how do you know if you are moving too fast or too slow in a relationship?

Question

i'm new to this whole relationoship thing. i know there arent timelines that one can follow as every relationship is different, but how do you know if you are moving too fast or too slow?

Answer 1

You're moving too fast when you feel uncomfortable with the things that are going on or happening between the two of you. Moving too fast as in, when you feel uncomfortable doing certain acts or when he does certain things to you.



You're moving too slow when you want more from the relationship. When you feel like something's missing, or you want your partner and yourself to be engaged in more things, be it sexual or not, intimate or not.



Either way, if you feel uncomfortable in any way, it is either too fast or too slow, or you might be with the wrong person. If you feel that the relationship is going to fast or slow, you should talk about it with your partner because he has the right to know how you feel. A relationship is two sided, so you've got to make sure that he knows!

Answer 2

Things are moving slow if you have been going out for a while + you haven't gone on dates very often. If you've been going out for more than 3 months and you haven't kissed... then, yes -- it's a slow relationship!



Things are going much too quickly if you are already jumping to making-out and already thinking of sex if you haven't even gone out very often (like a date). Things are also going fast if you are thinking of LUST, not LOVE.



Trust me, you'll know ;)

Answer 3

Move his pace