Question:
Ok she is 16 year old now. I am 20 years old. But?
Addicted
2009-07-13 22:04:08 UTC
Ok she is 16 year old now. I am 20 years old. We are in love now, Our marriage has been fixed after 2 years, I want to know will she love me the same way after marriage as she love me now. her feelings will be the same after marriage? or she will change. I am loving her so much and am confused about this now. Please help. Thanks be truthful.
21 answers:
Amy
2009-07-13 22:08:05 UTC
People always change, and love changes with it. Marriage especially can make a huge difference in how you love somone. But it doesn't have to be a bad thing--if you really love each other and work at your relationship (because relationships require hard, hard work), then things can work out fine.



But, um, please refrain from touching her until she's legal.
dell
2016-05-25 13:43:44 UTC
Can you think about all of the changes you've been through in the past 4 years? I think about the differences I went through between 16 and 20, then realize how much I learned then, I believe there IS something wrong with that. For one you have to ensure you are in a state that has a "law of concent" that a parent or legal guardian can't over throw. I know this will be setting anyone up for possible jail time because of being overage and underage. Secondly you have to see that there is a huge maturity difference in 4 years time which you can't call a "civilized relationship".
2009-07-13 22:09:27 UTC
what do you mean your marriage has been fixed?

let her live her life as a teenager first dude

my boyfriends' 22 and im 17 so the age difference isn't a problem

but get married so soon can definitely change her feelings

i'm pretty sure she doesn't want a kid at like age 18

but you should ask her if she will feel the same way about marriage

but young marriages half of the time never work

you're still really young too...i think you're rushing into it

maybe being engaged for a few years might be fine,

but marriage to me is a bad idea.
Judith
2009-07-13 22:15:20 UTC
She is a child; of course she is going to change and probably a lot. When teens enter their 20's their experience widens and their decisions are more mature. Why aren't you dating women closer to your own age? Four years isn't much when adults are involved and it seems to get narrower and narrower the older we become but there's a HUGE difference between you now. I hate to say this but I don't believe that a marriage between the two of you will last long. Both of you are too young to marry anyway. Marriage has a greater chance when both are at least twenty-five years old. If you do marry I hope that you two wait until she is 25 before even thinking of having a child.
Kacey
2009-07-13 22:08:06 UTC
It'll probably change. Were you the same person you were when you were 16? What about 18? People mature as they age and what she wants now most likely isn't what she'll want in 2 years. I hate to break it to you. I'd wait till she was at least 22 before marrying her. A lot of teenage marriages fail so two more years really shouldn't matter if you two love each other and are willing to spend your lives together.
2009-07-13 22:07:07 UTC
Where do you live Kentucky? Anyways, there is no guarantee that her feelings will stay the same or yours for that matter. All you can do for now is love her like there is no tomorrow. Obviously you know you are both way too young but what ever. Best of luck. (You said to be truthful so here is my two cents- I don't see you guys lasting since you are pretty much kids even though you are 20)
agot
2009-07-13 22:14:22 UTC
you are both pretty young and a change of heart is more likely to happen but marriage doesn't necessarily mean that a change of heart will occur.a lot of couple stay in love after so many years of being married,some even loved each other more by the time they celebrate their silver anniversary.You cannot know the future it is up to you for your woman not to have a change of heart.
Rob
2009-07-13 22:12:50 UTC
I can't give you a guaranteed answer, but if she truly loves and cares about YOU, not just the feeling of love, then she won't change. Marriage is just a fancy title for 'in a really committed relationship.' She shouldn't change because of marriage.
dazedx3
2009-07-13 22:09:57 UTC
Honestly- No one can answer this question. Sixteen years old is a developing age, ya know? How much did YOU develop and confuse yourself on who you want to be and such when you were sixteen? Then again she could be mature, and already know herself.

Its all up to her.
Shilo
2009-07-13 22:11:44 UTC
Of course it will change because she will grow up, that is not a bad thing. BUT, what are you doing with a 16 yr. old.
2009-07-13 22:08:51 UTC
every thing will be the same, she wouldn't love you less after marriage !
kmolm
2009-07-13 22:10:52 UTC
when u are that young things are bound to change it's a part of growing and a part of life
miniimufin
2009-07-13 22:24:21 UTC
dude she doesn't even know what love is at 16!
confused 101
2009-07-13 22:12:34 UTC
yu might want to ask her that we can't answer for her!

hope this helps :)
?
2009-07-13 22:07:30 UTC
it should make her feel closer to u and happier bt thts my opinion.
2009-07-13 22:09:42 UTC
You'll have to wait and see.
Xtina
2009-07-13 22:07:54 UTC
depends on if you still stay the same.





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<3☺
2009-07-13 22:07:52 UTC
You're supposed to be asking her this not Yahoo answers. How are we supposed to know.
2009-07-13 22:09:28 UTC
Aint no but your *** is too old.
2009-07-13 22:07:23 UTC
you like them young huh?





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2009-07-13 22:08:00 UTC
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