a little help please????

Question

guys,i'm going mad...i love this guy,he's so kind,so sweet,thoughtful,and more...but the thing is,,i'm his little sis in his eyes...he loves another girl,even though the girl is already taken...he doesnt even take a look at me as a girlfriend material...he only take me as his bhAby sis...help???...

Answer 1

this is tricky.....does he know how you feel...



if he doesnt tell him, he may like you more than that but doesnt want to ruin the friendship you already have.



if you say nothing you might lose him.

Answer 2

Break the baby sis mold. Start acting a little more mature, dress provocatively, and be very flirtatious. I once had a "baby sis" kinda relationship with my female friend and eventually after alot of time and patience she eventually showed me that she could be more than that. We eventually became more than friends, and even though it didn't work out in the long run (I went to prison for 3 yrs) it sure could of. We knew everything about eachother and never had any secrets. That's the key to a lasting relationship.

Answer 3

To be honest there is not really too much you can do. Once a guy passes a judgment on your 'status', it is very hard to change. And if you attempted to do things to seem more 'mature' in his eyes, it would be dishonest. I have felt the same way about girls who don't take me seriously, and I've just learned to move on.

Answer 4

Stop being available to him. Men are all about the chase. As soon as you stop being there he will be more likely to miss you and suddenly see you in a "different" light. Move on, date others, and "be a creature unlike any other". If there is an interest there on his part it will come out.

Answer 5

show him that u are girlfriend material! dont make it obvious just lay off of him for a while just be more open with him u know when he's down be there for him and pretty soon he will fall in love with u if it is meant to be!

Answer 6

You should tell him how you feel about him. You never know maybe he feels the same way for you. If you don't ask him if he likes you then you'll never know what you missed out on. Take a chance!

Answer 7

Such was the case of Laura Ingles Wilder...she ended up marrying her "older brother figure".

She did it by making efforts to be with her significant other alone.

Answer 8

I know from my own experiance with this, move on and embrase the 'sibling' relationship you have going. You'll be way closer to him than any girl would be and there's never a dreadful break up. =]

Answer 9

my GF had the same problem with me... she was the one i was telling relations with my gFs & all this time she loved me... but one night she called me & said wanna talk to me . so we got out & after a wonderful night i was looking at her as my sis again. but in goodbye time she kissed me from lips. i didn`t sleep that night i found out howmuch i can love her...and called her & on & on &on

Answer 10

all you gotta do show him that your a grown up girl

1. dress up

2. flirt with other guys ( just to make him jealous )

3. ignore him

once he notices you, flirt a little bit but not too much.. always leave him guessing.

last thing, GET HIM DRUNK! LOL!

Answer 11

tell him you like him and the other girl is allready taken. and show hom on what hes missing out on

Answer 12

Tell him you want to jump him, that will make him take a second look.

Answer 13

propose him directly & he will think of it

as you know he says you sis there is no other option for you

Answer 14

the choice is yours 2 (A); stay friends and dont say anything or (B); just tell him while u r alone and risk your friendship as well.