My 14 year old best friend just lost his virginity, help?

Question

My 14 year old best friend just lost his virginity, help?

Answer 1

Yes there is a risk.



He should stop having sex underage for starters as the fact neither of them considered to use protection shows they are not responsible enough to make the decision to have sex let alone end up with a baby.



If she does end up believing she is pregnant and tries to go to the doctor for a test her parents will be informed. The best bet to find out when her next period is due is to take a home pregnancy test, if she does find out she is expecting and wants a termination again her parents would have to be informed and may have to give consent if it is a procedure she has to under go instead of the pill.



There are these websites they might find informative too:

http://www.condomessentialwear.co.uk/

http://www.ruthinking.co.uk/

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/safesex.htm



With regard to termination and teen pregnancy:

http://www.childline.org.uk/Info/SexHealth/Pages/Pregnancy.aspx?gclid=CI6bksmNhJgCFQsMGgodIzdoBw

http://www.womenshealthchannel.com/teenpregnancy/index.shtml

http://www.womenshealthlondon.org.uk/leaflets/pregab/pregab.html

http://www.bpas.org/bpaswoman.php?page=18

Answer 2

What a bunch of drama. You need to let your mate, Ashley, and all them other foolishness handle their business and mind your own. There is nothing you can do about that. Leave it alone. Just like his parents can't be around him all the time, neither can you. The best you can do is tell him "he's screwing up his life" nothing more. It will be no one's fault but his own that he screwed up. Consider it a lesson to learn for you.

Answer 3

depends what law your guarded by but in UK hes still under 16 so its not as bad as it could be. however this pregnancy is serious when ur young your sperm is most active so its got the best chance of getting a girl pregnant. my advice get the morning after pill. however underage sex happens everywhere despite laws. at the end of the day its your mates choice. but i would really try and persuade her if she wants to have sex with 'john' try and persuade her into using a condom. and persuade her into morning after pill but its effectiveness reduces with every day.

Answer 4

yes pregnancy is always a possibility. some times there is sperm that sticks to the vaginal walls and when the period is over it finds itself to the egg and BAM a baby

i would go out and buy him some condoms i know it kind of seems like your encouraging it but if hes going to atleast he will be protected.

Answer 5

if she doesn't get her period then she's screwed up... totally.. don't go telling her about the signs of pregnancy and everything directly, she's gonna freak out and will start feeling preggy!.. hmm.. but if it turns out she's not pregnant then she's in luck.. try to talk some sense to your mate into not making another thing that would lead to a huge problem.. but it's actually up to her (ashley) in the end if she choose to believe you (duh!)... she's gotta figure it out for herself what she's really gonna do...

Answer 6

u hav 2 remember dat there isnt also jus da risk of pregnancy.....theres also da risk of gettin an STD.....so make sure dey kno dat 2.....dat should help dem a little more wit understandin it....da thing about tryin 2 stop dem iz really goin 2 be hard 2 do....or maybe even impossible....so da best thing u can do iz mak sur 2 let dem kno dat wen dey r havin "relations" den dey need 2 hav protection or else there could be a possibility of her gettin pregnant....or dem gettin an STD....maybe even show dem sum pics of people who hav a certain STD or a movie on a girl dat got pregnant ( it dont hav 2 be lik an educational 1 .....it could be any1 movie dat iz out there....any movie dat show da girl gettin pregnant and how her life iz.....i recommend a lifetime movie...i forgot wat its called though...i think its mom at 17...try searchin 4 it...its good....)....but dats da best thing u can do ....u cant really stop dem....but u can warn dem and pray dat they'll be all right....and dey should hav seen da videos about dis in health class so dey should kno but if dey havnt den of course dey wont....but believe me if u do wat i just told u they'll be scared 2 even touch each other...lol....but jus tell dem dat u kno cant stop dem and ur jus tryin 2 warn dem cause u care.....u could do dis even as an intervention or wateva between u and all ur otha friends....k.....good luck!!!!.....and yes there iz still a risk of her gettin pregnant....

Answer 7

yes, preggy is definitely possible.

tell them both ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

an added ltl piece of advice-IF no-WHEN they "do it" again-and they WILL-tell them 2 BAG IT!!!!! not JUST bcuz they dont want ltl johnnies or ltl katies running around, either. do the letters STDs mean anything?

Answer 8

1) YES! get the morning after pill!

Answer 9

1. No

2. Tell her not to see him again

She's so young. I'm afraid her parents will send him to jail if they know what has happened.

Answer 10

yes, pregnancy should be a very real concern in her case.

i think it's a bit too late. you'll just have to wait to see how

everything turns out.

Answer 11

maybe you should talk to his big brother again bout it and get him to talk bout it