Should I stop sending my bf naughty pics?

Question

My bf and I are in a long distance relationship. He's been out of the country for 2 years for med school. We've known each other for 8 years but we've been dating for 1 year. I send him a lot of naughty pics when he asks but he never sends me anything in return. He hates taking pics. He's never taken a selfie or any naughty pic for me. He prefers webcam but It's a hassle on my end bc I have roommates who walk into my lock less room throughout the day. I send him videos and pics but when I ask he complains and says that it looks gross when a guy does it. Lately, I've been denying his requests and he's been upset. I Like to send him things but it's not fair if he doesn't send me anything in return. He's an attractive guy and I've seen everything he has so I really don't understand why he's so shy about this. What should I do? Should I just accept it and continue to send without receiving?

Answer 1

No,

I've been having the same problem too and it's pissing me off lol

Answer 2

First world problems.



Every day, literally thousands of people in long distance relationships get on just fine without sending naughty images. Your boyfriend is placing unreasonable expectations on you.



Plus, if you ever break up, who knows where those images will show up.

Answer 3

Stop sending him naughty pictures. He is selfish and immature.

Answer 4

Why would you send any provocative images to a guy? Any guy, including a boyfriend. You don't know where they will end up later. Not very bright.

Answer 5

If you really want pics of him then tell him you want to trade. I understand his view though, I've always thought my own pictures are either bad or gross. Never had a girl request pics of me either.