How to get the truth?

Question

Hey , how is everybody :

There is a guy whom is obsessed with me .
His name is Robert .
He stares at me constantly . But its not
the problem is , he broke up a precious relationship
that i once had . We tried to work it out . He said
something to my boyfriend and that effected our relationship
that we were trying to work out . I am hurting inside .
I dont talk to him , cuz he asks every guy ,
he sees me with , if i am seeing them . And the guys say
NO , that we are just friends .He has even ask my friends
questions about me . Truth is , I really want to know , what he said
to break up my relationship . It has caused me great
heart-break . There are 3 guys who knew about this ,
None of them wants to disclose the truth about what
was said . Now I finally found another guy friend
who is mad kewl with me , Robert finally asked him
the big " Q " , Are u seeing her ? And of course
He said No , We are just friends . My friend and him
also know each other , but not all that close .
Robert told my guy friend that he broke my relationship
with my guy . But never said any details .
Any ideas ,on how i can get the truth , and make my
friend get information for me , without him lying to me
and being serious . I have hope , I do .
I know I can I ease my pain some- how , cuz it
hurts .Cuz It bothers me , tremendously .
There are ways , So Any Ideas .
Please Help ! I appreciate it .

Answer 1

Have one of your friends pretend to get into a fight with you or something and have them befriend the other guy and when they become "friends" have them find out what was said or ask your ex cause if your relationship actually meant anything at all then he would tell you. And that is that.

Answer 2

There is something i have to tell you .

You have to stop typing like this .

It has irritated me constantly through your story . But its not

the problem is , you need a new precious relationship

thats in your future . Try to work it out . Just say

something to Robert about how he did this to you

and how it affected your relationship . Tell him you're hurting .

Afterward , dont talk to him , because he will ask your boyfriend ,

cuz he sees you with him . Tell him to say No , we are just friends .

Tell him not to ask your friends .

i cant tell you what he said , but tell him that it has caused you

great heart-break . Question the 3 guys who know about it ,

Give them anything for information about it . Anything .

Tell Robert that none of your guy friends need to be asked .

They'll appreciate this deeply .

Your guy friend will realize that Robert isn't good .

Ask Robert why he did what he did . Ask him about

why he would do this to you . If Robert really likes you ,

he will let everything go your way . Ladies first .

Ask your friend . Tell him that you will do almost anything

for information . Anything .

Everything will blow over if you leave it alone if those guys wont

give you the information you deserve .

i can tell you this : leave those guys alone if they wont

help you . If they won't , hang around with girls more .

THINGS WILL BLOW OVER IN THE END.

Keep your hope . You can ease your pain some- how .

There are ways , there are So Any Ideas .

i have done what i can to help .

i bid you good luck !

Answer 3

How close is this guy Robert to you and your fiance? He must be a really good friend if your fiance believes what ever Robert told him. Your looking at this situation all wrong. Its your fiance you should be mad at. Just hear me out, I'm not being rude, I'm being honest. It shows how much your fiance really cares about you and trusts you. If someone can go and tell him (for example) "hey I slept with your fiance" and he believes them then you should already know that something was wrong with your relationship, for him to go and not even think twice or give you the benefit of the doubt that you would never do that to him then honey this relationship was never meant to be. It just shows that your fiance will believe everyone else over you.



As for this guy Robert you should sit him down and talk to him. Smack the **** out of him and tell him that you and him will never ever happen and get over it.



As for your new friend why don't you have him tell Robert that you two are dating so then Robert can tell him whatever he told your fiance to break you guys up.



But really you should move on and find someone who will trust you and believe in you and not what other people say. Your better then that and you deserve better then that.

Answer 4

Tricky situation... the only way I can see getting the answer is being a little tricky yourself. If this guy really likes you, tell him (lying of course) that you want him to call you so you can chat.. write this to him in a note or something) When he calls, chat for a bit about random stuff, gaining his trust a bit. Then after a while say something like, I want to be friends, but I need to know something first and I want you to be honest. Ask him what he said, and when you tells you... decide what you want to do from there. You could hang up... or forgive him depending on what he tells you.



Just an idea, good luck!

Answer 5

Heyyy! No offense but Robert sounds a little annoying.lol. Anyways you should tell Robert to stop and ask him what he said ! He's obviously hurting you and you need to get to the bottom of this. I think he just likes you and is trying to make sure you don't go out with anyone else. If he won't tell you say" Robert's it's really hurting me and I relally liked blah blah blah blah" If he still won't tel you then ask your ex.goodluck!

Answer 6

He likes u and probably just intimidated the other guys. I think he didn't say anything against ur character...if that's what u are asking. he just simply let them know in a intimidating manner...probably not even verbally, that she is mine. Just laugh at it as much as u can. If us feed into it it will only get worse because he is a lllllliiiittle what we call OBSESSED! Stay clear of him! He has issues!!! And they didn't just start with u rejecting him! It's his low self esteem. But just look and smile and don't make any sudden movements.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

ok well what i say to do is get a ton of peanut butter some super glue and get a lot of wood and nails so heres what u do make a box out of wood put robert in the box and super glue in shut then u will never worry about him again and u have a snack (the peanut butter) lol

Answer 9

talk 2 robert

(and thts my reely name actualy :p)

Answer 10

You'll get over it.

Answer 11

idk (sorry)