GUY PROBLEM?!!!!!!!!PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!??????

Question

IM SORRY ABOUT THE LENTH BUT I JUST REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!
ok so i really like this guy and ive known him most of my life, not too long ago he told me he likes me and if i wouldbe his gf, obviously i said yes...but he told m not to tell anyone and being the girl i i am i forgot and told my friend....who told my other friend n it went around but only to my friends, one of them asked him if it was true and he asked me if i told them..again being the grl i am i said i didnt, trying toprevent a fight..i told him that i only told them that i liked him and that one of thm heard wrong....he told me if i could tell them that he dosent like me and that i dont like him cause he dosent want anyone to know, and i said “ why?” and he said “cause it will be wierd” and i said “right ok then....” after that the convo died down and after a while i confrunted him and said “honstly i find it wierd that you dont wanna tell anyone bout us” and he said , and i quote”Idk ?? Because everyone is gonna be like WTF” and i said “so?” and he said “cause we are so close they think we r practiacally related” and i said”well you could xplain we arent” and he said “IDK JUST STOP PUTTING PRESSURE ON ME!!” after that i just backed out of the conversation (this was all through skype cause im too ***** to say it in person) but the wierd thing is that most of his friends actually want us to go out....i think i should explain that we used to say wewere cousins cause our family was really close... we also dont go to the same school but i see him all the time cause i always go to his house but w dnt go tothe same school and he always tells m how girls follow him around and how all these girls like him and all that..cause its true a lot of girls aare after him( i do my research) and yesterday he said “aye u know your friend ********?” and i was like “yea what about her?” and he said “ dw ill tell u next time u com to my place” (whenever he sais h will tell me later h never does) so i said “no tell me now cause u will forget” and then yea that went of for a bit until he said “if u actually liked me then u would just say ok but dont forget” and being the sarcastic and awesome comback full girl i said “ yea but if u really liked me you would tell your friends about us and not care if they freak out”(ialso wanted to tell him bout how my friends were alright with it but h didnt know i told them)he didnt respond after that and we havent talked since....also i know a fw people that go to his school that could hlp me out.. but i dont reallly wanna be one of thos fs that dont trust their bfs.....we are really close so even whn we have seriouse conversations they arent really those seriouse “lets st down and talk bout this” kind of convos, like we are always joking round..also we r 14 so this isnt bout like sex and stuff which makes me wonder what the point of cheating is (if he is cheating on me) also i know him really well and he really isnt the type to cheat...like hes a ******* ***** so like i just wanna know:
is he cheating on me?
if he is, whats the point?
should i get my friends to help me( the ones that go to his school)?
and is it wrong that i lied to him?
thanks to anyone who answers xoxo :D
(ive asked this many times but no on ever answers)

Answer 1

Personally, I think you shouldn't be allowed to date until you know how to spell the word "he"... or anything on that matter. Also, this guy sounds like a total loser if he seriously is just not going to tell people. He might be embarrassed, or maybe he just doesn't want the other girls to stop following him around. No one can just assume if he is or isn't cheating. But you're 14, go focus on school and ditch the loser of a boyfriend.

Answer 2

ok first of all, WOW. and i think that in my opinion, he is cheating on u with a person at his school, because based on the facts it's true. And its not wrong u lied to him, u were confused and worried. So don't stress about it. You should not get his friends to help u. And he is cheating on u because he is probably thinking that he can pull it off.

Answer 3

Okay Hun. I think he's got something to hide or he's cheating on you. He sounds a little bit odd to me. I suggest you end it with him. It's just going to end in tears either way. You sound like a nice girl and I don't want you to get hurt. You need to end it with him. It sounds as if he's embarrassed to be with you, also. Guys are weird :/

Answer 4

ladies/women are often bi-curious, and arent afraid to precise thoughts to a minimum of one yet another. They hug, kiss, pass to the bathing room jointly, and stuff like that. yet whilst adult adult males do it, that's incorrect, and gay.