How do you know if its right to move away from a signficant other? Am I making a mistake by moving to nyc?

Question

WE just met this past summer - we took things slow, real slow, just dated while seeing other people. I made my plans not based around him. NYC in Jan... but now we are close, we are exclusive and Im not sure I want to walk away from him. Deep down I think have to leave for my own life but I dont want to leave him.

Answer 1

love is a question of what you really want to do. Most people are torn by questions of the heart. The best thing to do is flip a coin. Now I know what your thinking. But if you Flip a coin and its an A or B choice and it comes out A and you have the desire to flip it agian You really want it to be B. Use this a tool

Answer 2

really think about it. do u need him and can u possibly live without him in your life.if u think about him allday everyday then u cant leave u need him. but make sure he feels the same for you. because it cant be a one way street. it all depends on what you're moving to nyc for. if its for a job then i think ya'll should work it out that he comes along or something in the end just follow your heart life is never promised

Answer 3

just go, its better being single anyhow. NYC sucks for dating though. good luck.