Serious help guys? please I need serious answers?

Question

Ok, so this girl (14) was going out with my friend (17) and they split up, I'd been speaking to her when they were together as friends obviously but now that they've broken up, I think she may like me? I think I like her (but I don't know) She lives In Sunderland I live in Newcastle (near enough) so it'd be a 'long distance relationship' if we went out (so I wouldn't see her much) but 17 and 14 seems weird typed out but thinking in my head it doesn't seem so bad, I'm also worried about being judged even know it has nothing to do with others, How would I explain this to my parents (that she is 14 :/) I mean it seems weird the age because we are still young, if we were adults and it was 25 and 21 or 25 and 22 it doesn't seem so bad, does it? Serious answers please.

Answer 1

I'm 14 and dating a 17 year old. He just explained his feelings for me and told we proved we can handle it and just set a day to see each other like me and him live half an hour away and we always hang out Sunday unless planned otherwise and occasionally we throw in another day and just tell your friends how you feel if you like her then they should understand or they're not real.

Answer 2

Well see, But if you really like her. And Want to be with her. Then It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or judges you on, It should only matter how you guys feel about each other:)

And Yes the long distance is hard, It sucks I know. But If you guys (again I say) really like each other. Well then the distance shouldn't matter either, Skype, Face time, Calling, Texting, Facebook. All this will do good to still keep in contact with her! and If you think that you do wanna date her, I'd give it a shot! Maybe you guys are meant to be together.

Answer 3

Well it appears we have a case of Romeo and Juliet, it is typically legal in soem states due to the fact you guys are only 3 years apart from eachother but you realize you would just be a rebound if you two were to go out so quickly right? Your parents would also flip a switch if you were to be with her and presented her to them under those circumstances I would suggest to see if your state had the R and J law if you really do want to be with her.

Answer 4

well , age isn't matter maybe she has a really adult mind and u are talking about ur parents !!

okay make sure first that she likes ya and tell ur dad about the topic and exolain to him that she is really good girl and u like her alot and u are telling him for advice not anything else k ? (if ur dad accept ,ur mom gonna agree too ) :)

and good luck <3

Answer 5

One thing to consider is that's its also illegal to have sex with a minor. You could find yourself in a whole heap of trouble.



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