Should I send naked pics to my online bf?

Question

My online bf is asking for naked pics but I don't feel comfortable doing it

Answer 1

Do you trust him enough? That he will never harm you and always make you feel safe?



If no, then don't send naked pics.

He will use it as a blackmail.

If he force you to send naked pic then he is not good bf for you.



But if you want to play with him for passing time, not for seriously relationship then you can send fake naked pic of other girl ( Google it ) and enjoy chat online !! :)

Answer 2

You're obviously unsure about it, so apparently, half of your brain wants you to do it because your so-called "bf" will love it and it'll make you feel sexy.



The other half is telling you that it's wrong to send naked pictures to anyone, 'cause there's a 99% chance that he'll secretly upload it for all the world to see, even if he promises he wouldn't.



It's your choice. But in my opinion, if your "bf" was really interested in you for your personality, he wouldn't have asked for a naked picture in the first place.



This is a sign of typical bad boy behavior. It's likely that he's using you, then when he's had his fun, he'll find a new babe to play with. Don't be surprised if you eventually break up one day. Just giving you a heads up...



If you don't send him one, he'll definitely be disappointed, but at least you'll have peace of mind. Plus, it would be a good tactic to tell if he really has a one track mind.

Answer 3

Never bother doing anything that you're not completely comfortable with. This is dangerous and if this guy truly likes you then he doesn't need it as much as he wants and needs you. Guys like receiving pics of course but decent ones who aren't only after that and respect the girl they're interacting with won't make a big deal out of it. Because it's not a big deal and shouldn't make a nice guy with good intentions bothered about it. I've spoke to guys who I've said no to and they left and others stayed which is how you can truly tell who someone is. Anyway if he stays and things progress, you can then satisfy him physically. Don't feel pressured to do this small thing that could initially ruin your life and make you worry, smart and respectful guys will understand this.

Answer 4

Don't send naked pics of yourself to anyone for any reason and since you say it is your boyfriend asking reconsider whether he should be your boyfriend. If those pics were sent and were posted online they would be there to haunt you the rest of your life. If teachers can be fired for posting pictures of themselves holding a beer can just imagine what might happen if you have a job or are applying for one and someone sends your employer a naked picture of you? Or if you got married and your husband finds a naked picture of you. Just don't do it and don't associate with anyone that asks fro such pictures.

Answer 5

Definitely not! You never know, some day you both can get in to an argument and he could use those nudes against you and blackmail you. He could post it all over social media on Facebook, Instagram etc. Unfortunately It happens to a lot of people these days, and when a picture uploads to social media you can't undo it unless the person who uploads it takes it down. Always say no if you do not feel comfortable. Even if he is your boyfriend people can change quickly which is why you can never trust people these days.

Answer 6

First, I just want you to know that there is nothing wrong with your stance on this issue. It’s completely understandable and totally okay to not want to send naked pictures, even if they are to your boyfriend. I don’t blame you for being worried that your dirty pictures will end up on the Internet or even just being shared with other dudes. That’s really valid, considering it happens all the time, and is exactly why we always recommend against sending naked pictures. Once those bad boys are in the hands of someone else, that person can do whatever they want with them. That’s scary.

Answer 7

Remember Amanda Todd (look it up) if you have never meet this online bf in person don't do it he could be sexual predator (pedophile) pretending to be a young boy but is actually an old sick pervert. The fact you don't feel comfortable about it is a sign you shouldn't do it if he continues to ask report him and/or stop talking to him.

Answer 8

First of all if you do not feel comfortable, don't do it. 2nd, I am older then you but I know something about the internet. Once you send it, its online forever. And anyone with minor skills can find it and make it public. If you want take a picture and give it to him. Then you only have to worry that he will show it to others. You are taking a risk any time you take a nude photo, and give it to anyone.

Answer 9

No, soon he's probably gonna post them on the internet and on Facebook. Once something goes on the internet, it stays there. Don't bother sending him naked pics of yourself, he's probably just some pedophile behind the screen.

But instead, you can send him a Troll face for payback >:)

Answer 10

One word, NO!

If you dom't feel comfortable, then don't! Especially when it's online. Remember, he could be a 60 year old creep when you think he is a 19 year old boy. Once he has your nudes, he can blackmail you into doing anything. He can post it online or talk to other guys and send YOUR nudes to them.

Answer 11

It might be okay in the short term, but if you break up, what then? Many men give away, show others or even post naked pictures online. Besides, isn't it far more sexy to have the mystique of needing to meet up to see each other like that?

Answer 12

No, no, no .. a thousand times NO! Don't EVER send naked photos to anyone. Once you send those naked pictures of yourself to him over the internet, they are out there FOREVER! You can't EVER get them back.



He's going to take those pictures and share them with all his on-line friends. His friends will in turn share them with all THEIR on-line friends -- and so on - until everybody in the world has the opportunity to look at your naked body. Even if he didn't share them, once they go out over the internet, they are fair game for anybody who comes across them to look at.



Don't even hand him a paper photo of your naked body. He could take that photo and scan it into his computer, and share it with the world.

Answer 13

NEVER EVER EVER do that. Your online boyfriend probably is building a collection. That's what my (online boyfriend of 2 years) did. He got pics of my boobs and other humiliating very erotic pics. He refused to delete them even after we broke up because he wanted to keep them for his "memories" (read: jacking-offf sessions and sharing with his pals), so, it would be lovely if you wouldn't put yourself into that situation. I thought that I was the only one since we talked soooo much and since he sent me his naked pics. Don't fall for it.

Answer 14

Go with your gut. If your guts telling you no than don't do it. Apart from that, it is super dangerous. Like what if he shows his friends or if you break up and he wants to get the last word in he might post them online. And once the pictures are up on the internet, its almost impossible to get them down. Don't do it sweetheart. Respect yourself. He doesn't need those photos if he truly loves and cares for you.

Answer 15

You're already unsure of yourself, and you'd already mentioned you're uncomfortable about it.

Don't do it! It's okay to do so if both parties are absolutely fine with it but by how you asked this question and said you were uncomfortable you clearly shouldn't! Don't do anything for him if it makes you uncomfortable, treasure yourself.

I did the mistake of sending my ex online bf nudes once. I regret it all, he's sent them to his friends for them to get off on and sold them, and he basically threw me away after that. Don't fall for it!

Answer 16

Definitely not! First of all the one thing you should understand is that if you are uncomfortable doing something, don't do it. You are not obliged to send nude pics to someone who you haven't met in person. He might send it to his friends or someone if you guys get in an argument later on. Even if you wanna send it don't put your face in it.

Answer 17

Noooo way, never send pics online. I'm sure there's a way those would some how get out...

Answer 18

Absolutely NOT. Just because he asks doesn't mean you consent to it. Use your words young lady; firmly tell him NO. Let him know in very certain terms that if he continues to pressure you, he is history and you walk away respecting yourself. Obviously, your online BF doesn't respect you. He only cares about what he wants. In addition, if you do send nude pics to him, what is next? What if he threatens to send pics to your friends, or mom and dad, if you refuse. Please say NO and walk away from this BF. This guy is NOT your friend. I know someone who personally lived ths scenario I mentioned. She sent pics and later refused to send him pics of herself masturbating. He threatened and in fact, sent nude pics of her to some of her friends. It did not end well. Pics went viral.

Answer 19

You can never fully trust anyone on the internet - believe me.

I have sent nudes before, to an ex, he wasn't online though. But he got really bitter when I broke up with him and showed people. Warning to you - ALWAYS SAY NO when you're UNCOMFORTABLE. You should never feel pressured to do anything. Your body is yours, do what makes you feel comfortable.

Answer 20

Don't do it then. He's just an online boyfriend, pics are for real life relationships.

Answer 21

NO NO NO!!!

Even if he is your boyfriend, you never know what might happen. You might break up one day or get into a heated argument and he might use those pictures against you. Or threaten you with them, so it's best to stay safe and not do such thing. It's hard to trust people these days.



NOTE:

If a guy asks you for nudes and you just recently started dating, trust me he's 99% a fckboy. You wouldn't wanna be near those boys, they're just there for the nudes and sex.

Answer 22

Hell no!! I don't even think you should talk to that person in the first place anyway, because you don't know if he is what he says he is. He could be a pedophile, and hes a stranger that you don't know in real life. Never talk to strangers online, its dangerous!! Block and report him

Answer 23

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Answer 24

You should not have an online significant other much less send them nudes. A friend of mine did this and the next thing they knew when the two broke up their nudes were leaked all over Facebook and other social media.

Answer 25

Definitely not. Have you ever met this guy? If you send it to him he could use it to blackmail you. Dont do it if it makes you uncomfortable. If he constantly pressures you to do it then he's a pretty bad boyfriend. In that case you should break up with him and cut all ties with him.

Answer 26

jessicakenney is definitely right. If you don't feel comfortable sending those pictures; then please don't do it. Tell him how you truly feel about this. If your boyfriend loves you, he will understand and won't ever pressure you do something you aren't comfortable with. If he catches a fit about it; then you should really question what his true motives are. So i say do what makes you comfortable always.

Answer 27

Wait did you just say "online BF" make sure he's not a catfish or anything! Don't do it you don't know where they gonna put that picture of you! Website show his friends ?! I think you SHOULDNT do it Hun xxxx

Answer 28

No you shouldn't. I won't even go near a dating site. They're too many weirdos 90% of them are catfishes it's pretty sad 😭 and everything he told you is probably a lie. He could also use those for blackmail

Answer 29

No... A big fat n-o... IF you are not comfortable doing it and then don't degrade yourself for no one or lower your standards. Who knows what else he could be doing with those pictures over the Internet. You sure wouldn't want your naked body exploited all over the Internet??? Please don't do it have respect for yourself and your body and I think your boyfriend should have some repspect too

Answer 30

Nooooooo

Answer 31

never ever ever do that... your online boyfriend probably is building a collection... that's what my (online boyfriend of 2 years) did... he got pics of my boobs and other humiliating very erotic pics... he refused to delete them even after we broke up 'cause he wanted to keep them for his "memories" (read: jacking-offf sessions and sharing with his pals), so, it would be lovely if you wouldn't put yourself into that situation... i thought that i was the only one since we talked soooo much and since he sent me his naked pics... don't fall for it...

Answer 32

Don't do it once you give him pictures he could do anything with them.



Remember once you upload pictures online they stay online forever and never go away copies will always exist somewhere and you have no control over them!

Answer 33

No. These situations always end badly. Once it's out there, it's forever. I've seen many young girls and women ruined by embarrassment, slander and lies. No need for photos.

Answer 34

"Online bf"



You don't even have a boyfriend if it's online... How can you date someone you've never met? So no you shouldn't send nudes.

Answer 35

So anyone googling your name, like future employers can see these pics. You need to use common sense here. This fellow shows others. He is about sexual gratification. Turn away from men like this, you will not have to live with regrets if you listen to your good instincts here.

Answer 36

If he's not your BF than don't send it to him.

Answer 37

You've answered your own question. You don't feel comfortable. Nothing else needs to be said. He either respects this or he's not worth your time.

Answer 38

NO. Especially if you're not comfortable.



Those pictures could be sent and shared to so many people, and I'm almost certain you don't want them.



Stay safe.

Answer 39

never ever not even if you trust him. because if things end badly between the both of you there is thing saying he wont send them to his friends then it goes all over the internet and everyone sees it in 24 hour the photo could be seen by 100 million people

Answer 40

Never! This never ends well, unless perhaps you're a Kardashian. Ask Pamela Anderson.

Answer 41

No. Once it's online you can't get it off and you don't know what he'd do with them

Answer 42

Have you seen any Lifetime movie; particularly Social Nightmare. Just don't it. It's not worth losing your job, friends, etc.

Answer 43

absolutely not... just 'cause he asks doesn't mean you consent to it... use your words young lady; firmly tell him no... let him know in very certain terms that if he continues to pressure you, he is history and you walk away respecting yourself... obviously, your online bf doesn't respect you... he only cares about what he wants... in addition, if you do send nude pics to him, what is next? what if he threatens to send pics to your friends, or mom and dad, if you refuse... pleease say no and walk away from this bf... this guy is not your friend... i know someone who personally lived ths scenario i mentioned... she sent pics and later refused to send him pics of herself masturbating... he threatened and in fact, sent nude pics of her to some of her friends... it did not end well... pics went viral...

Answer 44

If you're not interested in sharing, then what's the purpose of having a boyfriend?

Answer 45

DO NOT! Those easily turn into blackmail!

If he wanted to, he could post those online and potentially ruin your life. I don't want that to happen to you. So JUST DON'T DO IT!

Answer 46

Never take or send a photo of yourself that you wouldn’t want your parents to see.



Assume that any picture you send will be seen by others, with or without your permission.



Read the following:

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/teenagers/ask/about-sexting/#?insight[search_id]=204b9378-ecea-4e7a-a6c4-69270d3ff239&insight[search_result_index]=0

Answer 47

NOPE there's plenty of losers that scout naive girls for nudes then sell them to amateur porn websites DO NOT PLAY YOURSELF!!! and end up on a 16 and horny website thats ur reputation and the internet and these images are forever!!!

Answer 48

yes send him those pics he will love them and use them but in return as him to send a pic of whatever you like

Answer 49

My girlfriend once sent me naked picture of herself and I accidentally forwarded it to everyone. She was furious.



But I was not even worried about her any more because I had to call my mother and tell her, "Sorry mom. That picture was just for dad."

Answer 50

I suggest u don't because it's not safe he might post it on other websites or send it to random people and might get u in trouble,so be careful.

Answer 51

If you don't know him personally or know him in real life I wouldn't send them, especially if it's over the internet.

Answer 52

Online boyfriend? LOL

Answer 53

Definitely not if you feel uncomfortable. And if you haven't met in person or seen his face I'm sorry.. But no. Definitely not.

Answer 54

No you shouldn't send nude pictures online someone could steal them

Answer 55

Please don’t do that. I would never encourage anyone to share nude or semi-nude pictures of themselves by way of any communication. I look at it as a recipe for disaster – once they’re “out there,” nobody knows where they might end up. Stay safe!

Answer 56

1) He's not your boyfriend



2) Why are you telling us this?

Answer 57

If you don't want to do it, don't do it. If he threatens breaking up with you if you don't do it, he's a terrible person and he's not respecting your feelings.



Don't do it.

Answer 58

This is never a good idea but if must do it, then keep your face out of the pics.

Answer 59

tell him no! never do anything like that without being 100% sure you want to. if he keeps pressuring you then i would dump him tbh, nobody deserves someone who won't respect them enough to take no for an answer

Answer 60

You don't feel comfortable then don't do it. You wouldn't want your family, friends, coworkers, boss,neighbors etc. to come across these pictures one day on the internet would you?

Answer 61

noooo way, never send pics online... i'm sure there's a way those would some how get out.........

Answer 62

Yes but make sure they aren't pictures of you. Then when you break up he can show them to anyone he wants to.

Answer 63

Bruh

Answer 64

Npoe

Answer 65

No your not completely comfortable and if you break up who knows what could happen to those pics

Answer 66

Yea

Answer 67

Send or don't ! Thats upto you. Only advice ---never show your face in the picture, trust me.

Answer 68

If you're both older than 19, and are certain you're the right ones, do it!

Answer 69

Never. EVER. Once you send them they are out there in the universe....forever. If he's that selfish dump him.

Answer 70

Do you know who he is? Have you met him in real life? Do you trust him? Are you of age? Is he of age? If you can answer all these questions with absolute certainty, then go right ahead.

Answer 71

I wouldn't. Guys often lose respect for you when you do that.... and you never know who he's showing those pictures to.

Answer 72

You said you don't feel comfortable doing it, so no, you should be 100% comfortable when you do it

Answer 73

if he sees you naked in person why does he need pics

Answer 74

NO! You do not know who he will show or where else he might post them online. Don't set yourself up for embarrassment or ridicule later.

Answer 75

NO! NO! NO! Wake up! Better get naked in person and you can both share nakedness!

Answer 76

If you are uncomfortable don't do it and if he pressures you dump him because he does not care about you

Answer 77

NEVER. Have you not heard of all the girls who committed suicide after their naked pictures went viral? Don't do it.

Answer 78

No! Especially if you are under 18! Really bad idea.

Answer 79

Are you dumb? of course not.when you guys break up he might send the pics to everyone on the internet

Answer 80

yes but the picture may send to some others

Answer 81

send him a picture of a chicken nugget

Answer 82

Dump him and block him, because you don't know who, he can be. If he insists to the point of annoying you, report him to the cops.

Answer 83

No! He could be way older than you, or he wants to find out what you look like to get your information!!!

Answer 84

Tell him you're not comfortable and if he can't respect that he can leave.

Answer 85

NO. Just don't. For your safety. Don't.

Answer 86

If you dont feel comfortable sending them then dont. Maybe explain your reasoning to him.

Answer 87

nope, unless you want to see yourself on 4chan in 20 minutes

Answer 88

Yes.

Answer 89

No, you shouldn't do anything you're not comfortable with.

Answer 90

NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT IF YOU DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE.

Something's wrong if he tries to force you to do something you feel iffy about.

Answer 91

Don't do you idiot! He doesn't like you. He just wants to see your body!

Answer 92

honestly people just blow it out of proportion. It's fine. I did it

Answer 93

I wouldn't do that if your not comfortable about it

Answer 94

no ! online bf are stalkers

Answer 95

If you don't feel comfortable doing it then don't ******* do it. Plain and simple, retard.

Answer 96

No you could be getting catfished and end up getting blackmailed

Answer 97

Don't do it, it could get leaked

Answer 98

You aren't comfortable with it, so no.

Answer 99

Of course not

Answer 100

it depends upon whether you are fat or not. don't send fat pictures and subject yourself to ridicule.

Answer 101

No you should not send nude to anybody on line.

Answer 102

Never do this..you never know when the table turn over and he blackmails you in the future

Answer 103

Be grateful you have a boyfriend and do whatever he asks

Answer 104

One thousand percent no. Really. That is such a dumb idea.

Answer 105

No engagement ring no dirty pics.

Answer 106

don't do it. that's all he wants from you.

Answer 107

don t do it on snapchat or fb. they will stay there forever and Mark Zuckenberg will get to see them.

Answer 108

Not unless you want them to go viral!

Answer 109

No that's stupid. He will go show everyone.

Answer 110

ok send him but crop your face

Answer 111

Hell no ..Meet him first maybe he is 75 yr old

Answer 112

I think you should not do this.. it is very risky and unsafe.. if he really cares for u he will understand

Answer 113

Yes he needs to see you and get extra horny so he will stay with you

Answer 114

send it or hes gonna look at porn and not think of you :(( men need it when theyre horny. its needs mann

Answer 115

Obviously no. Anything can go wrong.

Answer 116

If you want all his mates to see them...yes.

Otherwise. NO! NO! NO!

Answer 117

sure if u want to ruin ur life, go ahead dummy

Answer 118

No he can use it against you if your relationship goes wrong.

Answer 119

no.... but maybe ask your offline bf first.. just to be sure

Answer 120

dont do it please..he's a douche, one day he will post your pictures on-line!! dont do it!!!

Answer 121

Never!! He could harm you, you never know who he really is

Answer 122

No show him yourself I guess

Answer 123

Well, since you dont want, the answer is apparently no.

Answer 124

NO if you feel it is not good idea, forget it

Answer 125

an "online" boyfriend? do you love him too??

Answer 126

If you have enough iq, you wont

Answer 127

Straight answer: no.

Answer 128

you seem like a brain dead person.

Answer 129

Dont do it if your not conftforble with it.

Answer 130

No .Do not make yourself so cheap.

Answer 131

No unless if u decided to marry him....

Answer 132

no. no. and NO!! once its out there you cant get them back.

Answer 133

No

Answer 134

No

Answer 135

No

Answer 136

No

Answer 137

No

Answer 138

No

Answer 139

No

Answer 140

dont feel comfortable dont do it

Answer 141

Why not .??.. U can send if he is loyal for u.

Answer 142

You smoking crack? No.

Answer 143

Dont do it!

Answer 144

do what you want

dont do what you dont want

Answer 145

never

Answer 146

no

Answer 147

no

Answer 148

Do not do it.

Answer 149

hell nah

Answer 150

No.

Answer 151

No.

Answer 152

No.

Answer 153

No.

Answer 154

DONT DO IT.

Answer 155

no. just, no.

Answer 156

NO.

Answer 157

Hell no!!!!

Answer 158

NO! Just please. No.

Answer 159

oh please don't