Question:
Do you think its in bad taste to ask a girl out when her grandmother just died?
2012-04-12 13:06:52 UTC
So ive had my eye on this girl for a while, we are friendly enough to each other, but recently she has been rather depressed.

Her grandmother just died as of today, and i was wondering when a good time would be to ask her out, i have been getting mixed responses as to do it now or to wait a while.

Shes a very nice, friendly girl, but her recent emotional trauma, might set her off and make her hate me.

What do you think

Im in highschool and so is she
Five answers:
2012-04-12 13:10:33 UTC
Wait a few weeks and be there for her as a friend during this time. If you did ask her out now, she would either be annoyed because you aren't very sensitive or if she said yes your anniversay would be marred by being around the time her grandmother died. Plus if you wait yet help her through this time as a friend, she may be more likely to say yes to you later :) Good luck
gabrielson
2016-10-21 15:29:56 UTC
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EdmJunkie
2012-04-12 13:10:04 UTC
Honestly, give her some time, a couple weeks, then just ask her to go out for a little to get her mind of everything.. She needs time to gather all thats happened right now :) best of luck!! xx
2012-04-12 13:09:59 UTC
No. Use some common sense man. Never take advantage of a woman when someone in the family has passed and her mind is depressed.



It is *NOT* a window for opportunity.
❣iLoveSlimShady❣
2012-04-12 13:09:43 UTC
please dont lol.she might think ur trying to take advantage of how vulnerable she is right now because she is so sad. and if she says no then she shouldnt have to deal with the guilt of makeing you feel bad, added onto the greif of her grandmothers death. i would wait at least two weeks :/ GOOD LUCK!!!!


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