Who do I choose? The guy of my dreams or my boyfriend?

Question

Recently I got a new boyfriend (Kile) who has like me for over a year now. He is sweet and kind and cute (i guess) but I was with this other guy (Taylor) for over a year and i am still madly in love with him. I don't know if Taylor still likes me but i don't want to hurt Kile because i still love Taylor. I want to do something about this before Kile falls for me and i hurt him even more but i don't want to end up not with Taylor because i need him, I love him!!! What do I do???????

Answer 1

Having a guy that is interested in you and wants to be with you is a million times better than the one you think is cute. You have a little history with Kile, keep going with him. There will always be a cuter guy. What matters is when you can be in your sweats and a little grimy and the guy still thinks the world of you.



Giving up what you have for something you don't even know could happen seems like a mistake, but you should also ask yourself how much you want to be with Kile if you are so easy to look for something better

Answer 2

Break up with Kile 'cause you don't like him and that's not fair to him.



As for Taylor, tell him how you feel. If he rejects you, move on -- but not with Kile. Get over Taylor first.

Answer 3

Do not know all the circumstances, but one thing I do know true love like you are talking about and want so badly only comes knocking once or twice in a life time. Why would you even waste your time or energy with someone you are just with because you do not want to hurt when there is someone you truly love and want and know he is the person you absolutely can't live without. Get out of the one you are in, or loose the person of your dreams. Choice should be simple,

Answer 4

Flip a coin on who to be with ,the moment the coin goes in the air you`ll already know which side you`re hoping for it to land on. Thats your choice.

Answer 5

u dont loves ur boyfriend. and if u do, ur not INLVOE wit him. ur inlove wit taylor obv. even if things arent goin to work out wit taylor, u still arent feeling it with ur current boyfriend. so i say end things wit him before things get worse n try to talk to taylor. maybe he still like u :) and if not, move on and find somebody u actually have feeling for