Why wont she call back?

Question

I have a gf, had her for about a month. We are doing great, just the other day she told me she loved me. But when i call her she says she will call back but she never does. She tells me she will call me in the morning, or when she gets home but she never does. If anything ill get a text about some random, non-conversation starter question. We are really happy together, but is there a reason why she does this? Do you think she forgets, gets too busy, wants me to call her instead or what?

Answer 1

Maybe she forgets too?

Don't get paranoid. Girls hate that.

Be comfortable in your role as her boyfriend.

After all, you do have her. That's a big step. From there, just keep living life. Keep it going. Call her once, but definately not more than three times in 8 hours. General rule...

Call: Once every four hours is ok

Text: Three every hour is ok

Good luck. Try not to be overbearing.

Just do what you do. Obviously that worked. :)

Answer 2

Some women need to be doted on, they need o feel important and like their man to call them.

On the flip side, if not, maybe you should ask her why she's always forgetting to call you...make it sound casual like you don't really care...

" hey you didn't call me this morning like you said you would...did you get too busy or do you just say you'll call so i'll think about you all day"



:)



as long as shes keeping in touch (even random texting) i'd say you have nothing to worry about, girls dont waste time texting guys they dont like at least a little bit

and if all else fails YES call her

good luck champ

Answer 3

Perhaps she is just busy or perhaps she is also one of those girls who wants you to give chase because a lot of girls like that feeling of sometimes it is power and sometimes it is just that feeling of being special to a guy and she's trying to hang onto that. Yet that's not really right of her to be doing this I don't think. Because obviously she should be feeling special because of you in a lot of other (and much healthier) ways. About her forgetting.. the fact you said she just said I love you I'm going to say that's probably not it. The only other thing I'll pose to you is that maybe she is not a phone person or a texter? I know one or two people like that and it's just not what they like and not how they keep in touch with their bf/gf. Maybe ask her about it. I'm sure it probably doesn't have to anything with whether she is committed to you or not, like you said, things are great when you are together. But of course, as you've realized, it's good to have things just as great when you are apart.

Answer 4

I think that possibly the best advice I could give you would be to talk to her about it.

just simply call and ask, or text and ask.

Say something simple like, "why do you always say your going to call, and you never do?".



Maybe she will have a reasonable answer, and maybe she wont.

And just remember that if she doesn't have a reasonable answer, she's not worth it.



I think that maybe you need to start pushing away, because if this isn't what she wants....your going to be more hurt for being so attached.



Hope I helped :)

Answer 5

I think shes forgetting. I tell people Im gonna call them all the time and never do. The thing is at least yall are communicating, just keep doing that and if it comes to that point just ask her whats wrong.

Answer 6

honestly dude, girls are very unique. Im dating a girl who says she will call me in ten min. and i dont talk to her for 2 days... matter of fact, i just talked to her for the first time in a few days, but sometimes she DOES call me when she says shes going to... I think shes busy, or forgets, or at least id like to think so... but then again, if she says she loves ou, how could she forget about you that easily? i think about my girl 24/7 and if i say id call her i would.. i dont see how someone who says they love you can forget about you... that just doesnt make sense... hope this helps!

Answer 7

she could just be really busy or just forgets..maybe next time you ask her to call you and she just texts you..then you should call her if you know for sure that she isnt busy...if you two are happy together then this is a small problem and if it really bugs you then just ask her why she doesnt call because she might not even realize that she does that

Answer 8

i had a gf like this before, and a reason why she wouldn't call back is because she's too busy begin with other guys or her friends. your only important if you give her money or gifts. once she doesn't need anything from you that's it, no call.

Answer 9

i think she want's you to call her to see if you feel the same way she maybe thinking (if he loves me aswel he will call me)



try little texts before u go bed like .... night babe.. sweetheart



w,e u say to each other



if you love her put that on the end that can also help with plenty of kisses not too much tho :)

Answer 10

She may be very vain & selfish, and only into what her needs are. She may be using you, she keeps you around in case she needs someone. She may be a user.

The question you should be asking yourself is do you really want someone you cannot depend on?

Answer 11

She is testing you..she wants to know how badly you want her.

She's seeing if you will call her and that will show her how much you do want her.

BUT!!! Keep in mind not to call her too much she could be just having her time.

Answer 12

oh oh.. i think that's not the reason why? hmm.. if she does it everytime, being busy or forgetting is NOT the reason.. aftr her work u can just call her or you can pick her up.. somethin like that?

Answer 13

you guys haven't been together that long so i'm guessing she is not taking you seriously yet...she is probably still playing the field..that is how i was..cuz wen i really like a guy i call non stop..always answer my phone for him..

Answer 14

sounds like shes toying with u dump her and see if she tries to get back with you that way u will know if she really loves u if not shes not worth dating

Answer 15

i think shes just a person who doesnt like being on the phone. some people are like that. or she is insecure or is just busy.

Answer 16

she's probably feeling a little weird and maybe embarrassed about saying she loves you. give her some space and then if it continues, then confront her about it and get some answers. good luck(:

Answer 17

She's playing games with you dude. Don't give her the time of day. Trust me, that'll get her attention if you ignore her.

Answer 18

i think the next time she tells you to call her bring it up. give her your understand that your busy and just say "well would you rathe r me call you in the morning" and see what she says...the worst thing that can happen is havin her say, well hun, i have been really busy, thanks for understanding. i will try harder next time to call you..



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Answer 19

I think you problably need to call her she wants to see if you will call her, you know i know exactly how she fells caller she will be really happy, call her in the morning just to say good morning. have you said you love her yet if not she problables fells really stupid. tell her you love her unless you dont mean it. Can you answer mine please. https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20081019174646AAnCscG

Answer 20

She probably regrets telling you she loves you and probably feels embarrased now....or maybe shes just not into u anymore.

Answer 21

When she said she loved you, she probably thought it was too fast and feels wierd about it.

Answer 22

she is getting nailed buy another guy lol jk i would say she has some kind of problem at her house

Answer 23

Meet up with her and ask her what's going on.

Answer 24

there is propably another guy she is not telling you about or she has lost interest in you

Answer 25

she wants you to call her...duhhh

Answer 26

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Answer 27

ask her.

Answer 28

She is a ****!