2012-04-13 01:07:25 UTC
But there are few problems:
First, he still visits the dating site where we met, about 3-4 times a day. I checked it few times. I personally am not interested in that site anymore, but sometimes i have this urge to check, and whenever I go there (about 1 time a week) i see that he was there recently (few minutes ago). Is he still looking for?
I asked him about that. He said that he has friends on that site and he's catching up. But, that site is not free. You have to pay to be able to send messages there. Is he paying more than $10 a month just to be able to catch up with a couple of friends, when they just could move to skype or some other messenger? I don't know...
Secondly, although we talk very often, sometimes he's just unavailable. He's out with friends almost every night. Usually he calls me half an hour before he's out. And then he's out to a bar or a restaurant or a movie. Is it normal too? I don't go out so often (mostly 1-2 times a week tops), so i don't know that either....
Finally, he's supposed to come to visit me in two weeks from now, and he still hasn't bought the ticket, although he told me he checked it and also checked the hotel he's supposed to stay at, and decided about the date he's coming at... But... no ticket yet. Is it ok? Can you buy a ticket just 1-2 weeks before a flight? I guess you can, hypothetically, but why not to buy it now?
I don't show him my frustration, but there are so many doubts... The worst thing, is that I was in a very bad relationship over a year ago, where the guy was two-timing me, and he was very good at lying, so now I'm paranoid.... but the problem is, i don't know to which extend is it paranoia, and to which- my intuition telling me to be careful....
The bottom line, I don't know whether to trust him or not. I guess I will have just to wait and see how things will go, and whether he buys the ticket eventually, but even that won't solve the dating site problem.
Please help me with advice.