I think 2day.., I'll ask u guyz this...Cos I fed up.?

Question

Pls help me out..

I use to luv 1 sweet gal in my freshman yr..
We had sum eye contact luv and stuffz..lyk dat.
But unfurtunately..I didnt have that strong hrt to approach her..
Now my rum mate is dating her..
My problem here is , It worries me alot when i see them making love.. but I dont want my mate 2 know ...the gal knows I like her..so she takes that advantage.. Cos it's
like she makes luv with him just 2 hurt me..I'm fed up with that..The worse part is when I'm in d rum and they come back 2gether at night..Ohh! Do u know what I can do..If u dont pls dont increase my stress..I beg u no insults..thnx.!

Answer 1

one thing that will help u definitely vud be u start showin that u really don't care...she vill be worried..she tries to show off cuz she knoe u feel bad seeing them both together...and other thing try and feel u deserve a girl better then dis one ..try and find a new one ...all da best

Answer 2

first of all them having sex while ur there is just wrong.ur room mate is totally disregardin ur feelings and not showing her much respect.well i guess for him to show her respect she will have to start respecting herself first.anyway i think its time u had a man to man chat with ur room mate explaining to him that u dont feel comfortable him having sex with his girlfriend while u r in the room.this is ur room too and that u know that they will have to have sex but just not when ur there,and also if he wants to have sex with her while ur in ur room he should have the courtesy to inform u so that u can decide whether u want to be there or not and also if its ok.tell him bruv i understand u got needs during the day its fine i can just leave the room or go out somewhere for the day but dont take the piss when im trying to sleep u bring ur girlfriend over and have sex with her while im in the room,where am i suppose to go then.leave the room and go sleep in the corridor.bruv think abt it and trust me if i was doing the same thing u would not like it,coz it aint nice.just tell him all that or maybe ur own way just lay it all down on the table and ask him to take ur feelings into consideration.and a lil advice to u next time they'r in ur room having sex,leave like u dont care.i know girls like her,shez probably got him just where she wants him and u too by the sounds of it,dont let her get to u,act like u dont care,u aint bothered,like she is nobody,dont even acknowledge her,even when u say hi to her say it without looking her in the eyes,pretent to be looking for something and then pretent uv found it and leave the room,just as the door is closing shout bye from the corridors.dont give her importance,it was just a flipping crush not love and she aint worth it.goodluck

Answer 3

they have sex in front of you??????

first of all that is sick.

(sorry)



and anyway, are you sure you loved this person even though you never spoke to her?? you just threw a few glances in each others directions.



maybe you are just feeling left out and you want to have someone. like your room mate does.



if this is really hurting you, you need to talk to either the girl or your room mate about this.

you have to live there and you shouldn't feel uncomfortable in your own room.



just be honest with them and get it off your chest, you will feel a whole lot better.

and then they will realise how it is effecting you.





good luck :)

Answer 4

It's not "luv" if you just make eye contact...maybe you should get over it and stop watching them have sex. You should find a nice young lady who can teach you the english language. I don't think you even know what you are talking about, I'm not sure if I know either.

Answer 5

you know your going to ante up and say or talk to her and your friend and say that you used to date her but you dont feel comfortable when they come in to the room late and start making out you have to express how you feel uncomfortable and tell them that and have the respect to follow your wishes and to be considerate about what you and your ex had before and that you dont want to hear or see them making out when your their.i hope this helps and god bless.

Answer 6

if your boy knew oyu guys had some eye contact thing in the past.... make sure he knows now that she shouldnt be with him and catch her out on a lie with him their.... but other than that dont talk to her

Answer 7

Do you think its interesting to watch someone you love.. having sex with another person... gosh.. that's gross...



Get yourself a partner.. she if she's had an aching heart too.. but make sure you must love your partner... else your admired woman might tried to seduce you...

Answer 8

no offence but really there is not much you can do besides wait, sabotige (not recomended unless you want to screw your room mate over) and learn some grammer and spelling in the meantime

Answer 9

one, why do you stay there when they have sex ? that is gross

two, why would you want a girl like that who is taking advantage of the situation?

Answer 10

move out coz she only does it coz it turns her on knowing u want her why she makes love to ur roomate...ur right she does do it to get to u coz it turns her on so move out i bet they dont stay togethor for long ay!

Answer 11

Act like it doesn't bother you, she obviously loves the attention!

Answer 12

Don't get oneitis. Move on. Plenty more

Answer 13

'' when i see them making love''

WHOA NOW.

You watch them having sex? o.O

Just walk out and show you're not bothered, even though you are?

Or toss them both out of them room again?