Question:
A girl I hardly know, glares at me...why?
hey.jude
2009-01-06 21:34:08 UTC
If you've already read this, feel free to just skip this question lol. Anyway:

So I've barely spoken/talked to this girl who's in one of my classes.
She's cute, though, and I wouldn't mind getting to know her better...
The thing is, every time I've come across her, whether it was passing
her in the hall, or coming in the classroom and happened to catch her stare (she sits RIGHT next to me in bio), she's always glaring at me... like literally looking into my eyes and glaring at me, it's like a spiteful, "wtf are you doing" glare... in turn, I get flustered and confused, and just avoid eye contact ... (oh and btw, I'm 99% sure there wasn't something goofy on my face or that she heard a bad rumor about me or that she was squinting to see something, we were right next to each other)

Does this necessarily mean I don't have a chance and should just move on? I'll talk to her, mind you, but I'm just a bit discouraged that she might already think I'm weird somehow lol xD Is it highly possible she might think I like her, and therefore not be interested, which is why she would glare at me ?
Ten answers:
hesca_a4
2009-01-06 21:50:20 UTC
Women can read a lot without talking to or hearing about you. If you catch hate in her eyes, then theres a high chance you have an uphill trip to glory, if you want the challenge.



On the upside, you can take that glare and use is as a "funny look". Use it to your advantage, make a joke about it, like "hey, why the spiteful stare? Normally people hate me just after they get to know me... you´re lazier than the average hater you know?"



If she slaps you in the arm, and warms her eyes, then you´re in. If she gets colder and punches you in the face, you have a funny story for your friends (and maybe, for the next glare girl you bump into)



I say go for it!
Farina
2009-01-06 21:46:17 UTC
I am doing the exact same thing to someone I closely work with. I glare at him alot and the main reason is that I am not sure if he likes me or not (he sends ambiguous signals alot)... I pretend to despise him, and at times I really do, but only because of frustration. He's touched my hand a few times in a very intimate manner (but pretentious at same time), usually when I'm not looking. And that's not even enough to show he's really interested.



I think, the best way to send a "message" back to her is through words. Try to find opportunities to flirt back by saying something witty... good luck.
2009-01-06 21:45:43 UTC
if she glares u den i m sure she likes u.i thnk she s waiting 4 u 4 a start just start conversing with her n i ,m sure she vil stop glarng at u n if still she glares again post d ques answer will b dre 4 u ;).

n why u become nervous yaar,be dude...dont let d confidence go down,face d situation ,dont run away.
Joe G
2009-01-06 21:41:10 UTC
Well rumors spread.. I don't know. Just ask her nicely, and if she doesn't answer, ignore her and move on. Or she's just phsycotic, forgot how to sell. Good luck!
2009-01-06 21:42:16 UTC
Haha thats quite funny. nah i use to do that in school. if i liked someone i would hell stare at em. abit scary thank god im not like that now haha. i reckon she likes you aye. or you should just comfront her and be like "umm why you keep staring at me?"
AustinnGirl
2009-01-06 21:40:08 UTC
hmm..maybe she's just bitchy. no offense. but if she's constantly glaring(not just once) its probably better to just not even go there...idk. its up to you. but i would just move on..



or maybe just confront her and be like "did i do something?" it'll probably suprise her, but then at least she'll know that you noticed her glaring and you'll probably get an answer..
Simon I
2009-01-06 21:39:59 UTC
she might like u and be reely bad at hiding it(probably it), or u had a big zit or something on ur forehead...
Tucker C
2009-01-06 21:41:09 UTC
She might like you..ask.
Alana0792
2009-01-06 21:39:29 UTC
she sounds like a *****.

ask her what he problem is
2009-01-06 21:38:36 UTC
grab her butt and see if she gets mad


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