I REALLY WANT TO CHEAT??

Question

My boyfriend is nice and sweet and smart...but he's 3 years younger than me (he's a freshman, I'm a senior) and what I want to do, he's not ready for (also, it's illegal). We kiss sometimes, but it's not passionate, and I want more than that. There are these two guys in my grade, both close acquaintances of mine, who I think like me. One is a total ladies man, but he's shown interest in me, and called me "his girl" last Valentine's Day. He's super attractive and I really want to have sex with him (but... boyfriend). The other guy is his friend, and he's less hot than the first guy, but still cute, and definitely has a crush on me. I've been fantasizing about ******* both of them since before me and my current boyfriend started dating. Another thing...sometimes, I try to think of my boyfriend while I masturbate, to see if it turns me on, and it doesn't (it does when I think of the other two). Is it because he's so young? I just can't get excited while kissing him, but I do really like him. I don't want this relationship to end just because I can't keep it in my skirt! What do I do? I kind of really want to cheat on him! I feel like a terrible person!!!

Answer 1

You're a senior?! Child, you have your whole life ahead of you! First and foremost, if your boyfriend is sweet and caring don't you think that would be the reason as to why you'd want to be with him even more? Fantasizing about another guy shouldn't be an option. If he theoretically speaking.. Cheating on you, you'd be horrified! Why do that to another person? If you're in a relationship it shouldn't even be a question as to if you should cheat. A relationship is a commitment and by the looks of it you're only looking to have fun. You're not ready for the whole shebang and when you word your paragraph it makes you seem like a thot. Don't know what that is? Urban dictionary will be your best friend! Another thing, what makes you think his friend wants you? Have you ever thought that maybe these guys put you up to the test? Honey there's a fine line between being single having sex and enjoying life versus being uninterested in a man that you clearly don't care about. IF you don't care about him, break up and give him to somebody who will be passionate with him and care about him. Oh btw, nothing is the same anymore after high school. Enjoy Adult life! Enjoy the easiest things in life before it ruins you!

Answer 2

Okay i understand this is hard for you. However, don't you think that if you really love your boyfriend, you should wait and be patient for when the time is right? I don't even mean to sound rude when i say this but you wanting to cheat just for sex really makes you look desperate. What if you cheat on your boyfriend with some guy who you don't even know well enough to judge whether he is sincere or not? will you not regret cheating?



There is a reason why cheating is wrong. If you cheat, you betray someone and end up hurting their feelings and losing them. How will you feel when your boyfriend feels betrayed and was actually really sincere with you? what would you do if you changed his views on relationships by cheating?



Please, don't lose something precious for something that can be achieved with patience. I'm not an expert or anything but please do listen to what i have to say.



If you do want a new guy so desperately, you can break up with your boyfriend first. However, I wouldn't advise you to do so.

Answer 3

Hi!

So, I'm a little confused by this as a whole just because it seems like you're feeling are really contradictory and all over the place, which is totally normal at your age, especially when you're in a situation that makes you uncomfortable. In all honesty here, a relationship is a real balance between attraction on various levels. It's great that you're connected with your current boyfriend on an emotional level, but it's also very important to be connected on a physical level. You can't just sit around and pretend that your relationship is going to last when you aren't happy with part of it. Although you don't want the relationship to end, you can't have everything your way here. If this guy is as great as you say he is, do you really want to go against him and cheat? He doesn't sound like he deserves it. Keep in mind, if you did end up cheating and he did find out, you would just be scarring him for future relationships, especially because he is younger than you.

Next, your description of the other two guys, the first one in particular, is a little troubling. If the first guy is a "ladies man" like you said, do you really feel okay about being with him? I mean sure, he makes you feel special and important, but that's the point of being a ladies man. The play COUNTLESS girls just to get one thing. There is really no respect there. He doesn't respect you deep down, and it shows that you don't respect yourself. As for the next guy... just because somebody is somewhat attractive and likes you doesn't mean that you should be with them. Don't get together with someone just because it feels convenient.



In addition, I feel like because you are asking this question, you are sensing that maybe cheating is wrong, and you are looking for someone to say "no, go ahead, you're fine." I really hope that you don't find anyone like that here. If you do, don't waste your time listening. Cheating, hands down, is wrong to do... and you should know that. What do you gain from it? Do you feel better right afterwards? Hopefully not. Do you feel better a week later? A month? No. At least you shouldn't. Have the respect for yourself, and your current relationship, to abstain from cheating. If at all costs you can't hold back from diving into a new relationship, at least show the decency to your current relationship and end it in order to avoid going behind anybody's back. I wouldn't have sat here and typed all of this if I didn't really want to help you. Trust me, don't cheat. I really mean well and think that this is best!

Hope this helped!

Answer 4

I Completely Understand Were Your Coming From... But Are You Serious!!

Let Me Tell You Summ If You Do It Your Surly Going To Regret It And Give Your Boyfriend Alittle Time.Guys Don't Like To Be Rush And Think About What Your Doing Is This Really What You Want Or Is This Just A Desire

Answer 5

It's great that you've considered the legal ramifications of having sexual contact with an underage person, but bear in mind that these laws vary from state to state, and many people who think they know what the law is in this state are wrong.



You say you haven't gone beyond kissing, but he's not ready for what you want to do. Do you really think he's not ready for a bj? Unless he hasn't reached puberty, it's like that he has another opinion. Anyway, if you're not willing to blow him for whatever reason, then it's only fair to break this off. If you would be willing to blow him, you owe him that much. Given how you feel about boinking other guys, that's fine, tell him that this is just an FWB rather than a relationship, so he doesn't feel he's not breaking commitment if he starts dating some other girl.

Answer 6

You should watch the season finale of Girl Meets World. It's exactly your type of story. This guy is too old for this younger girl (3 years - ironic), so he says to this girl that he's just too old. So, this guy is head over heels for this older girl (than him). She (the 3 years older girl than him) says to him that he's too young for her.



I'm sorry, but age doesn't even really mean anything (especially 3 years difference). In high school, it might mean something, but it really doesn't. It's completely stupid to think that 3 years means that a person is too young for you. When people get older, some of them are 10 years difference - for goodness sakes.



Besides the age thing, just forget about the younger guy (if you really think that way). Don't cheat on him, but just say you don't want to go out with him (if that's your choice). The word of advice for you though is to listen to the Katy Perry song - The One that Got Away. Are you sending away the wrong guy?



Also, another thing to think about is that since you want to have sex right now, are you ready to get a guy and potentially have a baby with him? Yes, you can be on the pill / guy have a condom, but that doesn't mean it's 100% that you won't get pregnant. The first most point of sex is having a baby.



That's why God made it so pleasurable - so people would keep having babies, and continue the human population. If you are responsible to realize that when having sex at 18, that you can potentially have a kid, go ahead and do it. Just make sure if you are pregnant, don't be calling your kid an accident.

Answer 7

Honestly, you should be sexually attracted to the person you're with and since you're not, it probably wont work out in the long run if you cant find a way to become sexually attracted to him. Also youre young, you dont have to worry about the long run right now. If you even have ask if you want to cheat on this guy, then i dont think you should really stay with him. You should never cheat on someone. Either talk to him and try to work past the issue- that is if you really do like him- or break it off. Good luck with whatever you choose but please dont hurt him by cheating.

Answer 8

Nope. I'm a man, and honestly have no desire to cheat on my girlfriend. And I'm sure there are plenty of other men out there who are the same way. I guess that, for men who do cheat, "It's a natural urge that all men have", makes a convenient excuse. Though on the other hand, there may be some biological influence that gives some men more control over impulses than others. Human beings represent a kind of new stage in evolution, where focus is shifted more toward reasoning than instinct (instinct in this case being "I gotta bang anything with a vagina"), and I think some of us have made that leap a little more successfully than others.

Answer 9

I feel like if you're having urges for other guys, you should really break up with your boyfriend. I don't understand why anybody would cheat on someone when the solution is so simple just break up with them? Tell your younger boyfriend that you're just looking for something more in a relationship.

Although physical attraction and physical feelings towards someone isn't the ONLY thing in a relationship, it's a pretty big part and you should find someone you feel excited about kissing.

Also he's three years younger like…cmon sorry.

Answer 10

1 - if your boyfriend doesnt have a medical condition he's probably just afraid he's not gonna be good enough for you (which he probably wont),but if you wanna have sex with him you just gotta find a excuse to get alone with him in his room, when you 2 were alone (and save from someone else getting in the room) grab his dick with out wornig and his gonna frezze like a scared animal (if you are not ugly) then you can do wattever the **** you want with him...



2 - evolutionarily speaking you gonna be turned on by guys you perceive are beeing powerful (which could be: Fit, Rich, Rocket cientist Smart or A guy who is kind of ok but he aparently just dont want you - your subcountious mind would think "if he dont want me he has some hidden attribute that must be really good" -) so if your boyfriend doesnt appear to powerful to you, he is just not turning you on and is better of as "just a friend"



3 - i particulary think cheating is wrong, i would try talk to the girl first, if she was completely unreasonable then i would break up with her (i mean if i got in a relationship with her was because she had more then just buddycalls to offer, so is worthed trying to solve eventual issues)



4 - in your age i dont think a "serious relationship" is optimal, i think is much more interesting relationships with no strings attached so you can experience different stuff and really see what kinda of boy do you like



5 - am i the only dude commeting here?

Answer 11

What a ... OMG like seriously girl. That's a big no no ... Seniors shouldn't date freshmen cause it almost never works...( as seen in the example you gave) also you shouldn't be thinking of other men while you masterbate.. Think of your boyfriend and if he's a turn off something needs to stop. Why don't you stop fantasizing and actually go have a 3 some with thoes "sexy boy you want in your pants." Or grow up and be a mature woman and stop emotionally cheating and break up with the boy .. You obviously aren't happy so just tell him your feelings and ends it

Answer 12

I don't want people to think I'm heartless but, I say dump him. You're a senior, he's a freshman. You'll be going off to college, I'm guessing, cool if you aren't. College relationships rarely work out, let alone college/hs ones. You're going to meet a lot more people your age. I suggest going and having fun. If you're thinking about cheating, then this relationship isn't for you. You either aren't ready for something serious, or you haven't found that person yet. Which is OKAY, you have a long life ahead of you.

Answer 13

If you were a guy and posting this, people would be calling you every name in the book. But because you are a girl somehow no one is calling you out?



The "boyfriend" must have something you want... I'm guessing money. He probably spends money on you and you can probably manipulate him pretty well. But because of that you don't see him as "hot" so you don't care about him.



So you have 2 choices:



1. grow up, mature and find some character and dignity in yourself.



Or



2. break up with the boy friend, boink anything that moves, get preggy, get an std, drop out of school, go on welfare and live in a trailer the rest of your life shacking up with whatever 'hot' guy in a tank top that comes by.



Your future, your choice.

Answer 14

From what you are saying I think you should break up with your boyfriend. If other guys turn you on and you think about them then that's already not good. Also, the fact that you actually want to cheat on your boyfriend is wrong and it also means that you are probably not happy. I don't think you should be with your boyfriend if you truly feel this way. It isn't fair for the either of you.

Answer 15

Honestly, if you actually like your boyfriend then talk to him about it. Maybe he might be okay with an open relationship? After you're done with the hot guy, you can always say that you don't want an open relationship. (I'm so heartless haha) Anyways, if you feel this way about Mr. Hottie then it's either that you aren't sexually happy with your relationship or that you don't like your boyfriend as much as you think you do. (If you liked him a lot then you would have enough respect to not think about having sex with another guy)

The only choices you have are:

1. Breakup with your boyfriend

2. Cheat on your boyfriend

3. Try having an open relationship (Even if it might not be open for a while)

4. Just stay with your boyfriend and ignore the signs this 'hot' guy is giving you



Before you do any of that, you have to think of what will happen if you do any of those. Will you seriously enjoy sex with the 'hot' guy when you have to do the walk of shame home, or do you think he is a relationship kind of guy? (Maybe friends with benefits?) Think of the consequences, don't just go headfirst into this.

Answer 16

You sound really shallow in your question. It shouldn't be about who's hotter than who. The question is who makes you more happy. If you want to date someone else, dump him. Don't lead him on and make him think you're interested when you're not. Sorry to call you shallow, but I've been cheated on before. And I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. He's a freshman and still a kid, don't put him through that. This is what's wrong with society, relationships used to be about loyalty, not someone you want to f*ck. And the fact that you're only a senior in high school is even more alarming.

Answer 17

If you feel like cheating then you know your boyfriend isn't right for you. Just end your relationship with him. It is common sense. Real lovers want to F*** each other all of the time. It is messed up that you don't want to bang your boyfriend. If you wanted to bang your boyfriend you would have already. Age has nothing to do with it really. You are probably just settling for him.

Answer 18

Okay, if your boyfriend is a freshman and you're a senior that just proves how immature your choice of guys are. Which speaks a lot by saying you want to cheat on him, shows how immature you really are. If you want to sleep around with other guys behind his back you might as well just break up with him, if you plan on being childish about it.

Answer 19

If you want to get together with one of the other guys, just tell your boyfriend to break up. There's no need for cheating.. The guy you're dating eventhough he's a freshman, he's still a human just like you - and you don't want your boyfriend to cheat on you right? Make the right choice.

Answer 20

In a few words? You shouldn t be with him. You re emotionally cheating on him anyway just thinking the things you are. The relationship will not last if you aren t committed to it. You clearly want a bit of fun so son t hurt him by cheating. Do the kind thing and let him go first so there won t be any betrayal.

Answer 21

I don't want individuals to think i am heartless however, I say dump him. you are a senior, he is a freshman. you'll be going off to college, i am guessing, cool if you aren't. college relationships rarely work out, let alone college/hs ones. you are going to satisfy a lot more people your age. I counsel going and having fun. If you are brooding about cheating, then this relationship is not for you. You either are not prepared for one thing serious, or you haven't found that person however. that is OKAY, you have a long life before you. I am a good person who have a good personality.

Answer 22

Just break up with him if you are going to cheat. If you don't care about him as much then just cheat on him with the hot guy

Answer 23

If you are considering cheating on him and don't get excited about him sexually then you are obviously missing something in your relationship. I have dated guys but didn't feel a sexual attraction to them (older, younger, didn't matter!). Do him a favor and end it with him. You are leading him on right now because he thinks you are in a relationship with only him. A boyfriend should be sweet, nice and all those good things but should also satisfy you sexually - ie get your blood pumping just thinking about him! It is that sexual attraction and passion matched with the close connection that seperates a boyfriend from a friend

Answer 24

If you honestly loved him you wouldn't cheat on him. That is disrespectful and it makes the other person feel betrayed. I wouldn't cheat on him, if you don't want to be with him then end the relationship and break up with him. If you aren't happy in a relationship then leave and move on.

Answer 25

One of the most important things you continue to mention is that your bf is young. That said just how mature are you behaving by wanting to cheat and keep him if you're so childish yourself. Clearly this relationship isn't about to go anyway other than down the toilet so, do yourself a favor and set this guy free if you have any integrity and self respect.

Answer 26

I totally understand your trouble here but DO NOT CHEAT ON THE POOR KID! Consider breaking up with him if it's too serious. Then you can try to hook up with the other two. If the sex is really bothering you, you won't be happy with him so don't be afraid to break up. If he finds out you've been cheating on him, he will be heartbroken. So don't cheat, break up if you really want to and then hook up with them. Or just ask your boyfriend, he will try to do something.

Answer 27

I think you should definitely sleep with the other 2 guys. You say when you kiss your boyfriend it is not passionate, you say when you masturbate thinking about your boyfriend doesn't turn you on. Why are you even with this guy if it is not passionate and doesn't turn you on!? That's just ridiculous. Rather have fun with these other 2 guys, I would recommend safe fun i.e. with condoms. Enjoy life you only live once and sex is really great fun. If you don't do it you will regret it also and it isn't nice to live with regret. Go for it.

Answer 28

If you think you like other guys then it isn'y right to be with who you are with now so you should break up with him. Cheating is wrong and it won't really help anyone feel better or anything. If you break up with your boyfriend now you will be free to do what ever you want

Answer 29

It sounds like you aren't really that interested in your boyfriend anymore. It could also be that you are still young and want to play the field with other guys. I've cheated myself many times and someone ( it could be you, the bf or the other guy ) always gets hurt. Just be prepared for that.

Answer 30

Well if your not happy with your current boyfriend, break up with him. Cheating is not the answer, and if you don't want to make your current boyfriend unhappy now by breaking uo with him, how do you think he's gonna feel when he finds out you cheated on him?

Answer 31

Think hard about this before taking the leap, you said you "lov" your bf, but as he is younger , you feel as if you want something now, okay, the other two guys may be drop dead gorgeous and know how to treat a girl, but would you REALLY be able to go through with it without thinking of how you are betraying your bf, have you considered his feelings if he got to find out that you gave yourself to another man.

Only you can decide this one, don't worry, you wouldn't be the only female on this planet that get these urges.

Answer 32

Okay I'll make this simple. You like your boyfriend it's not love . If it was you wouldn't think about cheating. But you're that nice girl who can't have the courage to hurt someone . The truth is it's not easy nothing is. You have to tell him you can't be with him be honest with yourself and him. Good luck girl. Best wishes - i

Answer 33

Be thankful that you feel like a terrible person.



According to two surveys, less than six percent of unmarried adults who lived together ever cheated in 1960. In 2012, this increased to a full forty percent.



Follow your feelings and stay clean.

Answer 34

Well, if you want to cheat, then maybe you should just be done with the relationship already. If he's just not on the same page, don't rip his heart out by being selfish.

Answer 35

Just think... Is it worth to wait a bit until it's legal if you love him you will wait. Don't cheat just end the relationship it makes you a better person

Answer 36

Look, I'd call you a hypocrite if I knew that you hang out with guys too. I'm sure you hang out with guys too, and I won't blame him now if he calls you out for it. You need to have some confidence and trust in your guy. And honestly, he would've dumped you later if you had kept up with this attitude. If you can't trust him even this much, then you're better off alone. At least give him the benefit of doubt!

Answer 37

1. Don't cheat. Leave him. Date who are in your class.

2. Don't cheat. Stay with him. Make more of a mess.

3. Cheat. Stay with him. More mess.

what's better.

Answer 38

I have you answer. You want to cheat because you want a good a f**k,not cos you need someone to love you more. You are not ready to have a relationship with someone. Your body is just telling you need to mate. I know what you feeling now,you want something in your private now,and something licking it. The options you have now is tell your boyfriend you want sex so much,and you cant control what you feeling. Maybe you can tell him, "MAYBE SOMETHING CAN HAPPEN WHEN HIS AWAY". Most people cheat because they need to have an orgasm.

Answer 39

Don't do it. If you never done it before and you do it with some one else then you will want to see what it's like with a different person. Try and wait until you find the right person and know that you want to be with them for the rest of your life.

Answer 40

See this is why I have a problem with woman, you're all assholes who don't know how to treat a man, you either want to cheat, or dump us for another boy, or just straight up want to **** all the time, you don't know how to stay loyal or how to have a healthy relationship, you want my advice? BREAK UP WITH HIM, spare him the agony of him finding out that you're cheating and just break up with him, you ****** idiot.

Answer 41

never cheats, its one of the worst things a person can do. Cheating is even flirting with someone when in a relationship. You have to either break your current relationship off or be patient and wait.

Answer 42

I hope you do not break this young man's heart. I went to high school with a girl named Su and a guy named Kevin and they had both been abused but Kevin had been horribly abused, but he was such a pure and good soul anyway and he loved Su with all his heart, and his love was redeeming him from the abuse he had suffered throughout his childhood. He was the best guy I ever met. Then Su went a year early to VCU and fell in love with Johnnie and cheated on Kevin and broke his heart and it tore his soul in two and destroyed the most wonderful soul I ever knew. His love for you is precious and I just hope you do not destroy this nice young man for loving you.

Answer 43

Wow have you no shame? I try really hard not to judge but how could I not? People like this really disgust me. You should be ashamed of yourself. Do the right thing and break up, he doesn't deserve you. He's too good for you if that's your attitude. How would you feel if he is the one feeling like that and asking that question hm?

Answer 44

if you like him a lot wait for him i mean enjoy spending time and doing things, but if you really need the sex then break it off don't hurt the guy. We all have needs I understand so do what's best but don't cheat.

Answer 45

dont cheat, just tell him you're not into him any more and breakup with him.

if u cheat there is a strong chance that none of those guys would trust u for a relationship

Answer 46

Think how you'd feel if your boyfriend cheated on you. You wouldn't like it now would you? If he can't be what you think you want him to be then break up with him. If you care about him at all then you'll set him free instead of playing around behind his back. Please don't string him along, no one wants to be in that situation.

Answer 47

This will be another Maury episode I'll get to watch- thanks lol XD

Honestly...this isn't answering your question, but if sex and getting deeper into passionate romance is more important than just appreciating your current boyfriend for who he is than I'm glad I'm asexual :P



"I don't want to be in a relationship with the two guys, I just want to hook up once or twice."



Oh okay...one night stand? LOL XD

Answer 48

There's something called Kharma. It's like a boomerang. When you cheat on someone, someone will cheat on you. Count on it.

Answer 49

we should never hurt anyone or take a chamce of it/you are not ready for a ltr you need to go test the water out or youll be hurt and divorced by 21 /HONESTY is allways the best in any realationship /even the ones we dont like so be honest with him tell him how you feel sounds like your hormones going wild let him down gently if need be but he may say its ok and accept it he should be given the option and call up the other 2 and go for it .go have somne wild times but remember your going to have to deal with the results .can you handel being labeled the girl who is wild child?and if you do it behind his back anyway in secret and it comes out then your liable to be labeled the cheater /something like sex is suppose to be beautiful even if when its a fantasy come true ! and he is probably to inexsperienced for you this is a great opportunity to teach him what makes you tick but it could scare him off to !

Answer 50

I would take a break and really think about it. I dont think you should cheat on him but if you are interested in other guys maybe its time you get with other guys.

Answer 51

Break up with boyfriend and be a free spirit. Tell guys you do not want to commit. Unfortunately, guys like to be exclusive..especially in physical relationships. To freelance and have sex with guys will label you as a slut and yes, they talk...it sucks, wish rules were the same for guys, but they aren't.

Answer 52

ok first off you are a bad person and kind of a skank, you either need to be with him or not. don't play these dumbass games with him, you need to be honest with him and yourself and stop being such a whore. if you knew this relationship was more than likely not going to last why did you even begin your relationship??? as for everyone else on this post some of you are just as skanky as this ***** and some of you have a point. but ultimately make your decision and move the **** on.

Answer 53

You should shag the other two or even go for a threesome. You are a girl with needs and to wait for the boyfriend to become legal for certain sexual pleasure is not good enough. You are a young student so get some hot action and let these guys satisfy you.

Answer 54

Have you told your boyfriend you want to have sex with him? Is he anti-sex or is he just really thick. Some guys are thick and need you to spell it out for them. No metaphors or signals, no innuendo. Tell him what you want from him and see if he's into it. Once you get it out of your system you can stop fantasizing about that other guy.

Answer 55

Don't cheat. If you're not happy, just leave. Yeah it will hurt him, but he'd be even more hurt if you betrayed his trust and hooked up with another dude.

Answer 56

You are too young to be in a relationship. Your boyfriend is not giving you what you need whereas the other two will.

You have high sexual desire and need the fulfilment or this so I think you should break up with your boyfriend and have some fun for a while!

Answer 57

At least you're honest, gurl! You may be a senior, but the reputation you get from cheating can follow you anywhere - often due to self-sabotage, because after you do it once, you just might feel comfortable to do it again. Just remember that when you hurt others, you often end up hurting yourself; we're social animals, afterall. Play it safe and drop the baby.

Answer 58

Cheat then

Answer 59

Never cheat on anyone! If you no longer have feelings for your b/f then you need to break up with him 1st. Don't go behind his back, it's not right!

Answer 60

If youre not happy then simply dump him. He's obviously not as mature as you and can't give you what you want. You'll be going off to college soon and meet tons of new people.

Answer 61

Well cheating will only cause trouble, so think to yourself who you love more, then tell them. You could continue going out with your boyfriend or tell him your sorry but there is someone else.

Answer 62

Just tell your boyfriend how you feel. Tell him your juices are running so fast that even global warming can't compete to the level of sea water raising. Kiss him, seduce him, grab his hand and put it down your pants. He's not going to say no. Guranteed.

Answer 63

break up with him, tell him you need a break or something. **** those guys. then once you get over them try and see if he'll take you back, though it's doubtful. But at least then you wouldn't be cheating.

Answer 64

Leave him don't cheat it's the lowest thing you can do just be straight up it's not working for me it's over.

Answer 65

It seems like you are going to loose both of them. If you hook up with that guy, then it would be like a one night stand and you will loose your boyfriend because you cheated on him.

Answer 66

You want to cheat! We'll I'm here if you need me.



P.S. Give me your email. Were the same age.

Answer 67

Just break up with him. Don't be a jerk by cheating.

Answer 68

I would advise you not to defile yourself, but if you are intent on doing that, at least save your boyfriend the pain and end the relationship before you go off on your "hook-ups", it's not fair for anyone to be in love with someone who doesn't love them in return.

Answer 69

I stopped during the middle of your vile paragraph when you said "I've been fantasizing about ******* both of them" but I had to keep going on

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You are a terrible person on wanting to "hook up" with the two boys and cheating on your boyfriend.I terribly feel bitter for current boyfriend.



Also I don't want to know that you masturbate while have sexually thoughts of your two male friends.



You are vile.Look in yourself in the mirror and think about what you have just typed onto the internet.Purely vile.

You still have a chance to fix up your damn mind.

Answer 70

if you really like/love your boyfriend stay with him if you just wanna mess around and stuff like that? Thats not good you describe him as a sweet young guy if i were you i would stay with him if you just mess around youre gonna feel used and feel unwanted stop thinking about cheating and stay with your boyfriend

Answer 71

Never cheat, you'll regret forever.

Answer 72

A relationship is a LOT MORE than sex!!! Cheating is WRONG on so many levels!!! I think you should be HONEST with him...tell him that you like him a lot but NEED more. Then break up with him & see where it goes!!!

Answer 73

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Answer 74

break up with him, then get another guy. Don't cheat, you'll look really, really bad.

Answer 75

End the relationship and move on.You have nothing to gain by staying with him.He just isnt the right guy for you.You need someone who can be a bit more to your liking.Sometimes you just have to work out what you want and move on.

Answer 76

don't cheat. just break up. feelings have a funny way of being mutual.

Answer 77

I would dump him. You have issues plus a relationship in college with you leaving won't work unless you aren't going.

Answer 78

Y would you want to be with a guy that doesn't turn you on??



You are just wasting your time and his!



Go do what makes you happy!



Yolo!

Answer 79

no dont hurt him if you love him then you can wait for him to come of age. im 18 my xgf is 14 and she couldnt wait like i wanted so so now im hurt and thinking of suicide think how u cheating will effect ur bf

Answer 80

You should have sex with your current bf but let him know before you have sex with him that you want to break up. Your a senior dammit hes a freshman its your duty to make him popular if he isnt already. Hell hes dating a senior as a freshman a good present would be to f*ck him. You have an opportunity to give the boy experience that will help him through his highschool life for when you are gone. Thats the least you can do if you really ever loved him.

Answer 81

Just masturbate. But get a dildo, it works better. Don't cheat. That's whorey

Answer 82

When you cheat, you are really just cheating yourself,..of your own integrity.

Answer 83

If you love him you will not cheat

Answer 84

There is no second word you have selected a wrnog person as your BF. He is a man who is unable to meet your sexual urges or to give you sexual satisfaction . More than falling in love you are interested in the physcal aspect of love making for which purpose the other two gus are the best. Leave this innocent guy and enjoy with the other two who can always give you what you really need or want.

Answer 85

Leave your boyfriend, have your fun and don't get into a relationship until you have the self-control to be committed to someone.

Answer 86

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Answer 87

That is some high quality grade A trolling right there! Im quite impressed

Answer 88

Ha it sounds like ur bf is a pussy(no offense)I suggest you have sex with the first guy o ahead don't let these wimps judge u its ur body and just remember have fun ;)

Answer 89

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Answer 90

Find a reason to break up with the freshman. Then move on with the new guys. Just make sure that your feelings for the freshman ends.

Answer 91

How bout be classy and break up with him before you pull a stunt like that, ppl who cheat on others, make guys like that poor fella turn into a-- holes when they get older. Or how bout not have sex at all till you find the right guy to give yourself too instead of falling for your fleshy needs.

Answer 92

Damn your boyfriend has got some GAME. Have you asked him for sex? I don't know a single freshman boy who would decline that!

Answer 93

if u wanna cheat leave the person ur with its not fair to whom ur with if u cheat on them... doesnt matter if u wanna hook up once or twice.... as jonathan said break up with who ur with its not fair.. my rule of dating if i find my self wanting to cheat id leave the person im with and go be with someone else... its not fair to cheat on someone whos good to u... theguilt will probably eat u alive... i have a friend who cheated on his gf with someone else and the guilt ate him to the point he confessed and his gf left him.. be fair dont cheat if u wanna cheat leave... and alos if u wanted to cheat u souldnt post here... if ur wanting people to tell u go go and cheat here some pole or most wont tell u.. u wont find [people here who will tell u to go and cheat. cheating is wrong.....

Answer 94

The worst thing you can do, is cheating on someone who loves you!!!!!!! Don't forget karma!!!!

Answer 95

Please don't cheat. If you think about cheating on him that's a sign to break it off.

Answer 96

Just talk to your boyfriend about the age difference and see what he says, then ask the hotter of the two guys out

Answer 97

break up with him. don't cheat. its a mortal sin

Answer 98

Go and do your thing. Don't really bother about people. bother about ur desire and just have fun for life

Answer 99

Are you just wanting to hookup with these other 2, or are you wanting a relationship?

Answer 100

yes, you really do. I think that you like your boyfriend, but are not in love with him. The question is, is it worth losing your boyfriend over those 2 guys...

Answer 101

Its not cheating if you have sex with BOTH guys at the same time its a threesome!

Answer 102

well you seems not serious in current relation, you can do one thing. Just try avoid such lusty things, if you can't then talk to your boy friend to see what he can do for you.

Answer 103

you don't really want to be in a relationship, at all.

Answer 104

my advice DONT CHEAT!!! u will regret!! the sex may feel good bt after that its gonna suck darling! if you really love your boyfriend you will patiently wait for him. dont cheat for sex..that makes you look desperate. hopefully ull make the right decision.

Answer 105

Dont cheat. At least end the relationship, you owe him at least that much.

Answer 106

They have a name for a girl that does that..



Do you want to be called that name??

Answer 107

U wont be his girl after there done having SEX with u. after that there going to put u on the whore list and ur going to lost both people ur boyfriend and the other guy

Answer 108

You want to cheat?????? I want to kill someone!! How about you cheat, and I murder??? If you can act on your impulses, can I act on mine???

Answer 109

As you are not yet mature enough for a serious relationship, move on and let your boyfriend find someone who is.

Answer 110

And this is why people shouldn't date in high school. They're way too immature.

Answer 111

Break up with your current boyfriend. It seems like you like him, but maybe as a friend not as a boyfriend. He deserves someone who's more loyal to him, and you deserve someone who will satisfy you.

Answer 112

you should definately hook up with each guy at different times of course. You'll regret it if you dont

Answer 113

Go for it, it's not like your oblivious boyfriend will even notice.

Answer 114

Sounds like you need to just break up

Answer 115

don't cheat

Answer 116

It's women like you that make me lose all hope in love, relationships and humanity.

I feel so sorry for your boyfriend.

Answer 117

Do what feels right in your heart, not your head <3

Answer 118

honestly if you want to sleep with someone else you should'nt be with your boyfriend

Answer 119

you are a disgusting person.



you are WASTING your boyfriend's LIFE, by STRINGING HIM ALONG, and PRETENDING to be his girlfriend.

break up with him NOW,

and let him get on with his life.



he deserves better than you.

Answer 120

If you have sex with the other guys you can get a reputation as hoe. So choose wisely.

Answer 121

don't cheat

Answer 122

don't cheat either break up or don't do it

Answer 123

Sex is completely different than love

nuff said

Answer 124

Just don't as you will screw up the reputation you have with him.

Answer 125

Whats with the two question marks ***** ?? go ahead if you want shitbag

Answer 126

You have a future as a two timer.

Answer 127

Well, do whatever you want. But first, dump your boyfriend, he doesnt deserve this

Answer 128

Your not happy in your relationship. Break up and **** whoever you want.

Answer 129

One word- Don't :)

Answer 130

Try having sex with your bf and see if you like it. If not dump him if you like it stay with him

Answer 131

Girls are f****** spiders... jesus christ. I've seen more girls cheat in my life than I have guys... wtf.



Hey, you selfish idiot, just so you know you're already cheating on your boyfriend. It's called emotional cheating, google it.

Answer 132

he is way too good for you. dump him and go "F" like a rabbit with 100 different guys

Answer 133

Why dont you just dump him and have sex with whoever you want?

Answer 134

You dirty little slut, tell me where you're from I'll **** you good

Answer 135

U dont have to be that loud ,just go for it bit¢h

Answer 136

Be faithful

Answer 137

f-cking break up with him if you want to date another guy?

Answer 138

Break up.

Answer 139

Just break up with him...duh

Answer 140

break up and just be friend with tht boy

Answer 141

don't go there ,you know it not right

Answer 142

Please please don't. Cheating is not the answer in a relationship - ever. It sounds like you need some professional counseling to help you through this. It's often available for little or no fee through health insurance. Almost everyone needs counseling at some point in their lives. Your school counselor should be able to refer you to someone.



It sounds like you are about to make dating decisions mainly based upon looks and sexual attraction. Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by many people, usually leads to a broken heart or worse.



This is going to sound hard to believe - but my suggestion is that you be strong and save yourself all the way until marriage. It is possible. If you do, you will never regret it.



I hope that your boyfriend is a strong guy. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.



My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), break up with your boyfriend in a kind way unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.



(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)



Hope this helps!



PS Here’s some information about sex before marriage from the books True Love Lasts, Straight Talk About Teen Dating, and Straight Talk About Dating:



Having sex before marriage can be harmful to you and to your future. This harm could include:



- not feeling good about yourself



- finding out that having sex causes people to become emotionally attached way too quickly



- sex becoming the main focus of your relationship



- finding out that having sex makes people ignore serious problems in the person they’re dating - serious problems that could destroy a marriage



- failing to realize that dating relationships which have sex as their main focus usually don’t last - until the relationship falls apart



- not learning to have real communication with each other, to be in touch with the your positive and negative feelings and the feelings of your significant other, to resolve conflicts in a calm constructive manner, to really get to know what your significant other is like in all situations because you’re spending too much time having sex



- not feeling good about choosing to have sex after your boyfriend or girlfriend says “I love you” and then later finding out he or she was lying to you just to get sex or he or she just has the feeling of being “in love” instead of true love (true love is supposed to be a lifelong commitment)



- feeling that you need to keep having sex with your boyfriend or girlfriend or else they’ll break up with you - even though you don’t feel good about it



- finding out that having sex makes people stay in dating relationships much longer than they should



- making the bad choice to stay in a relationship that you know isn’t good for you because you’re having sex



- being broken hearted after your boyfriend or girlfriend breaks up with you



- becoming an angry person after having your heart broken



- becoming depressed or possibly even suicidal after having your heart broken (please see a professional counselor immediately if you feel depressed or suicidal)



- feeling that you can’t trust anyone anymore after you’ve had your heart broken



- feeling horrible that you broke your boyfriend or girlfriend’s heart when you broke up with them



- getting into the habit of jumping from one sexual relationship to another looking for true love and sadly never finding it



- getting a sexually transmitted disease



- getting pregnant



- becoming a single mother (guys often don’t marry their pregnant girlfriends)



- having a child who doesn’t have a stable male role model in their life



- becoming more hesitant about making a lifelong marriage commitment to another person after having your heart broken



- ending up having problems relating sexually to your husband or wife in marriage because of the sex you had with them (and possibly with others) before marriage



- becoming divorced (statistics show that couples who have sex before marriage are more likely to get divorced than couples who don’t have sex before marriage)



“If it’s a good choice to have sex before marriage, then why doesn’t hardly anyone who waited for marriage say they wish they hadn’t waited? - and why do so many people who didn’t wait eventually say they wish they would’ve waited?”

Answer 143

typical

Answer 144

email me we can work something out

Answer 145

ugh that not right girl at all

Answer 146

You disgust me.

Answer 147

just break up with him

Answer 148

you're trash lol

Answer 149

We should hook up, No one will know.

Answer 150

then leave him first

Answer 151

Ok

Answer 152

such a sl*t

Answer 153

you seem crazy

Answer 154

You sound like a SLUT...

Answer 155

It seems.

Answer 156

you do you boo boo

Answer 157

Kill yourself.

Answer 158

why you stay with him

Answer 159

do it

Answer 160

u young so bone em all.............dats whats i believes n would do

Answer 161

no

Answer 162

slut!

Answer 163

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