does my boyfriend love me or is it just in my head?

Question

i live in Michigan, and he lives in new York..
he says he loves me but sometimes i'm just not that sure..
he is a "hard to communicate with" kind of guy
he tried his everything to make me be his gf, because he knew i loved him, but i kept saying no because i thought that long distance never works..
when i told him i will wait to have sex, he wasnt very happy, but he did not make a big deal out of it either.
i don't think he is using me because if he wanted me for sex, then why wait for a girl that is long distance, instead of having one night stands with girls that are close ti him.. (if you know what i mean)
he is always a little jealous

once, i accused him of cheating( when he wasnt), and he said: "you know what, i dont care anymore, u just threw all my love away, and broke up with me.. (but them later we got back together)


so.. does he love me or is it just in my head?

Answer 1

He seems interested in you. When you told him you want to wait for sex and he's not happy about it, he didn't make such a fuss about it. It shows that he understands and he's not just looking for you JUST to have sex. He only wants to have sex with you ONLY if you feel ready. And he's also willing to have a relationship with you EVEN if it's long-distance. Love takes time to build. Love ain't gonna come in the blink of an eye. If he does love you, you'll know it.

Answer 2

Honey I hate to be the one to tell you but 1. long distance relationships don't work and 2. a guy will tell you anything in order to get you to sleep with them. I would just end things with him and find a guy close by that can appreciate the fact that you want to wait to have sex.

Answer 3

He's keeping you around as a back up. It doesn't sound like a healthy or normal relationship. In fact, he probably is cheating. Just stop messing around with some guy across the country.

Answer 4

he sounds like a ***** asss sspecialy the little "just threw my love way, dont care bout u, u broke up wit me" that fiago.. now like alsoooo howz he hard to communicate if u R clearly talk to him on phone and **** since u live a few towns apart? like its obvious if it isnt that u would do it just for love if u didnt why would it b like the tickets for the train or planes are expensive?? and also just like its idek y u think he was cheating huh? why did u say tahat without knowing huh??

Answer 5

definetly one of those guys. that is the problem with women, sometimes they can read men like a book but dont listen to their brain. he wasnt happy because u denied him sex that should tell u right there that is all he is interested in.

Answer 6

in your head.