How does one meet people in these modern days when I don't exactly care for places like clubs or bars?

Question

I am 26 and still live at home not much by choice, but it is just in the cards I was dealt, figuratively speaking. I really want to meet some women and start to try and have some sort of relationship life, but it eludes me how to meet people now.

Where I live there aren't parks, ball fields, skating places, etc. With the lack of places to meet and interact with people readily available, it stumps me where to meet new people other than the net.

Where would be a great suggested place to actually meet people?

Answer 1

Do you have the weekends off from your job or do you have a day off in the middle of the week? No matter. Why don't you travel to the nearest city on the weekend and get a room. Get out and about and go to those places; Amusement Parks, musical concerts, and interesting events where you'd meet the kind of girl you like. Attend Church Young Adult meetings etc. You'll need to brush up on your social skills of course. Make eye contact and seek out those girls that appeal to you.



Anyway, that's what I would do.



I had a gf who began visiting every Church in a 50 mile radius, attending activities in her age range and finally she met a guy; they hit it off right away and now they are engaged and making wedding plans.

Answer 2

Hah, the best way to meet people these days at online. I know this sounds weird, but take it from someone who have used apps like Whisper to meet people. Its not risky if you make sure you talk to them for a while and see if you're interests are similar. It's anonymous until you want to let them know information about you. Share pictures and whatnot. I have met a few people on Whisper in my area and they all seemed really nice and interesting.

Answer 3

try and join clubs or societies that you're interested in.



Take a class or something which involves other people. (Gym, yoga, etc.) and socialise, whilst improving yourself.



....also in yoga you get to see girls bend over

Answer 4

Starbucks and barnes and nobel lol works for me. or you cane try online thats a good option as well

Answer 5

Try an online dating site. Match.com is good but you have to pay for it. OkCupid is ok and it's free.