Should I send naughty pics to fiance?

Question

my fiance recently asked me to send him naughty pics of me to help him through lonely nights. he's in the army and we haven't seen each other for almost a year. should i send the pics and if i don't would this be unfair to him.

Answer 1

yes you should.

me and my husband were far from each other for awhile (when we were engaged), and we both sent each other naughty pics, which helped alot.

Answer 2

Sure why not? I would be ok with it. Just beware that some one else might see it so make it tasteful. You could just send a topless picture at first and then eventually send a picture that's showing a bit more and then another picture showing more than the last. That way the anticipation of the next picture hes going to receive will make him really hot. Im surprised at how prude some of the answers have been.

Answer 3

DONT send naughty pics to ANYONE......fiance or not. Once those pics are out of your hands you have no idea where they will end up! You'll be taking a huge risk if you do this and I think it would be very foolish of you.

Answer 4

Are you comfortable giving him those pics (or him seeing you like that). If so, he would certainly enjoy it. I don't mean to sound harsh, but he's going to fantasize about someone, so you might at least encourage him to fantasize about you (it can even be in an after-marriage context). There is a chance he will share them or they will be seen by others though, so perhaps giving him something to keep him warm at night (could be a letter, a love note, whatever) will help satisfy him and keep you comfortable. (And he'll be thinking about you!)

Answer 5

I understand him wanting some pics...but I don't recomend it cause if you ever brake up you'll be wondering where those pictures are...and imagine he wanted revenge for something..........if you don't send them it's not unfair cause it's your body, not his....



how about if you just send him normal pics? or maybe in a bikini at the pool? He'll like that you're in a bikini... and if anybody sees them.. well it's just a pic taken at the pool..it's not like if you were in your underwear

Answer 6

No I do not think you should send the pictures. Although you love him and he is far away, you would not be doing him wrong by not sending them. Those pictures could end up in other peoples hands and you wouldn't want other men to see those pictures for your fiance.

Answer 7

I believe that you should save your body for when you are married. Think about it, he may be lonely now, but how much better will your wedding night be when he sees you naked for the first time and it's all in the covenant of marriage. Plus you could send him cards, emails, and modest pictures to get him through the loneliness. I mean, why do they have to be naughty? Shouldn't he appreciate any picture that you send him, I mean he should if he really loves you and I'm sure the does. But I'm sure it'll be so much better if you wait for your wedding night! =)

Answer 8

Send nice pics and naughty ones, just tell him he has to send some back to you! LOL.

Answer 9

If he is in the army, I say go ahead and do it. Poor guy has been lonely for awhile, just be glad he isn't looking for it somewhere else. I see no problem with it.

Answer 10

well. if hes your fiance. why not? its not like your a teenage girl or something. if you guys haven't seen each other for that long. i probably would. just nothing TO revealing. yous are gonna have sex eventually. so i don't see anything wrong with showing your body

Answer 11

me and ma gf send them to each other, we are in a ldr, have been for nearly a year and will be till july. It rly helps and gives some intimacy until your together agian.

Answer 12

If you want to and you trust him and KNOW you're gonna be w.him forever...then go ahead. Do remember he could easily show his friends, but that goes back to the trust aspect.

If you're questioning it, don't do it.

It wouldn't be unfair if you didn't send it b/c you're not ready and he needs to respect that.

Answer 13

Being a guy I would say no, because he wont be the only one looking. And if he is offended, then he does not love you for you but what you have.

Answer 14

Well if he decided to go to the army then its no ones fault but his own why he is lonely. No one told him to leave you to go millions of miles away. Just tell him you don't feel comfortable.

Answer 15

Ok...this is an interesting question.



I would say that if you do, hide your full face.



Also, use a camera with a timer and let him know that. This way, he won't wonder, "those are great. I wonder who took them."

Answer 16

if you trust him and you feel comfortable definitely yes because he wouldn't show them to no body i don't think because some one sent me some pics and i have never told or showed and it would piss me off if some one else seen them

Answer 17

You should if you want to, but remember he's around a bunch of other guys who might see them by mistake so don't go to far with them

Answer 18

He is a soldier .. Better a picture of you then the other guys on base, stuff happens ...

Answer 19

everytime i've seen my friends send dirty pictures, something has gone wrong.

they show other people, they forward it, someone steals their phone and forwards it. they break up and he gets so mad that he posts it everywhere.

idk its just not a good idea

Answer 20

No you should not send him pics like that it will destroy the relationship.

Answer 21

you can do something fun and enticing but dont be to scandalous, because its more than likely his buddies will end up seeing them.

Answer 22

Haha I cant wait to see these on the internet.

Answer 23

Never send any dirty pix, chances are they will be shared.

Answer 24

well he just need some material to whack off to

Answer 25

If you are fully comfortable with it, I say go ahead.

Answer 26

No.

You never know where they would be going.

You never know who he would show (no matter how much you trust him).

Just... No.

Answer 27

if you trust that he wont share them with his army buddies...

Answer 28

Well, he does miss you and some spankin' material would be nice.



Just sayin'...

Answer 29

i wouldnt... just maybe pics of you.

Answer 30

Sure!

Answer 31

yaa i guess

Answer 32

sureee.

Answer 33

NO WAY

Answer 34

sure, why not?