WTF does he mean by "Oh, I see how it is"??!!?

Question

Well Today my guy friend came over and we been messin around for like 2 months and we had unprotected sex so we are still scratching our head if Im pregnant or not. I had a wierd short period for about 2 days. and then Ive been having these mood swings. irritable to angry to sad to tired to bored, etc. But Anywaysz idc, um so wen he came over today people were downstairs with my brother so he decided to talk to them instead of me and I was upstairs waiting for him for a while and i just ended up crying and gettin mad so wen he finally came upstairs I was kind of mad but i tryed not to show it too much so then we got snuggled up under the covers, and he wasnt speaking and neither was I because he knew something was wrong but everytime he knows Im mad or sad he doesnt really seem to care he just walks away or tries to avoid the subject, but anywaysz wen we were laying on the bed together I was just like "haha dude ur boring" and i was just being playful like I usually am nd I was just actin like i didnt want him on me cuz i was kinda pissed at him but he was just like "Oh, I see how it is" and walks out my bedroom door, I thought he left but instead he went to go talk to the people downstairs. I was pissed because he always does s*** like that. I was so pissed I was throwing things across the room and Crying my eyes out with rage! but he didnt hear it because he was too busy talking! I dont think hes gonna text me or talk to me after this. WHat do I do? Should I text him? Should I Apoligize for being angry? Should I let him come to me? Please help! What should I do?
And dont say "he doesnt caare or stupid s***" cuz were really close.. like we hang out like everyday, its not like we have sex everyday.. we known eachother for about 2 or 3 months but we only had sex like 5 or 6 times. me and him just have a slight anger problem :]
Oh and Im the one that sugested that we have sex. not him..even though he knew he wanted to he just didnt want to say it to sound too pushy. and i notice he doesnt like sharing his emotions too much cuz he trys to keep it all in. and wen he walk away he comes right back but he try to avoid the situation by making me laugh or something. but I notice that some guys really just dont wanna appoligize cuz they dont wanna admit that they are wrong

Answer 1

Oh my god Girl, you and I have the same situation on hand.



I'm very close to someone as well, and let me tell you. We often have these kind of anger tiffs.

But, he used to come back to me just like you guy and then tried to make me laugh so we could just forget the thing happened. But, one day, he didn't come back and, i didn't go to him. For 2 or 3 days actually. then he finally wrote me and said, "What the **** don't you talk to me anymore for." I said, "Its not that im not talking to you..I just dont know what to say after what happened!" he said, "JUST COME UP TO ME!! JEEZ! DONT BE SO SHY! GIRLS ALWAYS ACT SO SHY WHEN A GUY LEAVES PISSED WHEN REALLY THEY SHOULD JUST GO UP TO HIM AND SAY, "WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT!" OR, "IM SORRY!"." After that 2 seconds later, i called his house phone he answered and said, "-.- yesss?" I said, "I'm sorry haha" and that was that.

You need to be the man this time. What my guy said was right. Girls really are too submissive and shy sometimes. Go up to him A.S.A.P, now if you can. and just show up at his house, knock on his door and say, "That's not how it is." then say, "I'm sorry, *his name*" he's probably gonna be kind of cold toward you, if he is, just keep working at it and eventually just say, "can i hug you" or skip the asking part and just hug him until he hugs you back.



Some times it takes us hours to get through our B.S arguments. Sometimes it takes us weeks to fully get them out of the way, like the last one we had was on and off for a month and a half!!

Talk about wanting to dump your friend with benefits -.- haha



Good luck, you're gonna be fine. Just be the man this time.



all he wants is for you to go after him.



Girls arent the only ones who like to be chased.

Answer 2

First, take a deep breath and calm down... second, next time please use protection if your not trying to get pregnant to soon. im going to give you the two magical words that make men disappear im pregnant! or im abstinent!.. sure fire way to make them go bye -bye lol.. But dont worry if you are a teen theres a chance your having mood swings just cause your a teen.. But anyway i don't believe you should apologize just next time you see him or call him tell him EXACTLY how you feel but calmly dont get loud or anything they stop listening after that, (jus bein real) and when you tell him iff he doesnt respond or seem to care .. he doesnt deserve you sweetie,,, and im not telling you what to do but try to slow down a little if you know what i mean. it keeps them around much longer and also show him he can't just walk out on you... you need to lay down sum rulez #plain n simple if he doesnt go for that start cutting him off little by little that way it'll give him some time to think how stupid he is truly acting if he gets arrogant with you.. if you have any more questions or need more advice after you take this advice (if you do) .... just send me a message on here

Answer 3

He's trying to put you in your place. If you cant be ready and waiting when he comes around, and be quiet and sweet no matter what, then he's going to walk away. He wants you to make the next move and whether you want to hear it or not, he's not half as into you as you think.....or it wouldn't be this difficult.

Answer 4

Sounds like he is sick of putting up with your drama and BS. If I were him I wouldn't talk to you again, and if I were you I'd do a few things: learn how to spell, get on birth control, and realize that guys aren't going to put up with your mood swings and drama.

Answer 5

Oh I See

Answer 6

He means that he knows more then you and that he wants you to know hes an arrogent jerk

Answer 7

girl you are pregnanttttttttttt xD

Answer 8

he thinks he knows everything

Answer 9

Smart ***