Am I being friendzoned?

Question

Hi, my name is Brian and Im 20 years old. I recenently met a girl on facebook, that goes to my school. Long story short, I asked when school started on a college class facebook page. She responded. I messaged her asking about her classes ect.. We bagan talking, over facebook and eventually text.

We never met at school but about a week and a half later we arranged a date and I picker her up and took her out to dinner and to a movie. We had a great time and I thought it went really well. We still texted and talked just about all day everyday. Sometimes even really late, like until 1 or 2am. I know that I was the only person she was talking to aswell because of how fast she responded.

I try to hint at liking her, and try to make it known, withouth being to obvious. Just little things while we text. Its been about a week since our first date. I set up going to a coffee place with her during lunch during this upcoming week, since we both go to the same school, that shouldnt be that hard.

I just dont really understand If I am being friendzoned or not. She seems to ignore all of my hints, and never really makes it known whether she likes me or not. But just about every text has a smiley or something in it.

I am not head over heels for this girl, but she is somebody I could see myself hanging out with alot in the future. I just want to know what this girl is trying to do.

I also dont want to make myself seem (I dont know the word), but I dont want to just flat out say "So do you like me?? Or...?"

She texts me everyday, uses smileys, and stays up late texting me. But ignores all of my hints.

Any advice?

Thank you very much for your time, have a great day.

Brian

Answer 1

I think you need to look at this, this way: men and women have 2 totally different minds. The hints you're dropping may not seem like hints to her and the hints she may have been dropping may not be obvious to you. I think the best thing you need to do is be honest with her. If you're not ready to do that, then I would just let things develope over time. But keep dropping hints and maybe push the hints a little further and make it more obvious.

(check out my question. Its similar and quite frankly idk what to do)

Answer 2

Sounds like she is playing hard to get. I think she could be into you because if a girl doesn't want to lead a guy on; she doesn't text him late at night. & her responses will be short. But since she doesn't do this- I think she likes you!

Maybe she wants you to make the first big move. Maybe she doesn't get the hints. Ask her to dinner or a movie.

If she says ok but let me take a friend with us; then your in the friend zone. Good Luck

Answer 3

I'm a girl & understand totally. Sometimes I guess hints arnt enough because this guy has been flirting a lot and people say I'm stupid because he likes me but I still don't see it. Until you just flat out tell her, she will always have doubts haha

Answer 4

She may actually like you.

Answer 5

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6P26BdXEcp4