasts. It also includes using the mouth on the breasts. Some people refer to that as “sloppy seconds.”



Third Base – This encompasses the most sexual activities. Third base is any touching of the genitals. Thus masturbating your partner whether it is fingering the girl or giving the guy a hand job. Also included in third base is oral sex. Giving a guy a ******* or eating a girl out is also considered to be getting to third base.



Home Plate – Reaching home is used to refer to having sex.



Quite frankly, this is really only used by kids in middle and some in high school. Later on, people usually just say “hooking up” which is even more vague.



Hopefully now you have a better understanding of what people are talking about when somebody says, “I got to third base with Kelly this weekend.”



PERSONALLY, I don't play these games. I was never a base girl. You start the game, you reach home or you get out of my bed. But I am a very black and white person. I never understand the purpose of just making out... Seems like a tease and teases are horrible people.
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You raise a perfectly legitimate point, and the answer is that one is NOT better than the other. However, we have been socialized to be morally attracted to emotional bonds over simple physical relations. You are right in saying that both types of relationships are singular and incomplete. Consummate love requires intimacy, commitment AND passion. One without the other brings a faultily based relationship and almost always never works out. I guess the simple answer would be that society deems it so that guys look for strictly sexual relationships while females tend to follow their emotions. Call it nurture. Call it peer pressure. Call it instinct, whatever the case, thats just how it works until that individual person realizes that a relationship isn't so narrow; that they need to accept other aspects of a relationship in addition to their own.
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2012-03-18 14:30:29 UTC
damn, **** must be different across the pond. I always think of bases going for both guys and girls. 1st base would be kissing, 2nd when the dude touches her **** and they're makin out and groping, but nothing involving downstairs fun parts, 3rd is when downstairs fun parts are being touched, and home is ******, or "making love" as some would put it. 4 bases, cus there's four bases in baseball, the 4th being home plate. enjoy the game!
Pink Floyd
2012-03-17 16:55:05 UTC
I agree what you said for most guys that's true that's all they think about.



And girls yeah they just want to make out.
Lily of the Valley
2012-03-17 16:58:35 UTC
For a boy:

1 = kiss

2 = feel boobs

3 = hand/********

4 = sex



For a girl:

1 = kiss

2 = i really have no idea because i've never thought of it...feel his chest, rub down stairs, let him feel her boobs? idk

3 = finger/eat out

4 = sex



This is what I always thought it was.
foodisgood
2012-03-20 17:51:19 UTC
HAHAHHAHA FEELING A GUY'S NIPPLES. LMFAO.

sike i've heard many things about girl-to-guy...

but i think handjob and ******* are about the same level so that's probably not it

and yeah you're "mate" is right haha
2012-03-18 13:37:56 UTC
i think that your mate is more correct.



In the case of being a girl,i think that it is touching on/under clothes.
Sumi
2012-03-20 10:35:08 UTC
for a gal

1.smooch

2.feeling boobs.

3.finger

4.sex

for a guy

1.kiss

2.********

3.sex

4.boob job





answer mine pls: https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20120320095655AAYmd4U
Jorge
2012-03-17 17:14:35 UTC
I agree but I would like to feel a boob or eat her pussy isntead. here is my list



1-kiss

2-eat her pussy

3-touch her boobs

4-sex



Those are my top 4.
Ben
2012-03-17 16:57:43 UTC
every one I know use 5

1-kissing/makeout

2-touching over cloths

3-touching under cloths or naked

4-oral

5-sex
The Heartbreak Kid
2012-03-18 13:16:33 UTC
Mine:

1= kiss

2= makeout

3= dry hump

4= bj

5= sex

6= leave

I added a couple.

Please answer mine:

https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20120317220554AAVN4CX
Jon G
2012-03-17 16:55:32 UTC
I alway hear it to be, first- kissing, second- being handsy, which is more the brod trem to include boobs, fingering, or hand job, third- oral, and home run- sex.
2012-03-17 17:05:51 UTC
I think yours is pretty accurate I agree
?
2012-03-17 17:03:07 UTC
i totaly agree with ben
Kim
2012-03-18 03:15:14 UTC
guy:

kiss,

handjob

********

sex



girl:

kiss

feel boobs

finger

lick out

sex
.
2012-03-17 16:58:34 UTC
I agree 100% thanks for your answer from before!


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