WTF did I do wrong? Please help?

Question

I'm talking to my girl on the phone today and she's all happy. We going to a baseball game on Friday and my sisters going also. Now my sister said she was driving so my girl wanted to confirm it and I told her that:

Me: maybe if she has plans and maybe can't make it then I'll drive.
Her: your an ahole.. I hate people like that.. That make you book a ticket and Maybe not go. Makes me want to give the ticket away
Me: wtf are you talking about I said if anything happens
Her: yeah then your a maybe also . Maybe I should give your ticket away
Me: WTF are you talking about can we change the subject and drop it
Her: I can't talk to you right now

WTF did I do ? Was I being unreasonable or said something wrong? She's not on her period ...

Answer 1

In that moment no you didn't.



And I do think i know what is wrong.... and how to fix it.



Alright. First off looks like she just wanted to not go and get out of the moment. Nothing you can do. Simply just ignore her. You gotta make her want you. Try and get another girl to not become girlfriends just hang out and try to get the rumour around. Then she'll see that your getting all grabbed up by another girl or something.... she'll basically miss you and want you back. So you can either go with her back (which i wouldn't cause if she was an as* or ditched you once she'll do it again. I promise.) or with the new girl.



Dude dont get so paranoid over it. If you got one girl there is another where that came from. lol. There are literally thousands or millions of cute girls right now that you can grab up right now. lol it's no bigge.



Also try to go out with some guy friends some times. Cause sometimes they hook you up with a cute girl or something. I donno. Plus they get your mind off of things.... you know?

Answer 2

Wow, she's a complete idiot. As far as you've described, you didn't say anything wrong. She's not worth it. It sounds like she's just using you to let her get what she wants and she'll pout if things don't go her way immediately.



EDIT: People are saying that you should apologize for no reason whatsoever. I would advise against this so that she doesn't dominate you.

Answer 3

She just doesn't want your sister's plans to control her life with you. Tell her that you are sorry, you didn't think things through, that you will drive. Tell your sister to get alternate transportation. If it's her car, perhaps you should rent a car to take. Or perhaps you should kick the high maintenance gf to the curb. Get one with a car.

Or not. Your call.

Best wishes.

Answer 4

wow , that is a total lack of communication. That's frustrating. My advice is to ask, nicely, for her to explain why she is so mad. tell her that she is not being fair to you by not letting you know what you did so you can CHANGE it. If you don;t know what you did then you can;t fix it. If you get upset with her it'll only make things worse, I know that can be difficult...it's easier said then done, but do your best to stay calm.



Sorry, but she seems really immature to me. Good Luck!

Answer 5

My ex wife was like that. She watched too many soaps on TV. She identified with the characters. She felt she wasn't normal if she wasn't having an emotional crisis every 15 minutes. So she set out to precipitate one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Good luck.



For me, there was no light at the end of the tunnel. It just got worse. Drama Queens!! Who needs them????

Answer 6

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Answer 7

What the...? No offense but she has issues. I would be totally fine with what you said. I guess her issue would be here:

"maybe if she has plans and maybe can't make it then I'll drive."



But I don't even understand why lol...?

Answer 8

dude, you didn't do anything wrong. she's the one who has problems. i mean, what is her problem anyway?



about this, you should talk to her and ask her why she was like that. who knows, she might be stressed or has problems that time.

Answer 9

u did nothin wrong, she trippin...

and maybe she really wanted u 2 go...

Answer 10

haha thats woman for you they can be bitches sometimes idk what shes trying to do sounds like shes pissed at you over something think about what youve done :/ lol it helps trust me just find something to say sorry about

Answer 11

its not what u said

its how u said it

Answer 12

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