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1. Make her comfortable with comedy - humor is statistically the most attractive quality women look for.
2. Be confident - confidence is statistically the second most attractive quality women look for. Prepare beforehand and believe in yourself.
3. Set a romantic mood. For example, it's probably not a good time to kiss that girl when you're watching a movie where someone is being killed. Use a nice, romantic spot. Who doesn't like a sunset, an empty grassy meadow under the stars, a deck on a lake at night, or sunsets on the beach, a paddle boat at a friends pond at night, a private camp fire...
4. Hold her hands. If you hold her hand, she should get the hint that you like her. Caution though...her hands may be sweaty!
5. Tell her that she has something in her hair, and reach out to take it out. If she's ready to kiss, she will like it. But if she doesn't seem to like it, laugh and resume what you were doing.
6. Stare into her eyes and move gently closer to her. Some say if a girl wants to kiss you, then she will make extended eye contact. But, here's something that will get it right every time: ask! The entire point of asking her is to show her that you respect her as a person. you show her that you respect her opinion, maybe even more than your own: you make sure that she wants to kiss, instead of just what you would like to do.
* If she says no, no means no. BUT you have a chance to catch yourself before you fall! If she says no, respond with: "I'm glad I asked, the last thing I want to do is make you uncomfortable." It's not a line, it's the truth! Women across the world have all responded to this situation in the same way: "Awww!"
7. Put your hand on her cheek.
8. Go for it! Lean in for the for the kiss. Try a peck for your first kiss, then move on to longer, more passionate kisses when you're both ready.
9. Use the other hand to stroke her hair or neck.
10. Start to lie down if you want to go into a more comfortable position, but don't end up putting your entire body weight onto her.
Tips
* Girls don't like a long kiss for the first kiss, or when they don't really know you. It will creep them out
* Kissing during an on screen kiss during a movie can sometimes be a cheesy idea. Try doing it when you feel most in love.
* It is probably best done in a private place, so that you two feel more comfortable.
* Offering to do it in a bed may make people uncomfortable, and they may feel pressured.
* You can put on some music to set the mood.
* You could try candles, but they can be sometimes a little dangerous.
* Discussing what you and your partner like and dislike helps a lot when heading towards kissing.
* Make sure your breath smells alright -- use mints or gum if you need to. (Note: sometimes the mints or gum may not be enough. In that case, try using a little peroxide before you brush -- don't forget your tongue. And make sure to floss regularly. Most of the time, these steps can eliminate the need for gum or mints.)
* If you have braces, make sure they're clean.
* Talk to her while kissing each other. Girls like it if you whisper nice things. For example you can say something like: "You're beautiful" or "I dreamed of kissing you since I saw you the first time." Practice talking while kissing: It´s important that your lips don't lose contact with hers while talking.
* Make sure she is ready for the feelings you two will have for each other knowing that you kissed.
* If this is your first kiss try kissing them on the cheek first.
* Occupy your hands, don't stand with your hands by your sides.Try putting them on her/his hips at first or gently holding her face this can be very passionate.Avoid her bottom and breasts , unless you are very very sure thats what she wants and never in public.