would you be hurt if your 'bf' sed this?

Question

ok.....i kinda dont want to type this, even though it happened a few days ago its just now sinking in wat my 'bf' sed.
but i want to know wat you guys think or wat i shuold do.

(yes i know its kinda long but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE read it)

so everything was going fine with me and my bf at first,
he wud always txt me first,
and say he wanted to see me,
would be like 'guess who i love' and i wud say who, he would say me.
one time we were txting for 7 hrs till we fell asleep.

then he would went to meet after school everyday..so we did
he would say he wanted to hold hands, and sum times we did.
and we woud sneak out of or houses just to see each other
and he was the first guy i had kissed,
and sum thing that i thought was really sweet was he sed after we had kissed he txted me that that was awsome,
and i sed i guess but then i sed jk it was,
and he was like ít was our first kiss' :)

and he was the first guy i had made out with too.
he would always look for me at school and after school
and it seemed like he really did like me..

but then i got my fone taken away and havent talked in a while (like a month)
we only talk at school now.
i called him once on my house fone just so he would have that number, but i havent called him back and he hasnt called me, and its been a long time since i called. but im ok with it though since i dont really like talking on the fone.

and his friends know we are going out and so do mine. and im pretty sure the whole school knows cuz i think they have seen us hold hands and kiss, and when i sed that it was weird that people would stare at us when we were kissing he sed he didnt care if they stared.

so then one day i went to me friend house and txted him on her fone, and i was all excited cuz i would get to talk to him finaly but he didnt answer till the next day, he asked who this was and thats when i thought we should say its someone eles, jus to mess with him. so we did and he was like
'how do i konw u'
us, 'we were hangin with som friends'
'cool so how u get this number'
us, 'i got it from a friend cuz i was shy to talk to u and i like you'
us 'do you have a gf?'
'not really'....

he sed not really? why wud he say that?
than he sed that there was this one girl that really liked him but he didnt really like her, wat? that is BS then why tha hell did he want to hold my hand and all that ****?
we asked why he didnt like her, he sed he didnt really know her. and that was wen i realized that we didnt really talk about our lives to each other.
then he asked this imaginary girl if he would see her at school the next day. i was like oh my god.. he would cheat on me.

i saw him at school the next day but didnt talk to him cuz he was with his friends so i walked past him and didnt really look at him, rite wen i walked past some one sed "oh ****' im not sure if it was one of his friends but it sounded like he sed it.

but i dont want to break up cuz i DO want to get to know him better, but now im not so sure that he wants to get to know me better. and we have only been together for 2 months.
now that we are on winter break i think this whole situation is going to get worse since we wont talk all break.

(oh and when we were friends we would talk all the time and we would flirt and stuff, but i didnt really ever picture us going out. i was just trying to be his friend. he liked me before i liked him and then he asked me out.)

why would he do this? cuz this i really messed up. what should i do?

Answer 1

How old are you? This all seems like pretty juvenile stuff. I wouldn't sweat it.

Answer 2

Oh wow, i read the whole thing...



Wow sweetie,



I think the best thing to do is break up ,

He doesnt seem intrested in you, expecially if he would talk to a "random" stranger and say not really and what not...i mean..somethings up, if you want try calling him and work thigns out, or jus break it off and become friends, if that is what you want.





You prob would want some space...but who knows, i know you wanna be wit him but there is just times when ::hes jsut not that into u...he lost intrest. so eaither spark the intrest or break up...





Good luck sweetie,

Answer 3

Honestly, I think you should break up with him. Why? Because he's an over all JERK!

How can he forget all the special things you to have done together, just over some stranger? (which was even an imaginary stranger, at that). And if that stranger was real? Yes, he would have cheated on you already. He would have thrown all that away.

Best Wishes! :)

~HUGS~

Answer 4

oh toddler as quickly as you question your self you're lost and turn gruesome. NO you're no longer gruesome in actuality you're beautiful and consistently think of beautiful and you will see and be attractive

Answer 5

well to be honest i would tell him i need a break see how he reacts if he says okay don't really show any emotions and if he really likes you he will try to get back with you. but remember that whatever happens life will go on and things will get better

Answer 6

well first things first. does he know your phone is taken away. if he doesn't then he thinks you don't care about him because you don't talk to him.

If he knows you phone is taken away, and he said that, i don't know,

1. he may not like you anymore

2. he doesn't think you care

3. he doesn't care

4. or (I'm sorry) it might be over...

I'm sorry if its 1,3, or 4... especially 4. good luck with him.

Answer 7

He's putting up a front.

And he likes the attention from more then just ONE girl.

PLAYER

Answer 8

Clearly you like texting, did you text this in, learn how to spell and write you bum. Yes you are messed up.

Answer 9

Boy that's two minutes of my life i can never get back

Answer 10

Too Long to Read. FREE POINTS!

Answer 11

yeah that was pretty a$$hole-y. sounds like he's not that into anymore......you should break up with him! you can do so much better , just remember that you're worth it :)

Answer 12

This is way to long. You need to sum this up.

Answer 13

get over it he isnt woth it he dont feel that way bout you. find someone who does like you.

Answer 14

I didn't read this. He did it because he hates you. Dump him. Or date him. I don't care.