I Slept With Him On The Night We Met?

Question

Am I crazy? I've been dating occasional men and the ones I've been meeting have ED, erectile dysfunction. Several tries, frustration, they apologize but I've said it's ok. But really it's not. I'm a very young looking 67 yrs old. I've been meeting men older, like 72 and older. The last 2 have had ED and the relationships lasted 2 months even though I said it was ok.

I met a 55 year old man online on 7/18. He's a nice man who's Hispanic, employed, a widower. He hasn't remarried since his wife died of cancer. Through conversation and his asking intimate questions the first 2 days, I found out he was functioning and wanted to meet in person. We met yesterday and after getting to know each other we ended up in the back of my car having sex. He had been groping me all day asking sexual questions. I hadn't had a man the "normal" way for 17 months and just caved. Now I hate what I did. I wanted us to gradually get to know each other and sex would come later. I texted him this morning and he said he hadn't cause he was waiting for me to wake up. Right. He texted me at 530 tonight what was I doing. I said nothing. He has not texted since. During our date my cell was off but he kept checking his and texting. I'm an idiot.

Answer 1

You got something you wanted or thought you needed. It's not the end of the world. If you want more of the same, see him again. Otherwise, move on and take it a little slower next time. Don't feel bad about it.

Answer 2

At your age,is wasting time really the way to go? You are NOT an idiot,you were horny and so was he. Do you think the police will be arresting you or him for this? Hon,you only get one life,and this encounter sounds to me like EXACTLY what was needed. Now that everything is ok,try this guy one more time. If he doesn't respond,jump back in the pond and do things differently. If he doesn't get back to you,it's HIS loss. Best of luck,dear.

Answer 3

forgive yourself. You are 67 years old with last 2 ED.

If you cannot have sex on the first night, who can?

Answer 4

I would go on another date with this guy just to make sure.



I would have sex with him because you could see if this guy really cares about you or wants you for sex. You shouldn't feel bad about having sex with men, it is fine. We are all human, and we sometimes require it. You should go on a few more dates with this guys since you think he is nice.

Answer 5

have you heard of the saying "you can't teach an old dog new tricks"? in his case he's the old dog even if you are older ,hun don't waste your time he's a player for sure

Answer 6

67 and getting it on in the back of a car ? Granny , YOU ROCK !!!

Answer 7

Your not crazy, you made a humane mistake.

Answer 8

So,Madam what your question???