My boyfriend thinks its ok to cheat on me what do i do!?

Question

He is always dropping hints that another girl in his life wont hurt anything and suggests a threesome. I'm pretty sure its all talk...for now but i dont know what i'll do if i find out he has another girl. I love him to death so i cant imagine breaking up with him but i dont want to be used!

Answer 1

Then maybe give some thought to the threesome idea.





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Answer 2

Talk to him, communicate and if he's still being a pig then GET RID. Men like that are not worth the hassle. Don't be pressured into something u don't want to do either. He's probably testing the water on the whole threesome thing so maybe you need to make it clear how u feel about it, basically put your foot down! And if he still carries on then... the end.

Answer 3

I think you should let him know how you feel. Tell him that those stupid comments he makes about threesomes and having another girl bugs you. Tell him that you don't feel he is being nice and considerate of your feelings.





If you don't communicate with him tell him how you feel about things he says or does, because sooner or late it will affect you way of thinking and it might cause relationship problems.





The same thing happened to one of my close friends and her guy was cheating on her! I told her to talk to him but she would say no he's just being dumb , but look at what happened to her! So, be safe and clean you mind.

Answer 4

the fact that he's hinting at this is trouble, he clearly doesn't value the relationship as much as you do. you say you love him to death, but how can you really love someone who doesn't love you back?



if you really want to see where you stand with him, stop putting out for a few weeks, if he's okay with it, it probably means he's cheating. if he is pissed it probably means he's only in it for physical stuff. if he starts to wonder if there is something wrong and actually wants to talk about it, then he's probably there for the right reasons.



I wouldn't bet on the last response... prepare yourself to end the relationship... you deserve someone who actually wants to be with you and not share you with other people.

Answer 5

If you have any respect for yourself, you'll break up with him. You need to realize that the things he's saying (about another girlfriend and a three-some) won't fly in any relationship. Until you see that his logic is seriously flawed, he will continue to press these selfish issues. Deal with it now, dump him, move on...

Answer 6

Tell him you don't appreciate the comments, even if he is joking. And it doens't matter how much you love him if he doesn't love and respect you. You may want to reconsider the relationship if he doesn't straighten up his act. If he has another girl, there should be no question about what to do. Dump him!

Answer 7

He is telling you something that is Way obvious as clear as the blue sky. My ex did that to me and low and behold he was cheating on me. If he is talking about cheating, then its about time you my dear is to kick to the curb and say hasta la vista. You love him and all, but is it worth all the pain he is causing you? Believe me there are more better guys out there who wont do this you.

Answer 8

If that is what he's saying and he must know that it hurts you to hear that then you should leave. I mean if he talks about it then he could very well do it, and aside from the hurt and pain, in this day of AIDS you have to be careful and protect yourself above all others.

Answer 9

Change his status from boyfriend to ex-boyfriend. Oh, sorry you don't want to...hmmm...ask him if he's ok with you having another guy in your life and suggest a threesome.

Answer 10

I wouldnt like it if my bf was talking like that, I'd dump him. He might already be cheating, and thinks you'll be okay with a threesome one day so he can sleep with both his girlfriends!

Answer 11

Tell him that you would like to do a threesome but with another guy and see what he says to that.

Answer 12

It's not okay if it's not okay with you. This may be hard to do, but dump him. Let him have his fantasies, but don't help them come true. If he's unhappy about his sex life, let him leave. Find someone better.



Good luck.

Answer 13

Well your 2 choices are stay with him and let him cheat on you OR find someone who will like being with only you....

Answer 14

Tell him how you feel and try to find out if he's really cheating. You may need to dump him.

Answer 15

Idk if he really loved you he wouldn;t even think of it.

But alot of guys just talk..



Keep your eyes out for anything suspecious

And worse comes to worse, break it off.. either he will realize how much you mean to him and stop it and come back to you. Or he will just move on to another girl. and if he does that, he wasn't planning on staying with you long anyways.

Answer 16

sound like you need to get rid of the toss-pot or sit him down and have a word. most guys ultimate fantasy is two girls...mine is!! but i don't go on and on about it to my wife!

Answer 17

Get ride of him or your just gonna end up getting hurt.

Answer 18

Cheat on him or dump him.

Answer 19

well you like him soo much but you have too realize that aperently he dont like you. and if you still want him make him jelouse.

Answer 20

If someone i loved was cheating on me i would be out of there within seconds.

Regardless.................

Answer 21

Dump his assz.

Answer 22

Leave he is not caring for your feelings.

Answer 23

you're getting all worked up and don't even know if he's actually cheating on you.......

Answer 24

its not going anywhere if he thinks that, hard to think but its true

Answer 25

set him straight.

Its not okay and if he thinks that your not good enough for him then f*** him!

Answer 26

dump him

Answer 27

wow dump him

Answer 28

yeahhh...

you should dump his ***.

:)

Answer 29

Tell him that it's ok for you to cheat on him. Duh!