How to make a girl you like miss you?

Question

There is this girl who like a fair bit, and she recently 'friend zoned' me, if you will. She also admitted in the past that she like liked me.

We used to talk everyday and I would normally start the conversation and they would be decent conversations. The other day I sent her a text saying 'Hi, I hope all is well, I'm just sending this text to say that I'm going to take a break from contacting you for a while, as I really like you and you don't feel the same, so it will benefit me and potentially you, hope you understand my reasoning, thanks xx'.

So basically I'm going to take a break from talking to her for a bit (Couple of weeks) in the hope that maybe she'll miss me and maybe change her mind about me.

I think my actions are reasonable.

How else could you get a girl you like to miss you?

Answer 1

If she misses you, she will miss you as a friend.

It will not change her "friend-zoning" you.



Since girls are attracted to guys they have fallen for (in other words, FIRST comes their heart, and only second comes their physical attraction to you) ... you stand a better chance of eventually winning her if you stay in touch with her.

But when a girl friend-zones you, it's usually because there is something about you that turns her off, and there is nothing you can do to change that.



We cannot "make" anyone feel any way. The only person whose emotions we control are out own.



They say "Absence makes the heart grow fonder." But they ALSO say, "Out of sight, out of mind".

Answer 2

Some guys do, but most guys don't and the reason is probably mostly genetic. Males tend to be loners more than females and so the social aspect of life is more important to the females. This probably stems from the hunter/gather days when women were together socializing while the males were out hunting. While hunting the males couldn't be so noisy or communicative so as not to startle the prey. Females were home raising the children, fixing the meals, making the clothes/quilts/etc and were very social during those times.. Also, females are truly connected to the families i.e. children since it is the female that carries the child 9-months and give it birth and feeds it from her own body during it's early months. Males just plant the seed and move on. So, there's no real connection from the male point-of-view. A man can still love and care as deeply as a woman, but it may not always show up the same way.

Answer 3

That's the good thing to do. Girls want what they can't have so make it hard for her. Make it seem like you don't need her. Don't think of her. And show you can have a good time without her. And do that indirectly through like Facebook. Post pictures of having fun. (Us girls like to stalk) she might contact you after awhile. If not you can move on or weeks later contact her if you want to. It might or might not work.