How can I mend a broken heart? Please help it hurts so much. Also any tips on how to face him tomorrow?

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How can I mend a broken heart? Please help it hurts so much. Also any tips on how to face him tomorrow?

Answer 1

Keep busy and involved with school and good friends and family. He is acting like a cold hearted jerk who is afraid to tell you the truth. Be strong and ignore him back and move on to better guys.

Answer 2

you don't need a man to make you happy.



put your makeup on, do your hair nice, and just walk on by with confidence, i know its hard, but its not the end of the world, men come and go, just stick with your friends, and try and have as much fun as you can, i hate to break it to you, but what boys say isn't generally what they mean at all, just enjoy being single, and the right person will come along eventually =]

Answer 3

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I STARTED TO TAKE DRUGZ SMOKE POT, WEED! YOU SHOULD TRY IT(IM ONLY 14)

Answer 4

Ok, first of all, BREATH! Take a Deep Breath and know that you're going to be ok.



Second of all, he's not worth you. Look how much you care about him, look how much you love him. Now, think of how he doesn't even have the guts to walk up to you and tell you the truth.



I know he said that he loves you, and that you're amazing and everything. And you are amazing if you loved him so much, but it's clear he didn't truly feel that way. That's basically what guys know will make a girl happy, and they want their girl happy. The only problem is, guys just say it, girls really mean it.



Third of all, people grow apart for so many reasons. I find it weird that he says he misses you when you're gone, yet you 2 went 4 weeks without seeing each other? Did you even talk on the phone? Why would he let so long go without even making an attempt to see you?



When people spend so much time apart, one of them usually starts to see that they're just fine without that other person, and ends up moving on.



You can't stop smiling, because he made you happy. You can't stop smiling, because he never went up to you, told you the truth and how he feels. It all just got dropped, and you don't have any closure on it.



Sit with your friend in History. You'll never regret sitting with your friend. She'll always be by your side, and make you laugh. Having him sitting next to you will only remind you of how hurt you feel right now.



If he wants to talk, talk to him. Don't forget to breathe - and try to maintin yourself. It's sooooooo easy to end up crying and leaving, and you would rather people know that you talked to him, and didn't end up running.



Tell him the truth. Tell him how much he hurt you and that you really loved him. But throw him off by telling him how he didn't even have the guts to tell you in person how he felt before telling everybody else.



Make sure to not forget that you ARE amazing, and you deserve so much better than him.



Now, on mending a broken heart. Wow - honestly only time will heal that one. But friends help a lot! Start hanging out with them more. Making memories with friends overshadows memories with guys anyday!



Music helps! Some songs that are great for a broken heart:



(the classic one) Alanis Morissette : You Outta Know.

(a country one) Faith Hill: Cry

(a modern one) Leona Lewis: Better in Time.



- Listen to all the lyrics. Sing along to them. Think of how you're only going to be better because of what you went through and how you're going to move on...



What comes from the broken hearted?



The strength of knowing that no matter what, you'll be ok.



That's when you find more of who you really are, and what you want out of another person, yourself and life.



The knowledge of what you'll be like in the next relationship.



The courage to love again, because you'll know that you will get through anything.



And finally, when your heart is healed again, and you can look back objectively and smile at the good times. That's when you really learn that it IS better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all...



I know it's cliche, but in the end, you see just how true it is...



I know I've written a lot - Just remember 1 thing::



*Just Breathe*







(and smile when you can, it's the best thing you can ever to feel better)

Answer 5

Don't talk to him in class. That's not the right place and certainly not the right time. You sound pretty young so I can tell you this: he will not be the first to break your heart. It hurts, but you still have the memories. You will find someone else who will be more loyal to you. Don't have your friends talk to him. That's immature and it will only irritate him. You need to talk to him either on the phone or face to face, just the two of you. No three way calling, or passing notes. If you really had a good relationship, you'd be able to talk to him. There's plenty of nice guys out there, go find a new one. In the mean time, listen to your favorite songs, mourn for YOU, not him. Find yourself.

Answer 6

awwwwwww bbe im feelin so sorri for u...bu first of all dont jus try not ot let it get ot u?...ur worth more then that...trust me ...he actuli blind if he cnt se wats valuble infront of him.

Cht to him dont jus trun awya ur gna have to face him another dai....wen u do tlk to him jus look him in the eye and dont cry nuthin jus wait for it. Wen he does *** ou with it...dont cry jus look at him...but if u want to mke him feel bad a few tears wil work!

After it jus dont feel bad carri there more fish in the sea dw.....u can cht to him afta it bu if u dnt want to its all ur choice i hope it works bbe god lukxxxxx

Answer 7

first off ...DO NOT sit next to him in classes. secondly... don't even try to avoid him.i realize that this is going to cause you pain but not as much pain as trying to avoid him. i realize that this is going to be a very painful time for you. first loves always are. but believe me give it time and you will get over him. the pain will go away. go to him first and tell him that you are through. don't wait for him to come to you. don't even try to remain friends with him at this time. as time passes you might be able to be friends but for right now it just isn't going to happen. there are too many memories and too much pain. if you happen to pass each other look him straight in the face and say hi and then quickly move on. make new friends at school and find activities after school to keep you busy. focus on all the things you will have to do and your homework and your new friends and that will not give you much chance to think about him. broken hearts mend themselves over time. give it a chance too. it's been many years for me. i have been married 33 years now to the same man. i have been out of high school for 34 years but some how those old memories come back when i read a question like yours... only now there is no pain just memories that i look at and wonder how i could have possibly felt that way about him. i can't even remember his name or what he looks like anymore.

Answer 8

This is going to be hard to hear but true. You need to worry about yourself yes it's going to hurt but over time you will get over it, a good man would never have addressed this situation the way this one did so see yourself lucky that you got out now. Pay more attention to your needs and goals for your life you have to be number 1 in your own eyes Heartbreak is a part of life.

Answer 9

Oh Honey, Change this situation to your favor!

Break up with him first! When you see him tomorrow, be the first to tell him you want to talk. Explain to him how you thought that this thing between you all was going to work out, but you have had a change of heart. You want to be only friends. Don't sit next to him in history! Give everyone every reason to believe that you are alright, even if you are not. Put your best face forward and keep stepping. You can act friendly without feeling stupid. Take deep breathes, and relax yourself. A wise women once told me that dick comes a dime a dozen, when one door closes there is another that opens to better opportunities.

try listening to Sara Bareillies "Love Song" Sing it about ten time before you are to see him.

Trust me it hurts at the start, but like time everything takes this to get over the worst. It is not the end of the world. It's his lost.

Answer 10

Hi honey. Im very sorry to hear this, you poor thing. You don't deserve this one bit. You seem like a sensitive sweet girl who loved someone so much. I can relate, because beleive it or not, i went through this a little bit ago. It was so hard, im tearing up as i write. I wish i could give you a big hug right now, even though i dont know you. Males do this sometime. They shower girls with nice words that just lift us off our feet, when in reality its not your heart they want, but you. They use girls for other things... not all guys, there are very caring guys out there, dont get me wrong. But some are just jerks and they dont understand that a girl is a jewel, and is something not to be takin and then thrown out. He doesn't know what kind of sweetheart he lost, walked over, and left. You deserve someone better. Cheer up, there will be a better one out there. Of course, its gonna take a while to get over him, but dont let it get the best of you. This will just make you stronger, and prepare you for the long road ahead. xoxoxox anka

Answer 11

start making out witha random boy to make him jealous.

Answer 12

Hey you. Sorry about the heartbreak. Getting over heartbreak takes time, especially if its your first. Take it from me, who is a guy. Never never never never act like that over a guy. If a guy sees that, he knows he has complete control over you. If he sees that you dont care or just have a "whatever" attitude, he may even become curious again...MAYBE. There are other guys out there. If he doesnt want you, you will be fine. There is another guy out there for you. Everyone has options. He opted not to be with you anymore, and you can move on just like he did. Crying is ok because it lets your emotions out and you will feel much better later. Do something else to get your mind off of him. Hang out with your friends. Stop paying attention to him because if he sees this, it will give him more power. You and only you are in control of this.

Answer 13

Oh bless you. No one can tell you you weren't in love with this boy. Only you know how you feel about him. If anything, the first flush of love is the strongest, the first cut is the deepest etc. When you split up with someone you love, it feels like you are grieving, you do feel bereaved. I know it won't seem like it now, but believe me, you will get over this. It feels like the end of the world right now but it honestly isn't. Time is a great healer. You must take care of yourself right now and cry if you want to cry. Better out than in.

At school tomorrow, sit with your friend. Let him approach you. You know it's over so concentrate on you. Try and find something to occupy your mind. You will feel much better in a few days time.

Answer 14

hello im saying this in a nice way GET A GRIP!,go into school looking hot and confident and show the looser what he is missing,1 he should of told u straight out not let u hear it from some one else that proves he is a prat,2 move on and find sum1 hotter and better looking(always the way to go)3 do not sit next to him dont give him the satisfaction of breaking up with you,4 show him you dont care and 5 go and get something to eat,listen to some music ,have a bath,because hun to treat you like this just proves he is a waste of space and u can do so much better and certainly do not make yourself ill over a silly immature little boy like him.GOOD LUCK AND REMEMBER REVENGE IS SWEET LOLXX

Answer 15

well he sounds like an absolute idiot for a start. Tomorrow, just ignore him, whatever you do, don´t let him see that he´s hurt you. Spend more time with your friends and if you have male friends, hang out with them a little. Don´t ignore your girlfriends though!

It sucks getting hurt like this, but face it, it happens. Please, please, please don´t go back to him, even if he asks. He´s a loser girl! Good luck, and if you look as if you´re having fun without him, and you can try and look your best - always helps! he may see the error of his ways.

But even if he does he´s still a loser.

Boys are idiots, I´ve found they don´t really grow up till about the age of thirty. Concentrate on your studies and your friends. You don´t need a boyfriend. And I hope this helps.

To get over him, go to your room, punch a pillow, get the anger out, and make a list of all the things you find annoying, and the things you don´t like about him. Any guy who hurts you is NOT worth your time. You can do better. Take care and good luck! xxx

Answer 16

I don't think you are in the right frame of mind to sit with him in History. (ie. you still like him too much) so sit with your friend.



You will get over him. There are hundreds of boys out there and you have not even started yet to explore all the possibilities.



Of course it hurts. You are still attracted so much to him and it has come as a shock that he has changed his mind. Your broken heart will mend especially when you meet a new boyfriend.



You don't have to rush out and find another boyfriend straight away. Get your emotions sorted first. Mix with other boys and friends. When you are ready you will date one. Then you will be able to be 'just friends' with your first love.



Sorry you have been made to feel so upset. Honest, you will find another boyfriend and he will be even better than this one.

Answer 17

it sounds like you really loved him but dont you make yourself sick when he didnt have the respect for you. HE shouldve called you and told you how he felt..he owes to this much. When you go to school tomorrow you hold your head up high because your human being and shouldnt to dumping you this way. Once he says what he has to...you tell him whats on your mind. Its gonna hurt awhile but time will it. Dont stay at home and cry. Go out with your friends and rediscover yourself and listen to better in time by Leona Lewis

Answer 18

im so sorry to hear all of this, dont sit next to him in history class, ignore him as much as he did you, when you finally face him, dont talk much just take whatever he says when hes done walk away, thisll make him think you dont care, and make him wonder "did she actually like me?" and dont worry about having a broken heart, i know itll hurt, and its hurnting right now, but to tell you the truth what you feel for him is not love, you like him SO MUCH!!! but thats it love doesnt come until you are with the person and you have spent a lot of time with him, only when you truly know him/her is when youll start to feel love, you jsut have a real crush!!! so dont worry in order to cure a broken heart, is to sleep a lot so your time flies by, and also if you have a lot of friends to hang out with that helps a lot too, so just take it easy hear him out, diss him and ignore him, dont go to him anymore bc if you do hell just see you as annoying, if he ever wants to be with you, hell fliort and make hgis move on you, im sure youll know, until then be patient and if not then im sure there will be someone else for you. i wish you luck!!

Answer 19

Get in there first and finish with him! But on a brave face...pretend you're having the best time.. flirt with other boys... spend some quality time with your friends... if he's really the one he'll see what he's missing and come running back... if he doesn't then he's not the one and not worth getting upset over! Good luck!

Answer 20

so it seems this guy pretty much just wants to move on, if thats the road he wants to travel, its gotta happen you know?

Just sit by him tommorrow and maybe **** wont go south

there is still a chance he will realize how much he likes you and how special you are

but if shits going down, there isnt much you can do to stop it

so just face the music

Answer 21

Calm down don't sit with him in history i know how it feels just avoid seeing him it will help and engage in some activity he is not included in to make yourself happy

Answer 22

let me start off by saying that this is the longest question i have ever read......anyways.......u'll get over him trust me. it will only require a bit of time and an attitude that wont permit u to try to be with him or get back together. he did u dirty, find someone worth it

Answer 23

ignore him and jsut don't even look at him, but have fun with your friends to show that you're not bothered by him, it might make him feel left out and regret it. and to make yourself feel better: watch a film you know makes you laugh, buy a pet (like a gerbil or something) or if you're into it, play a video game-it made me feel better when i lost my pet, might work for you!

Answer 24

slap him round the face and knee him in manly parts x

Answer 25

Get over it.....is he really worth all of this?? NO!!

Answer 26

superglue any good