would you consider this cheating?

Question

would you consider this cheating? :;
while having a boyfriend, you txt another boy
in a flirting way. for example : saying how cute
one another are, talking about kissing, falling
asleep with one another &some other stuff.
would you consider that cheating on your boyfriend?!

Answer 1

You obviously don't feel right about what you are doing, because if you did you wouldn't be asking. If you are interested in another person like that, then you need to act like a grown woman and dump the guy you are with. All you are doing is being selfish, and I doubt you would like it if someone did the same thing to you.

Answer 2

YES..... That is considered cheating. You have a boyfriend and at the same time, you are flirting with another guy. It's like you are a two-timer kind of girl. And if you do't want to lose or to destroy your reputation, and if you really love your boyfriend, you need to stop that. Or otherwise, if your boyfriend knew what you are doing behind his back, that will completely force him to lose his trust on your relationship. You need to choose between the two of them. You need to find out who you love more. In psychology, A person cannot love two persons at a time. It is either you love your boyfriend more, or you love the guy more... Another is, why did you like them?? If one guy just reminds you of someone, that doesn't mean that you love that guy..

Answer 3

Its not cheating unless you are married. At your age you should be playing the field and not get tied down to one boy anyway. Have fun and enjoy being young and pretty because there will come a time when you are married with a couple of snotty kids in tow before you know it. I didn't get married until I was 32 years old and never committed myself to any one man until I met the right one and I had a fantastic time.

Answer 4

Yes, I would because if you really cared about your boy friend you have no business flirting with other guys for attention. And if you do, consider the possibility you don't want a boyfriend because your actions are speaking volumes.



Let me ask you this?



If your boyfriend was texting a girl and telling her she was cute and wanted to wake up next to her, how would you feel? Maybe you need to reconsider how much your boyfriend means to you? Hurting other people will boomerang back to you. Please get very honest with yourself, so no one gets hurt here. Playing games with someones heart, can prove to be dangerous in the game of love.



Dr. Maggie

Answer 5

Yes, in a way it is because it's leading up to more advanced stuff. So i'm sure you wouldn't like your boyfriend to be doing that to you, so don't do that to him. If you want to be with the other boy, then just break up with your current boyfriend. No need to be playing games just to make him jealous. That's messing with his head and not a very polite thing to do.

Answer 6

once you're questioning, it probable is. each time you experience an emotional connection with somebody else, any style of touch that feels intimate - could be in simple terms speaking or texting, yet feels close, brings you closer to that individual - is dishonest. while you're actually not emotionally in contact, then those comparable issues are in simple terms friendly. additionally i'm assuming by skill of kissing you mean a kiss on the cheek, because of the fact on the mouth or deep kissing is definitely around the line.

Answer 7

Yes and No...

I do not believe that texting and flirting with aonther guy is really cheating you are just flitratious...

But when it gets physical, like kissing and actually putting yourself in the situation where you are falling asleep with someone else...your bound to take cheating to the next level...

All I can say is good luck.

And makesure you cover up all your tracks...

<3

Ragdoll.

Answer 8

As a general rule, anything that you would not want your boyfriend to find out is considered cheating. By not wanting to tell your boyfriend it means you feel guilty. If you feel guilty it means you are doing something wrong. Hope that helped :)

Answer 9

Sure it is. how about texting your boyfriend and saying the same things. You are obvisouly interested in this other guy, so you need to choose one or the other. If your b/f finds out, he will not be happy and you can't blame him. What if he was doing that with another girl?

Answer 10

Yes in another form yes, that is considered to be. So stop being an unfaithful little girl and stop this foolishness. Man, I don't understand how girls cannot be happy with what they have. You girls are just unstable creatures

Answer 11

It's not cheating, but why would you not break up with your boyfriend if you talk about doing things like that with another guy?

Answer 12

A tiny bit. I my opinion only physical acts are cheating. Put yourself in his shoes. If he was texting some girl in the same manner would you accuse him of cheating?

Answer 13

Yes, to me that is considered emotional cheating. I'm sorry for your boyfriend at the moment...

Answer 14

If I was your boyfriend, yes, I would be very hurt to find out you did this. And further? If you feel the need (or feel it's Ok to do this) you shouldn't have a steady boyfriend.

Answer 15

One of the most important components of cheating is dishonesty. Does your boyfriend know about these conversations? How would he react if he found out?



If you wouldn't tell him about it, then it might as well be cheating.

Answer 16

no not at all.



cheating is when you hook up with another guy.

flirting is fun and everyone does it.



but you might want to think about who you really want to be with.

there's no use going out with your bf if you have feelings for someone else. think about who you really like. is this boy you text just fun or do you really like the guy?

Answer 17

Use this as your guideline:



"Cheating" is doing something behind your significant other's back that you wouldn't do right in front of them or that you wouldn't want them to do with someone else.



Draw your own conclusions.

Answer 18

Cheating? No.

Immoral? Yes.



Either you're just playing with the other boy, which is cruelly giving him false hope, or you actually intend to follow through with your messages, which would be cheating.

Answer 19

I would see that as preparing to cheat. :S I can see why a boyfriend would get extremely upset over texts like that.

Answer 20

not really, but its kinda messed up to do that behind your boyfriend's back, if you want to be with the other guy then be with the other guy. when your boyfriend finds out your flirting with someone else he'll be hurt.

Answer 21

Don't ask yourself if it's cheating but ask yourself if you would like it if he did that with another girl. It's called mutual respect towards each others feelings.

Answer 22

It is in a way cuz you're flirting with another boy..what if he was doing that with another girl how would you feel?

Answer 23

Just by asking the question I think you already know you are cheating.

Answer 24

No. But Youre coming extremely close.

Answer 25

Yes! Hello, that would be definition number one for that word. If you have a boyfriend, ****! you better respect him and be loyal to him. Don't be a slutt

Answer 26

to him its not lol so have fun but kissing is cheating, all that other stuff is a start to cheating so u might as well cheat if ur gona do that

Answer 27

Yeah a little

Answer 28

well if he finds out its really going to hurt him so not technically cause your not doing anything physically, only over texting. but he will definitely take it that way if he really has feelings for you yeah..

Answer 29

Yes. If it's something you wouldn't do in front of your bf, or wouldn't want him to know about...it's cheating.

Answer 30

yea kinda. ur flirting with another guy. thats the same things bf and gfs do.





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Answer 31

noo but that means eventually you will cheat on him. before you do it just break up with him cause ur just gonna hurt him more by lieing to him!!

Answer 32

Yes. I would never do that to the person I was with. How hurtful.

Answer 33

That's called leading the other guy on.

Answer 34

I definitely would consider that cheating.

Answer 35

No, but its pretty lame, both towards your boyfriend and the other guy.

Answer 36

umm.... i think it is. but not REALLY bad. like my bestfriend (who i like) has a boyfriend. but we flirt and talk about kissing and other stuff. but i know i shouldnt do that. but i like her and she likes me enough back...shes dumping her boyfriend for me.



have a good life!

Answer 37

yes

Answer 38

Would you consider it cheating if he did it to you?

Put yourself in his place!

Answer 39

oh and girls go on about boys cheating and that?



haha your dirty little slut i hope hes on some girl right now thats alot better than you :)

Answer 40

Yeah. But ask your boyfriend what he thinks and be honest with him.

Honesty is important. (So is trust, and that's what he needs to do- trust you....and you him.)



Good luck. =)

Answer 41

yep it's called emotional cheating which is just as bad if not worse than physical cheating.

Answer 42

yes

Answer 43

yes

Answer 44

Yes! Would you like him to do that to you? That's not fair to him, especially if he really likes you.



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Answer 45

That is definately CHEATING!



and Daren...you are soooo wrong

Answer 46

I think so, but, if you think your bf will mind then you are guilty about something, so don't do it! If you don't feel so bad, well..then...

Answer 47

yea b/c i did it n i felt bad after a while

Answer 48

YES!!!!!!! my step sis did taht to me i dont know if i will ever forgive her

Answer 49

Yeah, and even not its extremely close.

Answer 50

yes. it could possibly lead into something more.

Answer 51

yes,



dont do that to your boyfriend,

its not fair to him,and its kinda

slutty.sorry,but true.

Answer 52

yess duhh

Answer 53

uhh yeah!

your lucky he didnt dump yo ***

Answer 54

of course it is cheating - it doesn't have to be physical to be cheating.

Answer 55

yup you might as well go be with the new guy now

Answer 56

nope that's not cheating.....but wrong kind of...not too wrong...it's normal to like other ppl,but you might as well break up with your bf

Answer 57

no until you actually kiss the boy, everyones allow to have fun

Answer 58

ya

Answer 59

if your questioning it then it it is cus that is your conscience saying so

Answer 60

wtf...



uhm yea i wouldn't be pleased, more like pissed

Answer 61

idk you so no id think your a slut

its ok to have guys friends and a boyfreind but i think you should talk to ur bf about it

Answer 62

No

Answer 63

do you feel like its cheating????











yea it is

Answer 64

KINDA YEAH

Answer 65

.. kind of



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Answer 66

yeahh i would consider it.

Answer 67

pretty much

Answer 68

yea u whore

Answer 69

no

Answer 70

i would yes....

Answer 71

YES like wtf...



obviously.