Is our relationship over? Why haven't I realized it yet?

Question

My bf and I have been together almost 2 years. We live together, I have a 7 year old from another relationship. Anyways we barely talk, he is always talking **** to me. We have sex maybe once a month, and that's after I have to beg for it. I know he isn't cheating for a fact. I just don't think things are working out anymore. He even used to help me with bills and now it's just me paying everything. It's like I am always wrong and he is always right. I'm worried why if it's over is he wasting my time and his? All he ever does is stay away from me as much as possible. I feel so alone. I know he is getting ready for school soon, but I'm so lost. It feels more like we are roommates then bf and gf anymore. I just need to male a decision soon before it's to late. He never understand me...

Answer 1

It's over if you believe it is and leaving would make you happier. In relationships, we miss the forest for the trees sometimes.

Answer 2

You know is over but you are in stay of denial. Of course you are feeling lonely, this one one relationship. Leave him before he live you. In that way you will feel better. Get a roommate, you are entitle to move on and find someone who treats you the way you deserve but while you are there nobody will come close to you. HAVE A WONDERFUL NEW YEAR.

Answer 3

You sound like a really level headed person...I think you need to open up to him and just lay everything out on the table he can either take it or leave it.. Its important to communicate, and express your feelings before you go insane! Everything is meant to work out for best and if this isn't meant to be you cn force something to work that wont....but don't give up just yet because you will regret it later...Good luck! I wish you the best!!

Answer 4

Knock some sense into him and if he doesnt do anything about it or ignores you than its time for you to move on. He is probably not right for you ok. Hope you make the right decision

Answer 5

If he doesn't understand you, if he won't help with the bills, if he talks **** to you, if you have to beg for sex, if he won't talk to you, and he keeps his distance then what do you think?