How to get a girl like this?

Question

There's a girl that I've liked for 2 years so far and this year end will probably be 3rd. She's Canadian and I'm brown guy. She's around 6 feet or a 6.2 and I'm like 5.5. So far all I know is she wants her partner to be a taller guy. How can I get her to be interested in my throughout the year so that I can finally tell her that I like her at the end of the year and it works out and we become together? I'm not that good looking either and she's pretty. Please give me advice, don't say things like be confident and general things like that. Please be specific, how can I get her to like me and interested in me ?
I'm not even good looking. I've got acne scars all over my face. What do I do? There are so many disadvantages against me... :(
I don't want her to know I like her in the way I do, I will tell her that myself end of the year. So I don't want to take any actions or use words that might give it away but please advise me on what I can do to get her attention and also like me, I can't just go up to her everyday and say hi or how are u doing because that'd make her think I'm weird because I haven't done that before.


Please understand, I really do like her very much and I'm not one of those guys that just can get another girl after one is over with in a relationship, I don't really pay attention much towards girls but this girl for some reason just means a lot to me and catches my attention and I really really want her.

I don't think she likes me. I send her gifts on games on facebook and occasionally make comments on her wall. She never responds to any of those. I occasionally msg her online on facebook and she replies but usually about school stuff. I really want this girl and I always think about her pls help me.
I'm not too converend about looks and stuff...I just want to get into her head and I cant' do it...

Also, lately from what I noticed is another reason coudl be is cuz I dont have a lot of friends. Oneo fmy friends who I told this problem to said that I keep a very strict self image and only loosely talk wit hihm and one or two other guys , although I talk to eveyroen else I'm not very loose. that's what he said. taht could be another reason why she might not be interested and also her friends aren't into me either...they dont like me for some reason I can tell...

Answer 1

Pay attention to her. Don't stalk her or anything, but say "hi" or smile at her whenever you see each other. When you talk to her, look at her in the eyes, and show that you're a sympathethic caring person, and like her for who she is, rather than her size.



While on that topic, when she says she wants a taller dude, it really just means she's a bit self-consious about her height, and doesn't feel that a smaller guy would even like her for her size ( I know, believe me, I'm also a very tall female). Therefore, it's up to you to make her feel important. Talk to her about the stuff you and her like, and when you can, try to go beyond the usual smalltalk chat and maybe give her some honest heartfelt advice if she needs help on something. When her birthday comes, and during the christmas holidays, don't forget to send her a card. All of these things will help you establish a solid strong friendship with her so she feels comfortable around you, and id able to tell you her feelings with ease, before (when you're ready) you confess yours to her.



As for your height, don' worry about it. If lots of acne however, it's 99.9% likely that there's something in your body that isn't handling what you're eating properly. There is believe me, a very strong link between diet and acne. Ever heard of an elimination diet? Check out these articles for information :

http://www.acne.org/diet-and-acne.html

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/09/17/acne-may-be-helped-by-cha_n_290196.html



/the reason why I encourage you to try these lifestyle changes instead of creams and drugs is because THEY DO NOT TREAT THE INDERLYING CAUSE and YOU'RE BODY WILL BEGIN TO DEPEND ON THEM.Oh, and they're also very unhealthy in the long run.



You seem like you're really in love, and so I wish you best of luck!

Answer 2

Honestly it sounds like the Girl does not like you.

Yes i know how it feels @ "I really do like her very much and I'm not one of those guys that just can get another girl after one is over with in a relationship"



I have no idea how to get a girl who does not like you.

But i think quote "I really do like her very much and I'm not one of those guys that just can get another girl after one is over with in a relationship, I don't really pay attention much towards girls but this girl for some reason just means a lot to me and catches my attention and I really really want her."



Is exactly what you should tell her.





Anyway i suppose you can try to talk to her more and get her to know the real you but if she does not want to talk to you then don't because she will find you annoying after a while.



Anyway I can't think of any true way to help you so good luck i guess.

Sorry if i was not of much assistance.

Answer 3

properly, judging by way of how she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends on a similar time) she might say definite and only use you to cheer up and then sell off you. i might say it fairly is somewhat a grey area. yet once you fairly think of she's that alluring and you do no longer techniques what happens later then yep you're top 2 perhaps 3 weeks and your golden. the different one will probably get jealous, yet once you adult men do no longer communicate she'll recover from you and flow on and you will never have that hazard lower back... which might suck if she actually is that particularly :L You gotta be certain which lady you like extra. because of the fact in case you pick for one your gonna miss out on the different. the dancing element: i individually think of that would desire to be fairly lovable xP yet some females may be like.. wtf?? i assume it relies upon on the type you pull it off - like once you're an somewhat humorous no longer awkward guy you're golden with that. yet once you come back of tacky it fairly is interest over. desire i might desire to help :P

Answer 4

become very good friends with her



tutor her to become closer (if she needs it)



tease her, joke around, tell her jokes to make her laugh



if you want you can make her jealous



one day if she gets a new shirt say its cute on her



give her complimants once in a while



theres so much more you can do

Answer 5

Just get over it, you probably just really like how she looks, espcially since you don't even talk to her. I know it's hard to forget about someone but that's life.