girls: i need guy help??

Question

okay, so ive never been with a guy at all. but everyone else i know has. and its really staring to get to me cause im 16!! does anyone know how to get a guy?? im kinda shy, so i need help to be more outgoing around people, espically guys!! and im not very pretty or athletic witch it seems what most guys like. so i really need guy help. how to be more than just myself, because trust me it doesnt work for me, and how to be outgoing and to make myself REALLY pretty...

Answer 1

at your age clear skin and tinted lip gloss is all you need to be pretty. dress with style and class (that means nothing a stripper or club goer would wear. it also means making sure your clothes fit and nothing is hangin out) if you have to adjust it it doesn't fit. also body spray over perfume for now and keep your nails and feel done. this way you will feel pretty. when you look good you feel good and it radiates. i promise you. once you do that try to remember your body language. when you talk to a guy, look them in the eye and smile. brush your hair back and lean into them. if you're sitting and you're comfortable crossing your legs, do so in their direction. don't fold your arms and find an excuse to touch their arm (not hitting cuz it's so 7th grade) give these tips a try and good luck hun.

Answer 2

Wow girl, as a guy I know how dumb we can be, always passing up the best girls becuz we are simple minded.

I wish I could just say wait because any guy you have to change yourself for is not worth having but that does not sound like very much of a solution does it?

Be yourself, the guys worth having will find you eventually, but it takes awhile for us to mature.

I know because I am older than dinosaurs and still not very smart.

Demi's answer is very good and yes, confidence in a woman is one of the most attractive (and hot) assets anyone can have.

Answer 3

I honestly think you're going about this for the wrong reasons. Just because everyone else has doesn't mean you should. Following the herd is one of the worst reasons to do something.



If I were you I would wait until a guy noticed me. Changing yourself to attract others usually ends in tears for both because its extremely hard to be something that you aren't, isn't it?

Answer 4

I realize. If the fellow hit the lady first it's horrible, beat his butt. If the lady hit the fellow first....eh. It quite does all stem again to the entire guys being better,more potent,more difficult,anything. But. If individuals didn't observe but, appears are very deceiving. The woman might be a ninja murderer for god's sake and looking to slice the deficient man in part however each person is like...do not hit her!!! I am quite sorry approximately the double ordinary fellas, I quite am.I didn't lead them to. I am a feminine too and alas fought a few boys earlier than. I am now not pleased with it in any respect due to the fact that they weren't quick in any respect. They hit difficult. Yes. But they weren't competent to seize me. They additionally began it, I on no account begin something with anybody and consider such as you must shield your self towards anybody inclined to violate your private area.OR get a few peers of the identical gender as your attacker and feature them kick their butt for you. That is what I did whilst different incidents like that occurred. You don't ought to slump to their degree both.

Answer 5

Just, one day you see a guy your interested in just go up say hi how are you, talk about things he likes, casual convo, even in school too, talk to the guys at school, theres someone for you you just have to find them. GL!





<3 Demi

Answer 6

The easiest thing on this earth to do is get a guys attention...

Stay away.....Let the guy find you later on in life. You should meet a few on your journey don't push it, just wait.

Answer 7

YOU SHOULDN'T BE WORRYING ABOUT FINDING A GUY! YOU SHOULD WORRY ABOUT YOUR GRADES AND DOING GOOD IN SCHOOL! YOU ARE WAY TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX! SO STOP SAYING YOU NEED A GUY! YOU REALLY DON'T!

Answer 8

Then...why does your about me say you love talking to cute guys?

Answer 9

i have the SAME problem. but everyone says be confident guys like it?

Answer 10

if you just be secure about yourself, you'll meet someone