My boyfriend and I met eachother mutually through friends, and hungout for years together. I wasn't a big fan of him, my first impression was that I was VERY attracted, yet he was a ladys man so I kept my distance. He dated an old friend of mine, and played her so I became very resentful of him. We hungout for years, when I got out of highschool we lost contact with eachother for awhile. One day he texted me that his life was turning around, and he had a new full time job .. this guy practically worked in every possible place in my country. I was pleased and told him how I was doing, and how I was working too, and doing well in college.
He then started telling me how he wasn't in love anymore, he had a current girlfriend. I was giving him ample advice, hoping he would break up from his very 'evil' girlfriend and move on. He kept telling me how hopeless he was with his relationship and the future .. blah blah blah.
Months passed and I saw him at the park me and all my old friends would meet up at. He was just sitting on the swing having a cigarette (it was very late), and so I sat next to him. We looked at eachother and talked about the craziest things, and he put me ontop of him and we swung together on the swing, and he kissed me. It was very passionate, and I can't forget that night.
I left and for months we would just text like we never knew eachother before, and had soo much to learn. He then got back with his ex. Months more passed, and he finalized **** with her. It was very heartbreaking to me, I learned I was kind of the other girl, that he had, and was unsure if I was a SURE thing. Halloween of 2009, we were at the same party. He was a nun, I was a cop. We were finally ready to passout, by this time we were pretty sobered up. He started tearing as I layed next to him. I wish I remember how he put it, but he asked me to be exclusive with him. I was alittle hesitant because of our on again, off again past. I said yes, and to this day, wish it all happened sooner. He told me he never had the guts to go after me, and wish he knew how I felt for him at first.
Oh, men. :)