could u ever trust a girl that u met on a sex and swingers site?

Question

I met this woman on a sex and swingers site, at first i didnt know she was married until she told me about a month later. she ended up leaving her husband and im just curious if shes a woman that i could ever really trust?

Answer 1

It depends, but it doesn't sound too likely.



Just because she was on a sex/swinger site doesn't mean you can't trust her. Did her husband know she was doing that? Is it something they did together? If so, not a big deal. On the other hand, if she did that behind her husband's back before they split up, that's a signal she might not be one to be trusted.



Most trustworthy swingers will tell you upfront exactly what their relationship status is. Her being married and not telling you probably means she was trying to find someone that her husband wouldn't know about. I'd steer clear.

Answer 2

Well, since you were on the same swingers site looking for a woman, are you a person she could ever trust?



What you are insinuating is that since she is a swinger and likes sex that she's not to be trusted to not cheat on you. She could be asking you the same question.



The fact of the matter is, swinging is not about cheating, it's about sharing and being allowed to explore yourself and your sexuality. It's about not being controlled by your partner, but rather your partner rejoices in who you are. My wife and I are faithful to each other and honest with each other. We have no reason to sneak around and cheat because we don't have to. And that's not about sex. It's because we have a very good relationship and are very much in love with each other. When people cheat it's because they are looking for something they are unable to get in their relationship and their partner is unwilling to even consider it. Very few affairs are just about sex. It goes much deeper than that and sex is simply a byproduct of finding that deeper connection with that person.



If everything is good in your relationship, no sex, no matter how good with someone else, would ever be enough to make your partner drift away. Swinging is the icing on the cake. Your primary relationship is the cake.

Answer 3

well you're probably just a rebound for her, but seriously if you really like her, and want it to work, trust her

Answer 4

UHHHHHhh No!!! She hasn't been real honest with you yet. Good Luck xox

Answer 5

probably not