What do I say to this girl?

Question

So theres a girl I met a few days ago. I really like her, and from how she was acting around me the other day, I thought she might like me. It will be a while before I get to see her again, if at all, because she is very busy, so weve been messaging back and forth on facebook the last couple days. But as far as talking online goes, she is the kind of girl who does not put much into a conversation- she mainly just answers my questions and responds really basically. And I keep bringing up new topics when she lets it come to a standstill, but i dont know how long that can go on. Does it mean she doesnt like me if she isnt talking much?? Should I keep trying to talk to her, or give it up and just catch up when/if I see her again??

Answer 1

my girlfriend was the same way when we met, and stayed that way for most of our relationship. I know its hard, but if she is talking to you at all she has some interest. So keep it up, try your best to come up with new topics, she will either get bored and quit talking to you, or if like it sounds to me, she will open more up to you as you go. It took me 2.5 months of facebook, and texting, cause she was very busy for anything else, to get official with her. Its worth it if you like her, so just keep in mind that the pay off will make you forget about all the trouble you went through. My relationship only lasted 3 months, but i still dont regret the effort i put in at the beginning, it was worth every minute of it. Good luck

Answer 2

Dude, rule number one in successful dating: DON'T ASSUME!!!! She isn't talking much means ONLY that she isn't talking much. That's the only thing you know for sure. Remember, she gets to talk to you, not the other way around. You like her, but you don't need her approval. I want you to remember that if she's not willing to put in the time with you, you don't deserve that. But also, don't take online personally. Online people can seem rushed and rude, but it's just because it's online. Trust me. Just ask the girl out if you want to. Only way to know and by waiting, you're not going to get anywhere. We're dying every second of every day and if you ask now, you can either start a relationship, or move on to someone who will care about you as much as you care about them. :) Best of luck bro

Answer 3

Well my friend if you like her as a friend it doesn't mean girlfriend,She isn't talk Much because she has been Busy doing other things, and you two been talking on Facebook but don't change the Topic,So be yourself and be a man of Honnor

Answer 4

It might not mean that she doesn't like you much she just might actually be shy you never know. I think that you should keep trying to talk to her and she if she acts any different.

Answer 5

dude.... GO FOR IT SHE TOTALLY LOVES YOU just try to tell her your feelings and go from there