Question:
I'm in love with a TOMBOY girl...this my story... need your help guys ^^'?
2013-05-15 05:32:40 UTC
Hi everyone,
First sorry for the long post but i had to tell every detail, i searching so badly for help.

Lately i met a a very hot girl with a really strange personality,
while i don't have problems with asking girls out, so after 3 days after first met, I've got her number and I've asked her to go out with me.
while fixing the date in a public Coffey, she came first and called me and i was a little bit late so i told her to take her Coffey and wait for me for just a 5 min... when i arrived i didn't find her so i called and she told me she's taking a walk, when she arrived I've asked her nicely why she didn't stay in the Coffey.
She answered that ( SHE HATE PUBLIC PLACES FULL OF PEOPLE ) saying that with a blush,
so i stopped asking stupid question ^^'
and just focus to make things work so we stand up and take a walk.

While waiting for a TAXI to take her to the campus where she live (9 km out of the city in the forest),
i had this hilarious idea to ask her (what we walk to the campus on foot), and believe me i was just joking, in a cover of challenging ( cause the way to campus is a dark way in the forest )
but she said yes, and the only thing she was afraid of is leaving me behind her, cause i'll be really tired to keep it on to the campus [interesting].
so we take the road to the campus and talk and talk and talk (i don't remember but it was the bet night in my life).
we staid in the campus for more than a hour talking, but end the end i've had to go take a TAXI and return to the city where i live with friends (university life)
second day we take the train back home together (but not to the same city) she live a way far from my home city.

a week later no see, just Messages (we have a stage for the final project study in our home city) so we can't met until the weekend to see our supervisor of stage; so I've waited for that day so bad and here he came. again together in our College city.and asking her again to go out with me she told me that she is in the university so i replayed that i'll come to see her, so i come and I've found her with her friend "a Girl", well when we met her friend didn't likes me for no reason ^^' . but i didn't care, she can go fu** herself with a cactus (sorry for the big words ^^'), the only thing i care about is to conquer
the heart of the angel beside me, so we accompanied the witch (her friend) to her crib, and go take a Coffey while walking I've took her arm, and she showed no reject, so we walk and for a second date.

then she told me all about her (not the TOMBOY things, she don't even know what it mean, in my country that's no big deal ) but the intimate thing:

-she like sports and football.

-she told me that she always find girls stupid, and in her childhood she used to hang out with guys and play football with him.

-she is an Agoraphobic (not not directly).

-she don't like her dad cause she catch him many time with another women.

-she complained about how much her little brother is a douche with girls but she like him anyway.

-and when we tease each other she hit me really hard (believe i'm in the rugby college team) so imagine for a normal person .

-she used to laugh for no reason in hide her face when stop talking and take a look to her

-she is a 23 years old virgin (we live in arab coutry it's normal ^^'),

-she didn't being an a relationship before(well... that's not normal),even if she's really hot (believe me), i thing it's due to her fear of public places, imagine i was with here in the same campus for 3 years and i didn't see her until now.


just to filter some stupid comments, i'm not virgin i'm not a shy boy, not even ugly, i'm just in love .
and i do believe it's the one and i live in fear of losing her or doing something stupid and fall in the deep abyss of the Friendzone. cause lately she stopped messaging (the same for me, waiting for her to take the initiative) me and she is in offline mode in Facebook not only for me but for everyone.

I've wrote this story to know your suggestion to know how to seduce her and make things work on and any help will be really appreciated.

Thanks for taking time and reading my post and sorry for bad English we speak Arab and French in my country so hope you will understand my case.
Eleven answers:
2013-05-15 05:46:40 UTC
treat her like gold,me and my buddies would give our right eye for a girl like that.(we got a bunch of snoby girls here)...it depends on how countryish she is.just don question wat she likes and if shes like use then don't gross out over her food witch may be opossum or coon....and if shes offline shes probly sick of people on fb trust me I delet mine ever so often cuz of people shunning me cuz I don't do and like what they do and like..
2016-12-23 03:42:08 UTC
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2016-10-19 03:36:32 UTC
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2015-08-07 23:57:59 UTC
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RE:

I'm in love with a TOMBOY girl...this my story... need your help guys ^^'?

Hi everyone,

First sorry for the long post but i had to tell every detail, i searching so badly for help.



Lately i met a a very hot girl with a really strange personality,

while i don't have problems with asking girls out, so after 3 days after first met, I've got her number and...
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2014-01-23 18:59:45 UTC
#1 you're not a virgin, already that is a problem for a woman who IS a virgin. Your "not so shy behavior" screams sexually active, and that is intimidating to a 23 year old virgin who never dated. Trust me I am one. And a woman at that. Contrary to what movies say, shy women prefer shy guys. I know I do. I also hate men who say "you're hot". It just seems like you're missing my personality.



Men who are sexually active have a tendency to treat women more douche. Her friend might sense this in you. There's a little saying in my country, "Birds of a feather flock together". If this is how her friend acts, then it's time for you to take off the rose-colored glasses. She might have the same values as her friend. Girls hang with people who are just like them or seem to "click" with them just right.



Though she hangs more with guys, the men in her life are not good examples of men in relationships. She will constantly attract men like her brother and father because that was what she was raised around. Therefore, she may be in fear of attracting the same jerks. My father was also a playboy, which is why I never dated and why I want to remain single. I don't trust men, and she probably doesn't either, especially the horny ones. The sweet guys are the virgins, and trust me 60% more men are virgins than women...but 30% of that 60 lie so they won't be teased. So she will be attracted to a guy who is on her level. She sounds just like me, though I'm probably not as hot as she is, but inside we are the same. I have lots of guy friends and I love video games and such, but beyond hanging with guys occasionally, I never get too close. I'm very defensive.



If she did sense that you were too pushy or too physical that could be a reason she stopped talking. If she was having problems in her life, that could be a reason.



If you want to seduce her to make her yours my advice is NOT to try to seduce her to make her yours. My advice is to be sweet, caring, and listen to her problems. Be yourself and see if she likes YOU. If you are not, the real you will come out. Avoid using sexual terms and moving too fast. Reveal that you have substance, and avoid talking about other women. Really be into her not her looks. Avoid behavior that reminds her of her brother and father.



How often have you been around this girl? If only for a short time, you can't really say she is the one. That is only an infatuation.



She doesn't sound like a stupid woman, so don't treat her like one. Don't pretend to be interested in some things she likes, if you don't like something, be honest, if you're not she'll see you as only wanting sex from her, and women want a man who's willing to commit, and act like it.



If you want to take her places, ask her where she would like to go. Show an interest in her. Sincerely, or she may have flashbacks of her father.
2016-03-16 04:36:04 UTC
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2016-04-28 23:48:43 UTC
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2016-04-03 06:12:55 UTC
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2013-05-15 05:42:25 UTC
Ok, donc si elle n'aime pas les lieux publics, alors la prochaine fois que vous lui demander de sortir (oui lui demander de sortir à nouveau), l'emmener à aimer, un parc ou quelque chose et aller chercher la crème glacée. Peut-être que si elle ne vous textos, elle vous attend à son premier texte. Je sais que si un gars ne me le texte d'abord, je n'ai pas le courage de lui texte. Donc, faire un geste! Texte elle! Jamais la taquiner au sujet de la chose vierge. C'est peut-être un point faible .. Quoi qu'il en soit, bonne chance! J'espère que cela a aidé (:



J'ai utilisé Google Translate, donc j'espère que tout cela s'est bien passé. Sinon je vais retaper en anglais
2013-05-15 05:45:58 UTC
Please dont let her go, man. I dont know how to seduce her. Because I'm a girl! A girl never seduce a girl. Except lesbian, I guess.
2013-05-15 05:43:29 UTC
I don't see the problem . as long as you keep seeing her and she tries to see u then it will work. you seem fine together.


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