Tell your BF to stop putting all this on you.(if he's not working two jobs, why should you?) I'm assuming he's the one that's 18+ cause you can't get an apt at 14.
Are your parents supportive? if they are, bail on the loser sweetheart. Your a young girl, 14 isn't even a women yet. I hope to god you finish highschool, your son's gonna need you more and more, and at least with a HS diploma you can get a data entry job or something ground level. McDonalds, and BKing will not give you enough to support a child on your own.
If you are making less than about $10 an hour, there's a lot of financial assistance from government programs like WIC, and your local housing commission. I'd say get married to help with taxes but in all honesty, your BF sounds like a complete ***. I'd die before I got a 14 year old girl pregnant, and that's mean going back to when I was 16-17.
You guys might think your in love, but I'll be straight with you..... Your man, holds on to you, because no women his age would respect a guy that can't at least provide for a little comfort or hell, just a tiny bit of stability. He might hold you, he might kiss you and tell you how much you mean to him....But if he's not out there pounding the pavement, working his ******* fingers to the bone; He's full of ****. You'll see, when your 18-30, your priorities will change; and if they don't life will change them for you....you know why? Cause that little boy, has nobody else but you and you won't want to see him go with out because your "IN LOVE".