I found a dating app on my boyfriends phone...?

Question

I was fixing something on my boyfriends phone and I saw a dating app on there. I didnt say anything but im really hurt. Then I checked our purchached apps and there were like three others! He's cheated on all of his wives, he cheated on.his last one with me. But hes really got me convinced that hes not going to. And honestly I don know where he has the time to cheat on me. I mean im literally with 24/7 besides the time he is at work. I go where he gos. He wants sex like three times a day and ever since I found that, im just not really interested anymore but its like he doesnt care if I say no. Hes gonna get what he wants anyways ): He also just got this tablet and theres a dating app on there too! On his app store, his recent searches are: people near me. So obviously he just downloaded it. And now hes put a password on there and wont give it to me. Hes never not given me his passwords. Im so worried bc ive lost all my family and friends bc of him and I literally have no one but him.

Answer 1

he cheated on his wife to be with you, and youre suprised he might be cheating on you? SMH

Answer 2

Oh dear, you have found out the hard way why we do not get with men who would cheat on their wives with you. I believe this is what they call KARMA. You knowing chose to settle with a guy who you had an affair with while he was married and believed he wouldn't do it to you...MUG! He has time to cheat, i bet his wives sat saying the same things, as you and that is called denial, we never want to believe it even when the obvious is in our faces. To convince you i reckon catching him in the act is how far it's going to have to go before you get a clue.



He has set up a dating profile and is sweet talking lots of women with dirty talk (a high number of site users are there solely for no strings fun. ) and the fact he has been able to do this pretty much undetected shows that he does have the time and the opportunity. I'm sure you are not together 24/7. That's a physical impossibility. He won't give you the password because he has something to hide and you have thrown all your friends and family away for this cheating loser, who will never change. Do yourself a favour take your clothes, belongings and your dignity and get the hell out of dodge before it's too late.

Answer 3

Your best bet is to end it and ask for your friends/family for forgiveness, stuff is only gonna get worse with you and him because of the trust issue that is now in place and there is no other reason why he would have a dating app other than he wants to cheat, leave before you get hurt!!!

Answer 4

He's bored with you. That's what it seems like and he is a cheater so what do you expect? He sounds like the type who is never satisfied and when I say bored with you I don't mean that you're the problem. I don't think he will ever be happy with anyone because he likes being with different people it seems..

Answer 5

First, you need to realize that this kind of man is NEVER going to treat you right and you deserve better than that. He is manipulator that has made you believe he is going to stay with you and that you are different. pft.



It doesn't matter that he hasn't *actually* put his D in another V; the fact is, he is talking to other woman already.



I think you need to reach out to friends/family and tell him you were wrong. Swallow that pride. You got caught up in the moment and you believed him. You now realize that you are wrong.



Then if you two live together, you need to move out. If you two aren't living together, then just tell him that you are done. He is far too selfish to love.

Answer 6

Beat him up

Answer 7

he is a sex maniac