Did she cross the line of friendship (with my boyfriend)?

Question

i dislike a girl friend of my boyfriend. cause she two-time her ex and her ex ex at the same time.
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To start, my boy is friendly and nice to everyone. He finds it rude not to reply his friends if they text him. He is the most faithful guy and there s no doubt abt that.

As for the girl, she texted my boy about every alternate days on random stuff - which my bf will reply. But nothing about love or flirt and such. and it's like a few topics and then my bf just don't reply her.

But question is, have that girl crossed the line? she texted my boy every alternate days.

And 2 nights ago, i texted her to let her know how i felt about it. Said she understood but for the next 2 morning straight, she tag him on Facebook. Which my friends said she is intentionally doing it cause she likes him and is jealous of my position.

Also, i've talked to my boy about this. But it just seems like he's not understanding enough cause he said he just wants to be strictly friend with her but at the same time don't wanna lose me. He can't decide.

What should I do then? and do you think the girl crossed the line as friend?

Answer 1

It sounds like she is jealous but as long as you trust your boyfriend then you don't have anything to worry about. She hasn't crossed any lines in my opinion, but she doesn't seem to respect your wishes. Just don't let her get under your skin, because that can cause problems between you and your boyfriend.

Answer 2

My mother always told me to do this is a situation (just like yours) that my best friend C**** also has a best friend, we both hate each other. She said if you go to C**** and say stuff about the other best friend, then she'll lean more towards her. But if you both ***** about each other, she'll move along.....



So my point being is, just chillax. Don't stress, but be loyal.

Answer 3

If the two of them are just friends, no. If the messages were just about completely non-flirty things, and nothing is being hidden from you (that's key) then I wouldn't worry. If your boyfriend isn't interested in her like that, and is totally honest with you about their communication, then even if she likes him she isn't really a threat, just a nuisance at most.

Answer 4

Well if shes not texting him about love or flirting or anything like that then i think its fine. Dont make a big deal out of it unless she actually tries to steal your boyfriend. Nobody like it when your bf or gf tells them to stop talking to their friend just because theyre the opposite sex

Answer 5

your boyfriend seem like just a friendly guy

and don't like to reject people ..

Answer 6

If you have trust on your boyfriend then you forget about that friend.

You just have to enjoy with your boyfriend.