What do guys think of virgins?

Question

I'm only 17 and still a virgin (I don't plan on losing it after marriage, just when i'm in a serious relationship). I know i'm still young but with loads of teens losing their virginity at a young age I just wanted to know what guys my age would think of a girl who is still a virgin? Would it make your more attracted to me or put you off?

Answer 1

I think they are too shy



possibly lesbians

Answer 2

With the consideration that seventeen year old males are typically sex-crazed animals.. They would probably find you being a virgin a total turn on. The idea of being the very first person to sleep with you would be more exciting than anything in their mind.



Of course, this can also depend from boy-to-boy. Some of them may find it a turn off, wanting someone who's been around a few times and knows what she's doing.



Frankly, you shouldn't even be asking this question. You being a virgin shouldn't matter whatsoever.

Answer 3

Idk What Guys Might Think, But It Shouldnt Matter. Guys Should Like You For Who You Are.



Trust Me You Dont Want To Give Up Your Virginity Unless Your Sure Its The Right Person Because You Might Get Feelings For Them And I Dont Want Anybody Going Through That Pain.



Its Hard.

Answer 4

I think any man who is put of by a woman being a virgin or not has serious problems.



If you're attracted to each other and love each other, go for it!





p.s. Good for you girl. By being different and not dropping your knickers at every opportunity. You've got a bit of class.

Answer 5

I have twin 16 year old boys who I asked your question. My sons say that they are not looking to lose their virginity soon, so its nice when you go out with a girl who likes to have fun, who wants to go out with the girl who has slept with everyone and dated everyone in town. Both said they hope when they lose their virginity that its with a girl that is losing her virginity too.

Answer 6

I think men like knowing that a girl has some level of decency and self-respect.

Any man that would be put off by such a thing wouldn't be worth wasting your time on!



Personally, I think it's great that you have some morals and don't want to just do it because everybody else does :)

Answer 7

This is gonna sound pretty bad, but being a virgin to most guys is definitely a turn on, but only because it give guys a sense of pride to be the one to un-virginize you (that's the scientific word, trust me). It sucks, but it's true.

Answer 8

I'm a girl but it's nice to know that you've held out. I think a mature guy is going to respect that, especially since you're still young. Interesting question!

Answer 9

I'm sure most guys who are not virgins would say "Fresh p*ssy"



But I'm still a virgin and I say "Good for her"



Losing your virginity isn't something that should be tossed away by someone you don't truly like.

Answer 10

given a choice between the two, most guys will take the virgin for a few reasons:



1) they won't worry about being judged for their performance



2) they won't have to worry about STDs or STIs



3) Guys like to be able to say that they were a girl's first.



4) guys respect a girl who respects herself enough to wait until the time is right

Answer 11

respect for doing your own thing. The girls that drop their pants may seem popular now but, when the guys start looking for a lifetime mate. they will be looking for someone that hasn't been to bed with half the town. You will be what they really want for a Mother of their children.

You seem wise for your age.. If I were your Dad, I would be proud of you. And later you will see why...

My best to you,

Fonz

Answer 12

its more attractive, especially because i'm virgin too, we'd be on a level field in terms of intimacy then. and its noble that you're willing to wait for someone you are very serious about. i feel like that's the right way to go about it.

Answer 13

I would be proud of you and also be more attracted to you. Those other teens just can't control their hormones and have to follow what other people do and regret it later on when the guy says bye bye.

Answer 14

there's nothing wrong with being a virgin! virgins are more attractive b/c you dont have to make it seem like you're all "experienced" and stuff...stay a virgin until you feel your ready.

Answer 15

It really depends. It doens't matter that much but like some guys may consider you as a prude or a slut. But it really depends on the type of guy.

Answer 16

It wouldnt do either. Honestly if the guy really loves you then it wont make a difference at all

Answer 17

Honestly dont care. It says more about your character than some others who give it away like candy to retarded kids.

Answer 18

If i haven't lost it, i'd prefer you to be a virgin as well as me. I think it's a turn on. :)

Answer 19

personally stick to your virginity until u get married or find that one true love.

Answer 20

i think I would be more attracted to you if you are a virgin

Answer 21

i think its a turn on

that means that they will want action soon so when u start dating wait,

then BOOM!

your virginity's gone

Answer 22

more attracted but if i wanted sex i wouldnt stick around for a long time. go meet a nice boy at church if u wanna save yourself some trouble.

Answer 23

It's every man's dream to marry a virgin.



Cheers

Answer 24

well it depends on guys but guys like that kind off

Answer 25

i think most guys would be turned on to know they are the first. my bf was:)

Answer 26

its a turn on for me

id prefer to date a girl whos still a virgin





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Answer 27

An untapped resource !

Answer 28

turn on for me.



i'd love it if i fell in love and found that out

Answer 29

I think they are shy and innocent

Answer 30

innocent

Answer 31

i think they are liars and i'll make them prove it

Answer 32

you would be a challenge.